my boy has a theory that ugly women do it best. I wouldn't know. .
but it's funny asking beautiful women that question and then telling them they must be really really bad in bed. It's a backhanded compliment.
Not all dimes are boring. Theres disappointments across the board. But I guess it sucks worse when the chick is a dime cause you were looking forward to it being worth it and good.
Confidence and other things like sexual polarity matters more than looks. Find other ways to show value and don't simp the dimes. It's the worst move ever to put them on a pedestal. First it raises their relative value to yours too high for you to get her. Second if she feels she's done some shyt and is no angel and hasn't gotten her shyt together. You treating her like she has screws you over cause she thinks this dude doesn't know the real me. Also a woman needs a man to lead and balance her emotional shyt.
So id say the problem is value management. Show some disinterest, do some push pulling etc. Sounds vague but I once got a girl interested cause I semi turned my back on her and started talking to my boys. She tapped my shoulder and was like I can't believe you did that. Another one i was dancing on and she kept being shy and rejecting my advances. I got through that in funny way. I told her to dance with my boy id come get her in few seconds once she started teasing him. We agreed on 7 seconds. but when I danced with her I'd push her away every seven seconds. It's stupid but by me pushing her away i wasn't giving her a chance to reject me. So it seemed she could have her fun and us splitting later would be easy.
The biggest thing about gaming dimes is that value management. Seeing you two as equals, you being a man and not being soft, then knowing they filter harder and are ready to reject so you play with her emotions, do some low key rejections of her, read her nicely. But It's hard for me to explain I got my own vocabulary for all this and what I aim for.
Figure out what works for you but shyt is possible breh
be thankful for youve got
