I've noticed a trend with black women.

[SeveroDrgnfli]

I date a lot. Lately I've been hearing girls say they gave up on wanting a family or a normal relationship because of the people they're around.

This explains so much of why women don't crave romance anymore. They're basically men now. They want money and good jobs. They're learning to wear a poker face, it's kind of funny, and very sad. Women used be unrealistically beautiful. Now it's like 1 out 3 doesn't remind me of a dude. And maybe 2 out of 8 are gorgeous. Most girls are attractive so that's average.

I met this girl and I took her out on the spot. We walked and talked for two hours. It was lit. Anyway, she's a keeper. As many black women are. They are the best group of women to make mom's out of. That's another thread though.

I've noticed that women are so frightened of being played again, or winding up with nothing they take no risks. That's lame as fukk. Love is a fukking risk. If you want to play it safe you deserve to be as lonely as you are.

If you're not willing to potentially have your heart broken then you don't deserve it. If you're not willing to forgive, grow, and love some more you don't deserve it.

Love isn't practical. Marriage isn't practical. Having kids in this hateful world isn't practical. fukk money. The absence of love and passion in the world is what turns me off from having kids.

Im scared man. Men are not romantic. Men are also followers. Few men are leaders. They do whatever women are into and whatever other men are doing.

Women should inspire and encourage romance. Men will not. Sometimes I'll say to a girl you haven't had anyone love you. I'm talking really love you. They damn near cry sometimes.

Gentleman, please, let's date more and dog less. Girls are frightened of us at this point in the game and they're trying to play like we play and now nobody wants anything real, so we're all just lying to each other.

 

[Dont@Me]

Sometimes I'll say to a girl you haven't had anyone love you. I'm talking really love you. They damn near cry sometimes.

Holy shyt... Imma use this to game bytches and lead em to false romance just to fukk em

 

[Woman of god]

This trend is not gender specific. Men, especially the men on here, are afraid of being "played" or of putting in more effort to pursue a woman than the man who came before him. Many men consider it some type of loss if the previous dude took her to mcdonald's and fukked on the second date, while he may take her to a five star restaurant and get no sex. Both groups are too worried about potential competition. That is lame.

Women and men both should only worry about themselves and the person they r pursuing. Whoever comes before or after u isn't ur concern. Obviously u don't want to ignore blatant warning signs , but overall just I think it's best to just focus on the 2 of u

 

[Malik1time]

Holy shyt... Imma use this to game bytches and lead em to false romance just to fukk em

 

[BmoreGorilla]

This trend is not gender specific. Men, especially the men on here, are afraid of being "played" or of putting in more effort to pursue a woman than the man who came before him. Many men consider it some type of loss if the previous dude took her to mcdonald's and fukked on the second date, while he may take her to a five star restaurant and get no sex. Both groups are too worried about potential competition. That is lame.

Women and men both should only worry about themselves and the person they r pursuing. Whoever comes before or after u isn't ur concern. Obviously u don't want to ignore blatant warning signs , but overall just I think it's best to just focus on the 2 of u

The sad part about the men on here who are afraid of getting played is that all their knowledge on women is second hand. They admit they're afraid to even approach women so we already know they don't get p*ssy. Everything they know is what they see on social media

And as a result they're now hard on hoes

 

[SeveroDrgnfli]

This trend is not gender specific. Men, especially the men on here, are afraid of being "played" or of putting in more effort to pursue a woman than the man who came before him. Many men consider it some type of loss if the previous dude took her to mcdonald's and fukked on the second date, while he may take her to a five star restaurant and get no sex. Both groups are too worried about potential competition. That is lame.

Women and men both should only worry about themselves and the person they r pursuing. Whoever comes before or after u isn't ur concern. Obviously u don't want to ignore blatant warning signs , but overall just I think it's best to just focus on the 2 of u

Well said.

 

[SeveroDrgnfli]

Holy shyt... Imma use this to game bytches and lead em to false romance just to fukk em

Lol I could give you my brain and you couldn't pull it off breh. It's not the words it's the conviction I speak with. I can say anything and make it sound good. I learned from the hustlers and the big homies how to have a killer mouth piece.

I use it to make money though, not play girls. Im not a player.

 

[Poitier]

Its only going to get worse

I hate those "date foreign" cats on here but if you want a woman who isn't participating in the rat race then it might be your best option.

 

[Neuromancer]

This trend is not gender specific. Men, especially the men on here, are afraid of being "played" or of putting in more effort to pursue a woman than the man who came before him. Many men consider it some type of loss if the previous dude took her to mcdonald's and fukked on the second date, while he may take her to a five star restaurant and get no sex. Both groups are too worried about potential competition. That is lame.

Women and men both should only worry about themselves and the person they r pursuing. Whoever comes before or after u isn't ur concern. Obviously u don't want to ignore blatant warning signs , but overall just I think it's best to just focus on the 2 of u

We've been agreeing a lot lately which scares me. But you're not wrong. I think we need to look at what causes this rampant fear. At the risk of sounding old I don't remember people being this scared in my day.

 

[Mowgli]

If you aren't infatuated with each other by date 2 it's going nowhere prosperous.

Unless it's an arranged marriage

 

[Woman of god]

We've been agreeing a lot lately which scares me. But you're not wrong. I think we need to look at what causes this rampant fear. At the risk of sounding old I don't remember people being this scared in my day.

LOL and what's wrong with agreeing with me ?

Honestly I think it might have to do with how open everybody is about everything. Men and women have always ran their mouths, but now it's so widespread with social media. You can see a girl snap.a pic of the nice meal she was treated to, and u can read her status on how she feels about the dude. Same for women. U can see all the comments and girls he's calling Beautiful and lusting over their pictures. Social media breeds doubt and insecurity on both sides. It just creates so many problems.

 

[SeveroDrgnfli]

Its only going to get worse

I hate those "date foreign" cats on here but if you want a woman who isn't participating in the rat race then it might be your best option.

I'm starting think you're right. I meet African and Carribean women at work. They're classic women. I met this girl who played soccer in Africa, speaks Portuguese, French, Spanish, Nigerian, and English. She can cook too. And she's a hustler.

If you aren't infatuated with each other by date 2 it's going nowhere prosperous.

Unless it's an arranged marriage

Facts. You gotta feel something early. I know when I love a girl within minute of meeting her. I spend the rest of my time with convincing her I do and that it'll work if she actually takes a risk. They want sure things and remaining alone is a sure thing.

 

[Mowgli]

I'm starting think you're right. I meet African and Carribean women at work. They're classic women. I met this girl who played soccer in Africa, speaks Portuguese, French, Spanish, Nigerian, and English. She can cook too. And she's a hustler.

Facts. You gotta feel something early. I know when I love a girl within minute of meeting her. I spend the rest of my time with convincing her I do and that it'll work if she actually takes a risk. They want sure things and remaining alone is a sure thing.

Many times the infatuation is purely physical and not true chemistry. A good woman can teach a man how to love because when you're really feeling the female, acts of love feel effortless compared to when you're doing something for a woman just to shut her up.

 

[Neuromancer]

LOL and what's wrong with agreeing with me ?

Honestly I think it might have to do with how open everybody is about everything. Men and women have always ran their mouths, but now it's so widespread with social media. You can see a girl snap.a pic of the nice meal she was treated to, and u can read her status on how she feels about the dude. Same for women. U can see all the comments and girls he's calling Beautiful and lusting over their pictures. Social media breeds doubt and insecurity on both sides. It just creates so many problems.

You know what's wrong with it. I'm a he-man woman hater and you're a feminist.


Yes. But it also seems like people like getting over on people. Dudes will be on a girls timeline or what ever simping and then some dude comes on posting a video of him raw dogging her. Conversely you have a woman who will post up a convo she had with a dude and his name is free food. People seem to enjoy making people the butt of jokes so they can be entertained or get attention. Idk if you read comics books but if so read a book called the Private Eye. It's about a world where social media no longer exists after everyone was exposed. The main character is a brotha.

 

[Koba St]

A lot of words yet basically saying nothing. Impressive.