I've noticed a trend with black women.

[Woman of god]

i thought you were too

I encourage respect and equality for BLACK women, but feminism as an actual social and political moment is some white people nonsense far as I'm concerned

 

[Neuromancer]

I encourage respect and equality for BLACK women, but feminism as an actual social and political moment is some white people nonsense far as I'm concerned

We gotta rap. Define equality are we talking socially and economical? How would you define it.

 

[BigMan]

OP all over the place

 

[Paradise]

Bless!! The people of the Coli are talking with some sense I'm proud of you guys.

Carry on....

 

[Just like bruddas]

This trend is not gender specific. Men, especially the men on here, are afraid of being "played" or of putting in more effort to pursue a woman than the man who came before him. Many men consider it some type of loss if the previous dude took her to mcdonald's and fukked on the second date, while he may take her to a five star restaurant and get no sex. Both groups are too worried about potential competition. That is lame.

Women and men both should only worry about themselves and the person they r pursuing. Whoever comes before or after u isn't ur concern. Obviously u don't want to ignore blatant warning signs , but overall just I think it's best to just focus on the 2 of u

 

[The M.I.C.]

I encourage respect and equality for BLACK women, but feminism as an actual social and political moment is some white people nonsense far as I'm concerned

Peace,

Curiosity piqued.

We gotta rap. Define equality are we talking socially and economical? How would you define it.

What my breh said

 

[SeveroDrgnfli]

What happened with that , breh? I was rooting for you.

She's still on deck. I take it slow with girls. I've got another girl I'm fascinated with but she's playing hard to get. She may be unattainable. But I'm being good, so we'll see what happens.

The girl I took on a bike date just got our of a long term relationship so Idunno I guess she wants to be on her own for a while. I respect that, but I'm not going to be friends with someone I want to date.

I can tell she likes me, but she's scared to take a risk. Lol its kind of funny how I'm willing to die in public to meet girls but they're not willing to make a move when the balls in their court.

Bike date girl is the light of my life. She's everything I wanted in a GF as a young man. Unattainable is like who I'd like to date while I grow into a man. She's sexy as fukk, artsy, and smart.

Africa is perfect for me now. I can tell she wants to fukk real bad, but I keep telling her we have to wait because if we do it it's not going to have the same value. She's falling for me but she doesn't want to I can tell. When she looks at me and her eye twinkle she turns away. It's cute. I make her nervous

 

[BmoreGorilla]

Peace,

Yeah..I grew out of that shyt quick. You're not going to be attractive to everyone whom YOU are attracted to, gotta face reality and deal with it.

You learn a lot of from rejection. It helps mold your perspective and also can be a motivating factor in pursuing change from within, the problem is that a lot of people are not mentally tough enough to deal with even a brief let down.

I don't give a fukk. I rolled up on a beautiful woman at a Walmart a few days ago wearing some hawaiian shorts, flip flops with white socks and a white t-shirt and still got play....surprisingly. It's about the mentality.

You hit the nail on the head. Its all about mentality and how you carry yourself. Most of these young cats don't know how to lose and that's why they cant deal with rejection. I grew up playing sports year round and learned early in life how to lose. And Im super competitive so I hate losing with a passion but its a part of life we cant avoid

 

[Ol’Otis]

i gotta start dating again

 

[Neuromancer]

She's still on deck. I take it slow with girls. I've got another girl I'm fascinated with but she's playing hard to get. She may be unattainable. But I'm being good, so we'll see what happens.

The girl I took on a bike date just got our of a long term relationship so Idunno I guess she wants to be on her own for a while. I respect that, but I'm not going to be friends with someone I want to date.

I can tell she likes me, but she's scared to take a risk. Lol its kind of funny how I'm willing to die in public to meet girls but they're not willing to make a move when the balls in their court.

Bike date girl is the light of my life. She's everything I wanted in a GF as a young man. Unattainable is like who I'd like to date while I grow into a man. She's sexy as fukk, artsy, and smart.

Africa is perfect for me now. I can tell she wants to fukk real bad, but I keep telling her we have to wait because if we do it it's not going to have the same value. She's falling for me but she doesn't want to I can tell. When she looks at me and her eye twinkle she turns away. It's cute. I make her nervous

You sir are a true gentleman. Less savory types would use what you have to dog a girl out. I don't understand why they would but whose to say?

 

[Sonic Boom of the South]

 

[Koba St]

OP all over the place

Not the sharpest tool in the box

 

[The M.I.C.]

You hit the nail on the head. Its all about mentality and how you carry yourself. Most of these young cats don't know how to lose and that's why they cant deal with rejection. I grew up playing sports year round and learned early in life how to lose. And Im super competitive so I hate losing with a passion but its a part of life we cant avoid

Peace,


:tiwhoa:

How's them handles and jumpshot on the court breh? :davelupe:

 

[Youseenmywork]

This trend is not gender specific. Men, especially the men on here, are afraid of being "played" or of putting in more effort to pursue a woman than the man who came before him. Many men consider it some type of loss if the previous dude took her to mcdonald's and fukked on the second date, while he may take her to a five star restaurant and get no sex. Both groups are too worried about potential competition. That is lame.

Women and men both should only worry about themselves and the person they r pursuing. Whoever comes before or after u isn't ur concern. Obviously u don't want to ignore blatant warning signs , but overall just I think it's best to just focus on the 2 of u

Your not wrong but you are imcomplete.

 

[SeveroDrgnfli]

Not the sharpest tool in the box

I'm smarter than you. Trust me. I let my ideas flow on here as a dialogue wit myself. I know your low level of intelligence doesn't allow you to think in a way that isn't linear. Everything I said is relative and I supported everything I said. You've posted in my thread twice insulting the premise of it while contributing to it.

You support something you don't support. Lol but I'm stupid. Okay man.

Also, okay, I'm so stupid why am I getting all these girls? I obviously possess some form of high level intelligence. Maybe it's emotional or physical. But to say I'm not smart is just a lie. Never in my life has anyone called me anything less than highly intelligent. For real breh. Calm all that shyt down.