I've noticed a trend with black women.

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Pretty much agreed with EVERYTHING here. People scared. Went through this shyt with my ex. It's like dating a wounded deer. Everybody is out trying to take advantage of people b/c they scared of getting taken advantage of. Or they clam up and shut down if they get too close to letting go or enjoying themselves in a relationship.

This also leads to a lot of false personas, facades and just layers of bullshyt. People can't be genuine. That's defined as weakness or simpin or gettin played.

People don't even have fun anymore meeting new people. It's sickening.

Fear kills. Love takes courage. Heartbreak will come. It's natural because not everybody u meet and want will be best for u.

That's fine. But it's no reason to be scary about meeting somebody and making a connection with them. Lol! shyt is irritating.
 

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nikkas/bytches wait till they in the 4th quarter then wanna have epiphanies and shyt.:mjlol: by this time it's too late for your generation, then the next generation sees what you did to their gender and says "that won't be me". So they're already fukked up in the game in pre-season

Black men this, black men the best, big dikk this, blah blah blah. nikkas never stopped to wonder, if other nikkas is so lame, what does it say that our women are dating them? Like how much do you gotta be fukkIN UP as the "GOAT" for your women to say "we're marrying white boys and no lookin back."?

fakkit ass fukkin generation. Africans all over the world suffer from this disease called "lemme wait till the cancer is in stage 4 before I go to the fukkin hospital." It don't even gotta be relationships, go in any thread about any subset of black people, and see how emotional they get when someone makes an objective observation that doesn't feel good to hear. @Still Ill FC I'm not dissin you man, i'm just irritated at the issue in general :mjlol:
Damn. You pullin people's bytch card out the deck...

When u get this real people will damn near kill u for tellin the truth. No lies where told here.
 

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I'm still trying to understand why being grimey, bitter, nasty, ignorant, misleading, and horrid or indifferent in a relationship is seen as a positive thing.

I dunno

Because (American) society does not incentivize being a nurturer or provider and instead puts it against selfish ambitions so naturally relationships lose their purpose outside of sex, attention and not wanting to be alone.
 

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This trend is not gender specific. Men, especially the men on here, are afraid of being "played" or of putting in more effort to pursue a woman than the man who came before him. Many men consider it some type of loss if the previous dude took her to mcdonald's and fukked on the second date, while he may take her to a five star restaurant and get no sex. Both groups are too worried about potential competition. That is lame.

Women and men both should only worry about themselves and the person they r pursuing. Whoever comes before or after u isn't ur concern. Obviously u don't want to ignore blatant warning signs , but overall just I think it's best to just focus on the 2 of u

It aint lame. Women always try to do that.

It's a loss for two reasons. One, if a chick is fukking anyone on the first date, 9 times out of 10, she's a thotter and has done it multiple times before. So you should get tested to be on the safe side. Two, if a chick fukks one guy on a first date but, makes you wait 4 weeks for it, it means she was MORE SEXUALLY ATTRACTED TO THE FIRST GUY. So it felt right to have sex that quick. She felt the sparks. The tingles. The mood was right. He was so attractive to her he made her lose her inhibitions.

No guy is COOL with that.

""""I wanted the first guy's dikk in me so bad I blew him in the bathroom stall after our first dinner date but, you were less attractive to me so I had to get to know you over time and even then, the raw animalistic attraction still aint there. More like a dull likeness or affection.""""

I'll flip it around for you. Let's say you start dating this guy. You wait on him hand and foot. You're his girlfriend. You cook for him. Clean for him. Wash his nasty draws. YOU DO ANYTHING HE ASKS YOU TO DO. Then one day, you ask him why he doesn't take you out or do anything special for you. He gets annoyed :scust:and agrees to take you on a cheap movie date and Burger King afterwards. Then you find out a few weeks later, that 2 years ago, he took a girl to Paris for a weekend getaway and on a cruise to the Cayman Islands. And this girl wasn't his girlfriend....just some chick who wasn't even interested in him like that and wasn't doing ANY of the things you did for him. How would you feel toward this guy? Who got you Burger King and tickets to Tyler Perry but, got her a room with a view of the Eiffel Tower eating strawberry crepes for breakfast. Be honest now :mjlol:
 

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[QUOTE="KravenMorehead™, post: 20668310, member: 20934"nikkas/bytches wait till they in the 4th quarter then wanna have epiphanies and shyt.:mjlol:someone makes an objective observation /QUOTE]







Thread. Anybody with Facebook will tell you this shyt. It's amazing how you can predict a women's timeline if you know her birthday. In high school and early twenties it's nothing but ignorant shyt. They just wanna fukk the tallest, most popular dude who usually has no job, education, or plans for the future. Half of them become baby moms and are kicked out of the game, and the other half move on. By mid twenties are some kind of long term "relationship" with a n199a that is fukking all of the siblings, cousins, and friends. This lasts a year or two until she gets knocked up or he finally leaves her ass for someone younger and fresher. Than the fun begins:lolbron: Late twenties timelines are nothing but Trina and Kevin Gates quotes about love, loyalty, heartbreak. How n199as aint shyt. How she is tired of being mistreated, abused, and lied to. How their are no good men. She never mentions the fact that she has ghosted, clowned, ignored and shyt on dozens of good men the past decade because they were only 5'9, or they didn't have tattoos, or they were left handed. Women's problems are always their own. They want their cake and to eat it to, but many men are waking up and becoming hip to their game. I'm not ashamed to admit my dad was a simp, but luckily I had some older brehs that kicked me in the ass and put me on game growing up. I could have easily been one of these guys who wife up a ran through whore or single mom:merchant:I swear I get chills just thinking about that shyt.
 

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I'm still trying to understand why being grimey, bitter, nasty, ignorant, misleading, and horrid or indifferent in a relationship is seen as a positive thing.

I dunno
You know I love you like a hot meal and a good comic book. But you need to ask that of the people (men and women) who tolerate this shyt. I'm assuming dudes is just thirsty for puss, though.
 

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It aint lame. Women always try to do that.

It's a loss for two reasons. One, if a chick is fukking anyone on the first date, 9 times out of 10, she's a thotter and has done it multiple times before. So you should get tested to be on the safe side. Two, if a chick fukks one guy on a first date but, makes you wait 4 weeks for it, it means she was MORE SEXUALLY ATTRACTED TO THE FIRST GUY. So it felt right to have sex that quick. She felt the sparks. The tingles. The mood was right. He was so attractive to her he made her lose her inhibitions.

No guy is COOL with that.

""""I wanted the first guy's dikk in me so bad I blew him in the bathroom stall after our first dinner date but, you were less attractive to me so I had to get to know you over time and even then, the raw animalistic attraction still aint there. More like a dull likeness or affection.""""

I'll flip it around for you. Let's say you start dating this guy. You wait on him hand and foot. You're his girlfriend. You cook for him. Clean for him. Wash his nasty draws. YOU DO ANYTHING HE ASKS YOU TO DO. Then one day, you ask him why he doesn't take you out or do anything special for you. He gets annoyed :scust:and agrees to take you on a cheap movie date and Burger King afterwards. Then you find out a few weeks later, that 2 years ago, he took a girl to Paris for a weekend getaway and on a cruise to the Cayman Islands. And this girl wasn't his girlfriend....just some chick who wasn't even interested in him like that and wasn't doing ANY of the things you did for him. How would you feel toward this guy? Who got you Burger King and tickets to Tyler Perry but, got her a room with a view of the Eiffel Tower eating strawberry crepes for breakfast. Be honest now :mjlol:

Preach brother. Brehs are waking up and these bullshyt shaming tactics aint gonna work no more. Women waste the best most productive years of their life whoring around with bums and clowning "lames", but than expect those same "lames" to man up and take care of them and their b*stard children. I swear women are out of control these days. It legit makes me angry when a single mom asks me out or wants to "hang out" with me. Like damn I must look lame as fukk if this bytch thinks she can try me like that. I swear it took everything in me not to mush the last SM in the face that asked me out.
 

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It aint lame. Women always try to do that.

It's a loss for two reasons. One, if a chick is fukking anyone on the first date, 9 times out of 10, she's a thotter and has done it multiple times before. So you should get tested to be on the safe side. Two, if a chick fukks one guy on a first date but, makes you wait 4 weeks for it, it means she was MORE SEXUALLY ATTRACTED TO THE FIRST GUY. So it felt right to have sex that quick. She felt the sparks. The tingles. The mood was right. He was so attractive to her he made her lose her inhibitions.

No guy is COOL with that.

""""I wanted the first guy's dikk in me so bad I blew him in the bathroom stall after our first dinner date but, you were less attractive to me so I had to get to know you over time and even then, the raw animalistic attraction still aint there. More like a dull likeness or affection.""""

I'll flip it around for you. Let's say you start dating this guy. You wait on him hand and foot. You're his girlfriend. You cook for him. Clean for him. Wash his nasty draws. YOU DO ANYTHING HE ASKS YOU TO DO. Then one day, you ask him why he doesn't take you out or do anything special for you. He gets annoyed :scust:and agrees to take you on a cheap movie date and Burger King afterwards. Then you find out a few weeks later, that 2 years ago, he took a girl to Paris for a weekend getaway and on a cruise to the Cayman Islands. And this girl wasn't his girlfriend....just some chick who wasn't even interested in him like that and wasn't doing ANY of the things you did for him. How would you feel toward this guy? Who got you Burger King and tickets to Tyler Perry but, got her a room with a view of the Eiffel Tower eating strawberry crepes for breakfast. Be honest now :mjlol:
im hesitant to waste my time writing out an actual response to you because I know from other threads that you're pretty much bitter and jaded past the point of reasonable discourse. no point in me writing out paragraphs because I know you arent here to engage in meaningful dialogue. nothing i can say to make you believe that women arent all mean, vile creatures out to get you. Stay mad fam. idgaf :yeshrug:
 
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