I've noticed a trend with black women.

[#1 pick]

She's still on deck. I take it slow with girls. I've got another girl I'm fascinated with but she's playing hard to get. She may be unattainable. But I'm being good, so we'll see what happens.

The girl I took on a bike date just got our of a long term relationship so Idunno I guess she wants to be on her own for a while. I respect that, but I'm not going to be friends with someone I want to date.

I can tell she likes me, but she's scared to take a risk. Lol its kind of funny how I'm willing to die in public to meet girls but they're not willing to make a move when the balls in their court.

Bike date girl is the light of my life. She's everything I wanted in a GF as a young man. Unattainable is like who I'd like to date while I grow into a man. She's sexy as fukk, artsy, and smart.

Africa is perfect for me now. I can tell she wants to fukk real bad, but I keep telling her we have to wait because if we do it it's not going to have the same value. She's falling for me but she doesn't want to I can tell. When she looks at me and her eye twinkle she turns away. It's cute. I make her nervous

Your a gentleman but you aren't ready for a serious relationship breh. Don't waste her time

 

[Kenny West]

Don't believe the hype. Trust me these bytches get into relationships all the damn time no matter how busted they are. They just cheat that's the difference

They just straight up don't like romance like that . It ranges between eye-roll to cringe worthy. And if you're a man playing that baby baby role you're setting yourself up. As illogical as it may seem it's easier to find love/a relationship when you're looking for p*ssy than it is to find either when you're looking for love.

I'm still trying to understand why being grimey, bitter, nasty, ignorant, misleading, and horrid or indifferent in a relationship is seen as a positive thing.

I dunno

It gets better/positive results. [For men]

Straight up

 

[#1 pick]

nikkas/bytches wait till they in the 4th quarter then wanna have epiphanies and shyt. by this time it's too late for your generation, then the next generation sees what you did to their gender and says "that won't be me". So they're already fukked up in the game in pre-season

Black men this, black men the best, big dikk this, blah blah blah. nikkas never stopped to wonder, if other nikkas is so lame, what does it say that our women are dating them? Like how much do you gotta be fukkIN UP as the "GOAT" for your women to say "we're marrying white boys and no lookin back."?

fakkit ass fukkin generation. Africans all over the world suffer from this disease called "lemme wait till the cancer is in stage 4 before I go to the fukkin hospital." It don't even gotta be relationships, go in any thread about any subset of black people, and see how emotional they get when someone makes an objective observation that doesn't feel good to hear. @Still Ill FC I'm not dissin you man, i'm just irritated at the issue in general

Top tier posting. I need reps back

 

[151_Pr00f]

Black women as well as men get their social cues on what constitutes as a man from much of the garbage passed off as pop entertainment/culture.

I say about 3/4 of black americans have been hoodwinked. Not hard data just personal observation

 

[pop]

im hesitant to waste my time writing out an actual response to you because I know from other threads that you're pretty much bitter and jaded past the point of reasonable discourse. no point in me writing out paragraphs because I know you arent here to engage in meaningful dialogue. nothing i can say to make you believe that women arent all mean, vile creatures out to get you. Stay mad fam. idgaf

Female shaming tactics 101. Nobody is angry sweetie. We just see through the lies and bullshyt that you women try to feed us. You are either attracted to somebody or you aren't. Why would a guy waste his time on a women who wants him to jump through hoops, to get something the last guy got on a silver platter. Don't you think that's unfair to the man?

 

[Woman of god]

@princess125 . I think this also has to be addressed. I get that no one is expected to like you. But how do we explain this phenomenon of a some guys putting in effort with nothing to show for it and some dudes doing nothing and getting something that is supposed to be sacred?

I will engage you since you seem to have a level head. First of all, some stuff you will just have to charge to the game. You will never be able to apply rhyme and reason to 100 percent of dating and relationship scenarios. it just doesnt work like that. why did she fukk that nikka and not you? why did he splurge on that broad over there and not me? IDK and its no point in wrecking my brain to find out the answer. Just write it off as one of the hardships of dating and keep it moving. whether u like it or not, charging it to the game is the best answer ur gonna get in a lot of situations.

second of all, most importantly, always judge a woman by what she DOES, not what she says. a lot of things that ppl pretend to act surprised about from the opposite sex, they were given warning signs well in advance. you can avoid many things by looking at her past dating history. if she likes dudes with goals and ambitions and her last 3 men were in and out of jail with nothing to show for it and the only thing they have in common is that theyre tall and light skinned, you can figure that one out

thirdly, dont be afraid to 'lose.'

 

[Paradise]

kill the dream & bring death to the fairytales*

I was just thinking this. People ( mainly women) have this fairytale way of thinking a relationship should go and when it doesn't go the way they think it should go then love sucks .

People just need to be more honest with each other in the beginning. Let your intentions be known instead of playing games.

 

[MalikX]

im hesitant to waste my time writing out an actual response to you because I know from other threads that you're pretty much bitter and jaded past the point of reasonable discourse. no point in me writing out paragraphs because I know you arent here to engage in meaningful dialogue. nothing i can say to make you believe that women arent all mean, vile creatures out to get you. Stay mad fam. idgaf

Yea....just like I thought

So full of shyt.

You couldn't think of anything to write because it would be complete bullshyt. You would be upset but, you're not going to say that because it proves my point. You get meals off the dollar menu, another girl before you got trips to Paris. But you wouldn't be mad, huh? So you start in with your female shaming tactics like I"m some 14 year old kid that shyt still works on. Bye Felicia. You get a F for today's class.

 

[Neuromancer]

I will engage you since you seem to have a level head. First of all, some stuff you will just have to charge to the game. You will never be able to apply rhyme and reason to 100 percent of dating and relationship scenarios. it just doesnt work like that. why did she fukk that nikka and not you? why did he splurge on that broad over there and not me? IDK and its no point in wrecking my brain to find out the answer. Just write it off as one of the hardships of dating and keep it moving. whether u like it or not, charging it to the game is the best answer ur gonna get in a lot of situations.

second of all, most importantly, always judge a woman by what she DOES, not what she says. a lot of things that ppl pretend to act surprised about from the opposite sex, they were given warning signs well in advance. you can avoid many things by looking at her past dating history. if she likes dudes with goals and ambitions and her last 3 men were in and out of jail with nothing to show for it and the only thing they have in common is that theyre tall and light skinned, you can figure that one out

thirdly, dont be afraid to 'lose.'

So you advocate long term intreaction with people? Or up front and blunt questions ?

 

[Kenny West]

It aint lame. Women always try to do that.

It's a loss for two reasons. One, if a chick is fukking anyone on the first date, 9 times out of 10, she's a thotter and has done it multiple times before. So you should get tested to be on the safe side. Two, if a chick fukks one guy on a first date but, makes you wait 4 weeks for it, it means she was MORE SEXUALLY ATTRACTED TO THE FIRST GUY. So it felt right to have sex that quick. She felt the sparks. The tingles. The mood was right. He was so attractive to her he made her lose her inhibitions.

No guy is COOL with that.

""""I wanted the first guy's dikk in me so bad I blew him in the bathroom stall after our first dinner date but, you were less attractive to me so I had to get to know you over time and even then, the raw animalistic attraction still aint there. More like a dull likeness or affection.""""

I'll flip it around for you. Let's say you start dating this guy. You wait on him hand and foot. You're his girlfriend. You cook for him. Clean for him. Wash his nasty draws. YOU DO ANYTHING HE ASKS YOU TO DO. Then one day, you ask him why he doesn't take you out or do anything special for you. He gets annoyed and agrees to take you on a cheap movie date and Burger King afterwards. Then you find out a few weeks later, that 2 years ago, he took a girl to Paris for a weekend getaway and on a cruise to the Cayman Islands. And this girl wasn't his girlfriend....just some chick who wasn't even interested in him like that and wasn't doing ANY of the things you did for him. How would you feel toward this guy? Who got you Burger King and tickets to Tyler Perry but, got her a room with a view of the Eiffel Tower eating strawberry crepes for breakfast. Be honest now

now now you can't expect women to look at shyt from the other perspective.

Black women as well as men get their social cues on what constitutes as a man from much of the garbage passed off as pop entertainment/culture.

I say about 3/4 of black americans have been hoodwinked. Not hard data just personal observation

3/4 americans in general and this post is spot tf on

 

[Woman of god]

So you advocate long term intreaction with people? Or up front and blunt questions ?

conversation. its not that hard to figure out where someone's head is if you actually talk to them. why are you single is a question that comes up a lot when you getting to know somebody. that can easily reveal more about a persons dating history, all within the realm of normal conversation

 

[Lord_nikon]

I've noticed that women are so frightened of being played again, or winding up with nothing they take no risks. That's lame as fukk. Love is a fukking risk. If you want to play it safe you deserve to be as lonely as you are.

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Most logical woman will play it safe or take it slow because they don't want to end up like Rudy from The Cosby show. I wouldn't say love is risk, love is a unexpected gift that some may or may not experience.
You are probably attracting more logical and mentally hurt women, I attract another range of women with another set of problems.

Basically if a woman is for you, great ! if not keep it moving.

 

[Neuromancer]

conversation. its not that hard to figure out where someone's head is if you actually talk to them. why are you single is a question that comes up a lot when you getting to know somebody. that can easily reveal more about a persons dating history, all within the realm of normal conversation

True indeed. I'd also like your thoughts on the other question I posed.

 

[MalikX]

Preach brother. Brehs are waking up and these bullshyt shaming tactics aint gonna work no more. Women waste the best most productive years of their life whoring around with bums and clowning "lames", but than expect those same "lames" to man up and take care of them and their b*stard children. I swear women are out of control these days. It legit makes me angry when a single mom asks me out or wants to "hang out" with me. Like damn I must look lame as fukk if this bytch thinks she can try me like that. I swear it took everything in me not to mush the last SM in the face that asked me out.

I had this one chick who I used to crush on back in the day try to get with me a few years ago. She chose my man over me back in high school, who was taller and more handsome (i'm fine admitting that).

He fukked her. Tossed her away like garbage and he sent the whole clique her nudes. She was trying to be his girlfriend. He was disgusted by her outside of sex

So around 22ish, I catch her at the community college. I'm transferring my credits to a 4 year. She's there for something and I just said hello to be cordial. Quick convo while I waited to be called in and she just talked forever yo.......started asking me if I ever thought about her, how she used to have a crush on me, if I ever thought about us having anything together Yea bytch. Probably before you fukked my mans. And definitely before you got pregnant by some hood DJ and left to be a single mother. Told her "Nah....never. It would be wrong after you dated my boy"....in my head I was like fukk you think this is? The nerve of these hoes man. Only kids I'm raising is my kids and kids in my family. fukk out my face.

 

[badtguy]

Your a gentleman but you aren't ready for a serious relationship breh. Don't waste her time

no such thing as wasting time- when two people dates spend time together, sex and one realizes this aint what I want. that means it just didn't work out.