I've noticed a trend with black women.

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BmoreGorilla said:
The sad part about the men on here who are afraid of getting played is that all their knowledge on women is second hand. They admit they're afraid to even approach women so we already know they don't get p*ssy. Everything they know is what they see on social media

And as a result they're now hard on hoes:francis:
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U jUst read 80% of tlr :dead:
 
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WHIPPEDCream said:
So you want Black Women to remain romantics while Men continue their trifling ways?

:francis:
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If this is directed at me, the OP, I'm going to assume you didn't read the last paragraph of the OP. I don't like you. If I could ban you from my thread I would. You only bring drama and negative attention.


@Luna don't dap her nonsense. You're smarter than that, and her.
 
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princess125 said:
This trend is not gender specific. Men, especially the men on here, are afraid of being "played" or of putting in more effort to pursue a woman than the man who came before him. Many men consider it some type of loss if the previous dude took her to mcdonald's and fukked on the second date, while he may take her to a five star restaurant and get no sex. Both groups are too worried about potential competition. That is lame.
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Woah miss that is absolutely a loss. If he was able to hit by buying shorty 2 cheeseburgers and an apple pie, I should be able to hit if I buy her that same meal or more :troll:.

Na on a serious note that's obviously a loss. If you was previously only worth a happy meal before, don't inflate the price of your own p*ssy by requiring i do/spend more. Anyone's going to feel slighted if they had to do more for a lesser reward.
 
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princess125 said:
So long as she loves, respects you, and makes u her priority , how does it matter who came before u ? Look at all the penises Kim k before Kanye, but she Kanye crazy now. Amber rose was wiz crazy despite also being a former ho. Those r just 2 famous ones that comes to mind. I can also name several women from my personal life to whom this applies. Just becasue she took a dikk or 2 (or 10 or 12) before you doesn't mean she can't or won't love and adore you.
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HELL NO!!!

yes it matters who someone has been with before you, it determines what kind of judgement she has, and how much she values herself, I don't expect women to be virgins but
High body counts :camby:

Sorry I have high expectations, she could be a reformed slut with some else.
 
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Still Ill FC said:
Love is an emotion. Experiencing an emotion is emotional.

Real talk.
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Now you're deflecting. Whether you think that love is an emotion or not, you certainly can't say that you love someone upon first meeting them. You don't really know a person until you live with them, for an extended period. When you first meet someone you're not meeting the real person. This is common sense. That "love at first sight" myth is chic-flick shyt. You have to think logically when choosing a partner to love. It's not wise to just go off of emotion. Especially for a man.
 
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Still Ill FC said:
If this is directed at me, the OP, I'm going to assume you didn't read the last paragraph of the OP. I don't like you. If I could ban you from my thread I would. You only bring drama and negative attention.


@Luna don't dap her nonsense. You're smarter than that, and her.
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You'd be lying if you said couldn't recognize a lot of them want to live in the 21st century while restraining women to the 50's.
 
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Still Ill FC said:
I date a lot. Lately I've been hearing girls say they gave up on wanting a family or a normal relationship because of the people they're around.

This explains so much of why women don't crave romance anymore. They're basically men now. They want money and good jobs. They're learning to wear a poker face, it's kind of funny, and very sad. Women used be unrealistically beautiful. Now it's like 1 out 3 doesn't remind me of a dude. And maybe 2 out of 8 are gorgeous. Most girls are attractive so that's average.

I met this girl and I took her out on the spot. We walked and talked for two hours. It was lit. Anyway, she's a keeper. As many black women are. They are the best group of women to make mom's out of. That's another thread though.

I've noticed that women are so frightened of being played again, or winding up with nothing they take no risks. That's lame as fukk. Love is a fukking risk. If you want to play it safe you deserve to be as lonely as you are.

If you're not willing to potentially have your heart broken then you don't deserve it. If you're not willing to forgive, grow, and love some more you don't deserve it.

Love isn't practical. Marriage isn't practical. Having kids in this hateful world isn't practical. fukk money. The absence of love and passion in the world is what turns me off from having kids.

Im scared man. Men are not romantic. Men are also followers. Few men are leaders. They do whatever women are into and whatever other men are doing.

Women should inspire and encourage romance. Men will not. Sometimes I'll say to a girl you haven't had anyone love you. I'm talking really love you. They damn near cry sometimes.

Gentleman, please, let's date more and dog less. Girls are frightened of us at this point in the game and they're trying to play like we play and now nobody wants anything real, so we're all just lying to each other.
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I honestly, I don't see a problem with this. It's about time women get out of LALA land start getting real with this dating game. It's either, fukk someone over, or get fukked over.
 
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