And it doesn't just apply to the dating scene too.
People do this bullshyt and call themselves your friend too. I called one of my female (ex) friends out on her bullshyt and told her that I am not accepting any bullshyt friendship that doesn't go both ways evenly.
The bytch straight turned and walked away and hasn't said a word since.
So her definition of "Friend" was me helping her when she needs, but when I need help she can't be reached.
Yeah...fukk you bytch.

That's why her dating life is so fukked up, she's too scared to give an inch of effort because she's been shytted on so many times. I don't have the time to try and convince someone that I'm worth the effort, she can go be miserable on her own.
Good luck...you're gonna need it dumbhoe.