I've noticed a trend with black women.

Kenny West

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I gave it up 10 years ago breh. :deadmanny: We had dated before and he contacted me telling he wanted to a be together. When he contacted me he was ready for full on commitment. He actually got upset that I wanted to take the time to get to know one another again. I see what you're trying to do but it's not that type of party. I waited awhile before we had sex 10 years ago if that makes you feel better though.

lmao I thought this move was reserved for babydaddies

I'm not gonna be in ya biz but he fukked before, left, then came out the blue saying he wanted to get together. So he hit it again and then when you began going for it he backs out? Cold game.

Not on no condescending shyt I feel bad for you on that one, didn't think grown ass men still gotta lie for sex like that
 

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How do you see the rising divorce rates? Or the postulation that men who share domestic roles tend to get divorced at a higher rate. There was a thread on here about it.
How do I see it? As people admitting they've made a mistake. If you're so worried about those rates, maybe people shouldn't be getting married.
 

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fukk you! :pacspit:

Op, this fool is a prime example of why women don't trust men/are scared of getting played. Bc you have losers like this guy fukking it up for the rest of you men.

Suckas gon be suckas. Dig. Lol
 

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This trend is not gender specific. Men, especially the men on here, are afraid of being "played" or of putting in more effort to pursue a woman than the man who came before him. Many men consider it some type of loss if the previous dude took her to mcdonald's and fukked on the second date, while he may take her to a five star restaurant and get no sex. Both groups are too worried about potential competition. That is lame.

Women and men both should only worry about themselves and the person they r pursuing. Whoever comes before or after u isn't ur concern. Obviously u don't want to ignore blatant warning signs , but overall just I think it's best to just focus on the 2 of u

You're one of those "that's all in the past baby" type of girls? :mjpls: How can it not be concerning if Nelly was sliding a credit card down your azz crack in the Tip Drill video? :pachaha:
 

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lmao I thought this move was reserved for babydaddies

I'm not gonna be in ya biz but he fukked before, left, then came out the blue saying he wanted to get together. So he hit it again and then when you began going for it he backs out? Cold game.

Not on no condescending shyt I feel bad for you on that one, didn't think grown ass men still gotta lie for sex like that

Please stop assuming you know what's happening in my life b/c I give you a few details. He didn't leave. I didn't want to see him anymore b/c he was moving out of state. He never wanted to end it. We've been in contact since then but we have 2 different lives in 2 separate states. He contacted me last year saying that he was really serious about wanting to be together. He's not backing out of anything. He still wants to be together. I ended it today with him b/c I was seeing a patterned of behavior that I knew I would not be happy with in the longer term. That's it.
 

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Please stop assuming you know what's happening in my life b/c I give you a few details. He didn't leave. I didn't want to see him anymore b/c he was moving out of state. He never wanted to end it. We've been in contact since then but we have 2 different lives in 2 separate states. He contacted me last year saying that he was really serious about wanting to be together. He's not backing out of anything. He still wants to be together. I ended it today with him b/c I was seeing a patterned of behavior that I knew I would not be happy with in the longer term. That's it.
You would think the question marks would indicate otherwise, but that's fine w/ me :ehh: I salute you for sparing homie the L of cuffing a stripper
 

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I'm not officially #gmb but more on the side on not actually caring. Not on some cold hearted shyt bt more of a realization that what you want might not happen so you just lose interest. If it happens, cool. If not, I was prepared:yeshrug:
I got numb just writing that. Damn what happened to me, used to be happy:wow:
 
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