I've noticed a trend with black women.

[Giselle]

This thread makes me think of Rih and Drake. She finally opened up though, it seems. I hope it lasts.

 

[CodeBlaMeVi]

How is that not a loss? That's a super L an this is comming from a married man. We all work who has money to spend on 5 star restaurants without 5 star results at the end of the night.

With being said, no women would get 5 star treatment unless it was the 5 or 6th date and saw a future with her

It's called women's logic.

 

[Audemar]

Fellow hopeless romantic

GMB steady taking the L's, engaged/married nikkas what up

The family takes no losses.

 

[Woman of god]

You're one of those "that's all in the past baby" type of girls? How can it not be concerning if Nelly was sliding a credit card down your azz crack in the Tip Drill video?

How is that not a loss? That's a super L an this is comming from a married man. We all work who has money to spend on 5 star restaurants without 5 star results at the end of the night.

With being said, no women would get 5 star treatment unless it was the 5 or 6th date and saw a future with her

It's not productive, and it really only matters to the extent that it effects your current relationship. If u dating an American woman chances are u not getting a virgin. So long as she loves, respects you, and makes u her priority , how does it matter who came before u ? Look at all the penises Kim k before Kanye, but she Kanye crazy now. Amber rose was wiz crazy despite also being a former ho. Those r just 2 famous ones that comes to mind. I can also name several women from my personal life to whom this applies. Just becasue she took a dikk or 2 (or 10 or 12) before you doesn't mean she can't or won't love and adore you. The same thing goes for men. A man may have bedded 100 women before me. If I have his heart why should I worry?

A woman who won't remain loyal or faithful to you has many tell tale signs. You'll be able to tell she's gonna screw u over from her other actions. U don't need to use body count as some sort of predictor of bad behavior

 

[Woman of god]

Ya'll got something going on?

No, just a concerned coli citizen

 

[Neuromancer]

No, just a concerned coli citizen

Oh. Carry on then.

 

[Da King]

The family takes no losses.

Love conquers all :spurs:

I feel sorry for you that you don't have that special someone that makes you feel warm inside


Simp anthem :HBGOAT:

 

[DarkHorse23]

It's not productive, and it really only matters to the extent that it effects your current relationship. If u dating an American woman chances are u not getting a virgin. So long as she loves, respects you, and makes u her priority , how does it matter who came before u ? Look at all the penises Kim k before Kanye, but she Kanye crazy now. Amber rose was wiz crazy despite also being a former ho. Those r just 2 famous ones that comes to mind. I can also name several women from my personal life to whom this applies. Just becasue she took a dikk or 2 (or 10 or 12) before you doesn't mean she can't or won't love and adore you. The same thing goes for men. A man may have bedded 100 women before me. If I have his heart why should I worry?

A woman who won't remain loyal or faithful to you has many tell tale signs. You'll be able to tell she's gonna screw u over from her other actions. U don't need to use body count as some sort of predictor of bad behavior

This may come as a surprise coming from me, but I don't care about a woman's sexual history. I REALLY don't. I don't want a virgin. I don't care who you fukked, but don't have one set a rules for me and another for mr pretty boy or college athlete . Don't let him hit on the first night and then tell me "I have to work for it". Btw a black girl actually told me that. FOH I'm not working for your p*ssy. Especially when I know guys on a first name basis who you gave it up to with the quickness

 

[Youseenmywork]

This trend is not gender specific. Men, especially the men on here, are afraid of being "played" or of putting in more effort to pursue a woman than the man who came before him. Many men consider it some type of loss if the previous dude took her to mcdonald's and fukked on the second date, while he may take her to a five star restaurant and get no sex. Both groups are too worried about potential competition. That is lame.

Women and men both should only worry about themselves and the person they r pursuing. Whoever comes before or after u isn't ur concern. Obviously u don't want to ignore blatant warning signs , but overall just I think it's best to just focus on the 2 of u

PART 1
This sounds good in theory. What isnt being said is the nature of women and men is just diffrent and there is no such thing as diffrent but equal.
King will always be better than the queen . It dosent mean i or any man should disrespect the position that was created for the women. You are women so it is easy for a women to say how a man should feel when you got the vagina that men want. You have the potential to have more men at your disposal than I have women.

People in general cant expect to play a game and not take "Ls". Those Ls are a learning process and pain obcourse. The reason why men try to be wise about dealing with women and to some degree a womas past is because all the work you have to do to get a woman to be into while a wome just sit back and auditions you. It take a man to approach about 10 women in order for 1 to be right and if not he has to approach 10 more. If a women is making one guy work harder than the other ....what she is really saying fellas is that nikka or the nikkas that have come before you is better than you. Thats a man dosent look or sound good. Im 32 and ive only bern in love once cause i believe a women should earn a mans love.

What women fail to think about is when a nikka is auditioning for you is he is giving his best up front or his essences up front. Which is what women fall in love with. Men are built from the bottom up we want sex then find out more about you. Women are built from the top down . Men will act like he is listening or make a women feel like she is special or what not but i havent meet a women with a personality better than mines. Men have to understand the only thing that is keeping a women at your level mentally is her vagina. If men can find a way to conquer those thoughts this world would be a better place.

Women have to realize ALL you guys have is a womens perspective and a womans type of fantasy to go along with it. A mans perspective will ALWAYS be seen as misogynistc for just telling the truth of whats is really in a mans gut . Men look at a women and go she is attractive ...not she looks like shes has a bunch if degrees and is godly let me talk to her..lol. Naw sweetheart i seen thighs and eyes ..now im coming at you.

 

[Woman of god]

This may come as a surprise coming from me, but I don't care about a woman's sexual history. I REALLY don't. I don't want a virgin. I don't care who you fukked, but don't have one set a rules for me and another for mr pretty boy or college athlete . Just let him hit on the first night and then tell me "I have to work for it". Btw a black girl actually told me that. FOH I'm not working for your p*ssy. Especially when I know guys on a first name basis who you gave it up to with the quickness

There's a number of reasons for which a woman does one thing with one guy and another thing with guy 2. It's not all about oh she was attracted to the second guy more. When u see a woman move quickly with guy 1 and slowly with guy 2, ur explanation for why that is seems to highlight ur imperfections. U assume oh it's becasue that guy was cuter, taller, cooler, etc. I'm not saying that that is never the case, I'm just saying that it's not always the case.

If a woman likes you, chances are she goes through mental hoops when deciding when to sleep with u. Too soon and he won't take u seriously. Too long and he'll move on to someone else. There's also other things that could be going in a woman's life at the time she meets you. Maybe she knows once she makes a physical connection her mind goes crazy and she can't afford that right now because she's busy in school or something

I'm not denying that there r shallow women, but don't let ur insecurities dictate why u think a woman isn't intimate with u. It'll just make u judge her unfairly

 

[CodeBlaMeVi]

This may come as a surprise coming from me, but I don't care about a woman's sexual history. I REALLY don't. I don't want a virgin. I don't care who you fukked, but don't have one set a rules for me and another for mr pretty boy or college athlete . Don't let him hit on the first night and then tell me "I have to work for it". Btw a black girl actually told me that. FOH I'm not working for your p*ssy. Especially when I know guys on a first name basis who you gave it up to with the quickness

Wish I could rep you. That's what it boils down to. It's women's logic. It makes sense to them.

 

[Larry Lambo]

It aint lame. Women always try to do that.

It's a loss for two reasons. One, if a chick is fukking anyone on the first date, 9 times out of 10, she's a thotter and has done it multiple times before. So you should get tested to be on the safe side. Two, if a chick fukks one guy on a first date but, makes you wait 4 weeks for it, it means she was MORE SEXUALLY ATTRACTED TO THE FIRST GUY. So it felt right to have sex that quick. She felt the sparks. The tingles. The mood was right. He was so attractive to her he made her lose her inhibitions.

No guy is COOL with that.

""""I wanted the first guy's dikk in me so bad I blew him in the bathroom stall after our first dinner date but, you were less attractive to me so I had to get to know you over time and even then, the raw animalistic attraction still aint there. More like a dull likeness or affection.""""

I'll flip it around for you. Let's say you start dating this guy. You wait on him hand and foot. You're his girlfriend. You cook for him. Clean for him. Wash his nasty draws. YOU DO ANYTHING HE ASKS YOU TO DO. Then one day, you ask him why he doesn't take you out or do anything special for you. He gets annoyed and agrees to take you on a cheap movie date and Burger King afterwards. Then you find out a few weeks later, that 2 years ago, he took a girl to Paris for a weekend getaway and on a cruise to the Cayman Islands. And this girl wasn't his girlfriend....just some chick who wasn't even interested in him like that and wasn't doing ANY of the things you did for him. How would you feel toward this guy? Who got you Burger King and tickets to Tyler Perry but, got her a room with a view of the Eiffel Tower eating strawberry crepes for breakfast. Be honest now

I don't necessarily agree with the beginning of this post, but it turned into pure flames later on.

That example is about as real as it can get.

 

[DarkHorse23]

There's a number of reasons for which a woman does one thing with one guy and another thing with guy 2. It's not all about oh she was attracted to the second guy more. When u see a woman move quickly with guy 1 and slowly with guy 2, ur explanation for why that is seems to highlight ur imperfections. U assume oh it's becasue that guy was cuter, taller, cooler, etc. I'm not saying that that is never the case, I'm just saying that it's not always the case.

If a woman likes you, chances are she goes through mental hoops when deciding when to sleep with u. Too soon and he won't take u seriously. Too long and he'll move on to someone else. There's also other things that could be going in a woman's life at the time she meets you. Maybe she knows once she makes a physical connection her mind goes crazy and she can't afford that right now because she's busy in school or something

I'm not denying that there r shallow women, but don't let ur insecurities dictate why u think a woman isn't intimate with u. It'll just make u judge her unfairly

You make valid points, and since you're a woman I'll take your word for it, because I won't pretend to know more about women then a women herself, but I'll just say in this particular case, she wanted to treat me a different way based on who I was, and sit on her pedestal of chastity and it was laughable because I knew her history and insulting that she thought she could pull that shyt with me. She wasn't even girlfriend material to be saying all that. That's another thread right there. "Women who overestimate their sexual market value". Don't act like your wifey material when you're really just one night stand material. Know your lane

 

[Youseenmywork]

It's not productive, and it really only matters to the extent that it effects your current relationship. If u dating an American woman chances are u not getting a virgin. So long as she loves, respects you, and makes u her priority , how does it matter who came before u ? Look at all the penises Kim k before Kanye, but she Kanye crazy now. Amber rose was wiz crazy despite also being a former ho. Those r just 2 famous ones that comes to mind. I can also name several women from my personal life to whom this applies. Just becasue she took a dikk or 2 (or 10 or 12) before you doesn't mean she can't or won't love and adore you. The same thing goes for men. A man may have bedded 100 women before me. If I have his heart why should I worry?

A woman who won't remain loyal or faithful to you has many tell tale signs. You'll be able to tell she's gonna screw u over from her other actions. U don't need to use body count as some sort of predictor of bad behavior

Men getting vagina that is high caliber and women getting dikk ir a bunch of dikk is a .....diffrent

 

[Mike Ock]

This may come as a surprise coming from me, but I don't care about a woman's sexual history. I REALLY don't. I don't want a virgin. I don't care who you fukked, but don't have one set a rules for me and another for mr pretty boy or college athlete . Don't let him hit on the first night and then tell me "I have to work for it". Btw a black girl actually told me that. FOH I'm not working for your p*ssy. Especially when I know guys on a first name basis who you gave it up to with the quickness

That's how u gotta look at things man. Some women and men and are looking for fairy-tale partners. I've never asked my chik how many dudes she laid up within her past. It really doesn't benefit me at all.