I've noticed a trend with black women.

[DarkHorse23]

That's how u gotta look at things man. Some women and men and are looking for fairy-tale partners. I've never asked my chik how many dudes she laid up within her past. It really doesn't benefit me at all.

You're right it doesn't. Plus they aren't going be honest anyway. So why care.

 

[blackzeus]

It's not productive, and it really only matters to the extent that it effects your current relationship. If u dating an American woman chances are u not getting a virgin. So long as she loves, respects you, and makes u her priority , how does it matter who came before u ? Look at all the penises Kim k before Kanye, but she Kanye crazy now. Amber rose was wiz crazy despite also being a former ho. Those r just 2 famous ones that comes to mind. I can also name several women from my personal life to whom this applies. Just becasue she took a dikk or 2 (or 10 or 12) before you doesn't mean she can't or won't love and adore you. The same thing goes for men. A man may have bedded 100 women before me. If I have his heart why should I worry?

A woman who won't remain loyal or faithful to you has many tell tale signs. You'll be able to tell she's gonna screw u over from her other actions. U don't need to use body count as some sort of predictor of bad behavior

at the bolded. I see this topic is hitting a little close to home for you And if that's you in your avi, you probably got more offers than you knew what to do with, I ain't trying to shame you But like if you went through your ho phase in western China and have a clean record in the USA it's all good. But if every cotdamn nikka seeing us walking together on some "Hey @princess125, it's been a minute since we..., oh my bad, is this your man?" That sh*t is hard for a nikka w/ pride to handle I would recommend all girls who went through a ho phase to try to meet someone outside of whatever area they went through their ho phase in, that's all.

 

[Serious]

This trend is not gender specific. Men, especially the men on here, are afraid of being "played" or of putting in more effort to pursue a woman than the man who came before him. Many men consider it some type of loss if the previous dude took her to mcdonald's and fukked on the second date, while he may take her to a five star restaurant and get no sex. Both groups are too worried about potential competition. That is lame.

Women and men both should only worry about themselves and the person they r pursuing. Whoever comes before or after u isn't ur concern. Obviously u don't want to ignore blatant warning signs , but overall just I think it's best to just focus on the 2 of u

Hell yeah that's a loss

 

[WHIPPEDCream]

So you want Black Women to remain romantics while Men continue their trifling ways?

 

[Woman of god]

at the bolded. I see this topic is hitting a little close to home for you And if that's you in your avi, you probably got more offers than you knew what to do with, I ain't trying to shame you But like if you went through your ho phase in western China and have a clean record in the USA it's all good. But if every cotdamn nikka seeing us walking together on some "Hey @princess125, it's been a minute since we..., oh my bad, is this your man?" That sh*t is hard for a nikka w/ pride to handle I would recommend all girls who went through a ho phase to try to meet someone outside of whatever area they went through their ho phase in, that's all.

Lmao! Yea I feel u on that, undercover hoes > in your face hoes

 

[DarkHorse23]

So you want Black Women to remain romantics while Men continue their trifling ways?

This topic is about BLACK men and black women.

Funny seeing you here.

 

[Youseenmywork]

Hell yeah that's a loss

..she doesn't realize she is saying that other men are better than you....lol

 

[Ronnie Lott]

I date a lot. Lately I've been hearing girls say they gave up on wanting a family or a normal relationship because of the people they're around.

This explains so much of why women don't crave romance anymore. They're basically men now. They want money and good jobs. They're learning to wear a poker face, it's kind of funny, and very sad. Women used be unrealistically beautiful. Now it's like 1 out 3 doesn't remind me of a dude. And maybe 2 out of 8 are gorgeous. Most girls are attractive so that's average.

I met this girl and I took her out on the spot. We walked and talked for two hours. It was lit. Anyway, she's a keeper. As many black women are. They are the best group of women to make mom's out of. That's another thread though.

I've noticed that women are so frightened of being played again, or winding up with nothing they take no risks. That's lame as fukk. Love is a fukking risk. If you want to play it safe you deserve to be as lonely as you are.

If you're not willing to potentially have your heart broken then you don't deserve it. If you're not willing to forgive, grow, and love some more you don't deserve it.

Love isn't practical. Marriage isn't practical. Having kids in this hateful world isn't practical. fukk money. The absence of love and passion in the world is what turns me off from having kids.

Im scared man. Men are not romantic. Men are also followers. Few men are leaders. They do whatever women are into and whatever other men are doing.

Women should inspire and encourage romance. Men will not. Sometimes I'll say to a girl you haven't had anyone love you. I'm talking really love you. They damn near cry sometimes.

Gentleman, please, let's date more and dog less. Girls are frightened of us at this point in the game and they're trying to play like we play and now nobody wants anything real, so we're all just lying to each other.

What type of dusty ass nikka shyt is this ' these are dusty nikka problems

 

[WHIPPEDCream]

This topic is about BLACK men and black women.

Funny seeing you here.

The thread title clearly says "I've noticed a trend with BLACK women," & since I'm a Black Woman I decided to mosey on in.

But to the thread topic: I used to talk to someone who said "girls are heartless," these days.I didn't say anything back to that because I didn't care.Men want the joy of having disposable women and get in the feels when women start doing the same.

 

[GoPro]

Hell yeah that's a loss

Women logic is astounding brehs. Like they would be perfectly fine with a dude showering his ex with lavish gifts and trips, yet taking them to chucky cheese for entertainment if he was making the same bread.

 

[Youseenmywork]

There is NO women that wants 50-100 men in and out of their bodies. Any creature that goes against its nature nothing good ever happens. It not in a women NATURE to MOVE like a man. This world has made it cool for women to MOVE like MEN. These women are so manly that they have lost their essences of how great it can be to be women. You'll meet more women that really more manly or try to be more than a man.

 

[Youseenmywork]

There is NO women that wants 50-100 men in and out of their bodies. Any creature that goes against its nature nothing good ever happens. It not in a women NATURE to MOVE like a man. This world has made it cool for women to MOVE like MEN. These women are so manly that they have lost their essences of how great it can be to be women. You'll meet more women that really more manly or try to be more than a man.

 

[Neuromancer]

The thread title clearly says "I've noticed a trend with BLACK women," & since I'm a Black Woman I decided to mosey on in.

But to the thread topic: I used to talk to someone who said "girls are heartless," these days.I didn't say anything back to that because I didn't care.Men want the joy of having disposable women and get in the feels when women start doing the same.

We get it you don't care about men. Just hurry up out of the closet.

 

[Entropy Fan]

Women logic is astounding brehs. Like they would be perfectly fine with a dude showering his ex with lavish gifts and trips, yet taking them to chucky cheese for entertainment if he was making the same bread.

They have simple logic to follow. I'm for it if it benefits me I'm against it if it doesn't. That's why they are spinning in circles with their logic. They know it's foul to treat random dudes better then the Man they end up with. But it's not their loss so they don't care. They just ain't real enough to admit it

 

[1 other person]

Women have forgotten that there is power in womanhood. Women are innately powerful as well. They lost how to use their feminine energy. They look at men and so to themselves. " I will do the same".