Iyanla Vanzant Won’t Wed Again; Marriages Aren’t Equal or Fun

[rlg]

Who says you can't have fun in your marriage with your life partner?

If two people join in a union I would hope that over the years they would progress and become better people as time goes on. Having someone there to help you become a better person or heal you from your past and having fun doesn't have to mean they are mutually exclusive. She failed twice so of course she is biased.

This you are what you attract doctrine is ruining people. There are people who come into relationships with a pure heart who are taken advantage of by their opposite and the cycle continues. That doesn't mean that those people deserved it, it means they should of used better judgement or maybe were a bit naive or even totally ignorant to the situation.

Ultimately all people need to apply the golden rule: Do unto others as others do unto you. When that happens we can really effect change in families, particularity black families.

 

[Gimini00]

What a devastating loss for men everywhere

I swear breh

 

[CinnaSlim]

Marriage isnt for everyone. Her kids are all grown, she has her own money, she doesnt need to be married.

 

[CinnaSlim]

If it works for her then

But she always annoyed me, especially after I watched that episode with those two sisters where the younger sister was being abused by the older sister's bf and got pregnant by him twice and she said she was "hoeing" because the guy would buy her stuff so she wouldnt tell. smh

She said she was hoing because she would only go with men who would buy her stuff. Not because she didnt tell on her abuser. I recently watched the episode. She had learned how to get what she wanted from men by sleeping with them - hoeing.