I don’t think they understand that many of those women have rotations/clients. Now if that’s understood, it’s all good.
Truthfully, this is what men do. Explore the world, “sow their wild oats” and then find someone to build a family with. I have cousins who traveled to Brazil, the DR, etc like 2 decades ago when I was a fukking kid and I realized what was up when I became “of age” and had friends doing what they did.
They had their fun and married Black/ADOS ladies and created families. They also were college educated, had grad degrees, purchased homes and got married by 32.

They had fun and brought it home when it was time to settle down.
What I will say is that MANY women overseas have tighter game. I’ve said before that a lot of Black girls don’t have any game. White and Asian girls in the US have more game than us. Black girls in the last 2-3 generations haven’t been taught how to date and what to look for. The girls who DO know, aren’t complaining about men. Like I said before, there are (Black) women out here, married or not, surviving without careers. Because they understand men and know how to appeal to a man for provision. They definitely don’t run to the internet to discuss every little thing. Those lessons used to be taught.
At the same time, people are complaining about women, but no one wants to acknowledge the “fun period” guys have where they encounter plenty of young women who cook for them, clean their apartments, hang on even though they know he’s playing the field, etc trying to wait it out. Guys who admit to cheating on their girlfriends and finally calming down as they age. Guys have their fun and that’s understood, but girls of other races also have guys closer in age who are READY for marriage, careers, etc in their late 20s/by 30 also. Not as many of our girls or guys are getting it right in the proper timeframe.
Black women and men have shyt to fix, the catch is women have a short window to get it right, and men can stretch it out.
I attribute most of this shyt to older generations not keeping it real and passing down the right info. A lot of people (myself included) are learning that elders weren’t keeping it all the way real and now shyt is blowing up in everyone’s face.
I don’t know. Get your mind and spirit right, keep your body tight, get your career/money on point, avoid critical mistakes and keep trying if you’re looking for something real.