Let them learn the hard way. Too many examples of what chasing hoes get you and dudes still do it.
I don't feel bad for any man on child support, paying alimony, only getting weekend custody, etc. Tough luck.
I always put the onus on men. Brehs will talk about how women need to be led because they lack accountability. And yet those same ‘males’ (not men) will put themselves in shytty situations and blame women.
A woman can’t force a man to give up his seed like a gold chain. A woman can’t force a man to have sex with her. As men, we understand the consequences of our actions. Our words and how we conduct ourselves.
Where we are today is a reflection of every decision we’ve made, good or bad. Simply blaming a woman is weak. It’s all a choice. You chose to lie down with her.
The moment you go inside of her, especially raw, you relinquish not only possibly your DNA, but in some cases, your freedom.
This is why we have to have discernment when we choose the woman we’re with. It just takes the wrong one to crumble everything you’ve worked for. And every woman definitely knows this.
