Jellybean Theory (How to keep a man)

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Ive been hearing a lot lately on my job and the coli that men anit loyal or what does it take to keep a man ...cause they all cheat or men want there cake and eat it to. I feel like men when you boil it down we are really simple. Im give this subject a go I know what would make a lot of men happy ...its simple really well to us men.

FIRST: ladies you guys need to understand that MEN are biologically set to want ton of women. Most men want a ton before its time to settle down and try to be in a marriage or just a monogamous relationship.NO man is SINGLE if a guy says he dosent have a any girls he has about 7 that he is not calming as his girlfriend.

TWO: Men have to womanize they have to get...we have to get it out of our system so when we pick what WE believe the one for us we can be mature...as far as relationship wise is concered. As a matter of fact if a man hasnt womanized I wouldnt trust him.(think tiger woods he had to get that goofness out ). Talking to women is a skill for men this is why we flirt, try to make women laught etc ...we have to exercise our conversational skills. Just like if you dont do sit ups you start to get fat. I also want ...I dont know how men/ women will take this but im say it anway . Women gotta stop leaving men because he got some vagina on the side ...not a side chick just some other vagina. I say this because if this guy takes care of his finance well has a pretty decent family system , is passionate about his career and his only draw back is women ...then no your limits as a women.Something else I wanted to say about "cheating" fukking other women and loving you does not intertwine with men we can fukk anything. Women have to understand this but it dosent take away from the overall package of how great the guy is and men shouldnt let a women take away from how great they are because you like women.

How do I keep a man (jellybean theory) every girl is represented by a jellybean jar. Every time she does something positive, she puts a jellybean into the jar. Every time she nags, flakes, denies sex, throws a tantrum, or other misbehavior, she is taking multiple jellybeans out of the jar. Most women will add and subtract so that it roughly evens out over time. The best move, however, is to add so many jellybeans that when she takes it away by withdrawing from the relationship, the man has no choice but to consider commitment because of the VAULE she has brought to his life.

Consistently add to the jar

Consistent-adders may not dazzle you at first, but they are the girls who continue to add value as the relationship progresses. They take care of you when you are sick, keep nagging to a minimum, and are generally just very pleasant to be around. While the sex may not be mind-blowing, it is good, on-demand and the girls keep in shape. These girls often have other intellectual pursuits and practical skills such as cooking, and a more even-keel outlook on life. The way to describe this type of relationships is “easy”, because it does not add any further headache to your life.

Most well-adjusted red pill relationships follow this blueprint. Women will be women, but the disruptions (and thus subtractions from the jar) are at an absolute minimum. We tend to make dating, relationships, and the game into an adversarial interaction, but sometimes we forget that with the right maintenance and choice of woman, it can be a value-adding experience. If you believe in marriage, you would consider making a long-term investment only to women who fall into this category.



“What I’m saying now sounds cruel and all fukked up. But that’s how we feel.” - patrice oneal
 

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Keeping a man is simple.

a) Love
b) Loyalty
c) Obey orders
d) Stay at home
e) No wondering eyes/lust for other men (even celebrities)
f) Cook
g) Clean
h) Keep in shape
i) Be a supporter to the children she bred
j) Have hobbies when your man is busy, like knitting, reading books, gardening etc.
k) Don't question your man, always support him even if you may disagree
 

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Keeping a good man is simple.

a) Love
b) Loyalty
c) Obey orders
d) Stay at home
e) No wondering eyes/lust for other men (even celebrities)
f) Cook
g) Clean
h) Keep in shape
i) Be a supporter to the children she bred
j) Have hobbies when your man is busy, like knitting, reading books, gardening etc.
k) Don't question your man, always support him even if you may disagree


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Stop making ecxuses for dudes that wanna fukk outside of their relationship. If the female chooses to forgive and allow him to stay then it's on her. If you make a commitment to another adult to remain exclusive and you can't, then there's a flaw of character somewhere. Owning a vagina should/does not make you more receptive to being cheated on anymore than owning a penis does.
 
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This why I wrote this just like men have limits so do women how many have been cheated on and dont know it how ? How many men have MANY canidatedvas we speak
every man is diff breh

i've never cheated and never will, only a low self esteem broad will accept infidelity


Intresting what do you call people that have been on and off for ten years or so ?
 
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I bet if a woman said she just needed to get it out of her system y'all would say that's an excuse to be a whore. Women have urges just like men. Y'all stay making excuses for being cheaters and grimey.

A women is biologically set to have one guy to fall in love and to have kids by him. Men are biologically set to have many women in our lifetime. What your definition of a hoe ?
 

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A women is biologically set to have one guy to fall in love and to have kids by him. Men are biologically set to have many women in our lifetime. What your definition of a hoe ?
Stop trying to be scientific. Everyone is different. Just because in your mind and society says women shouldn't have multiple men it doesn't mean that a woman feels that way. Anyways its beside the point. You're making lames excuses for a man to sleep around.
 
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