Jellybean Theory (How to keep a man)

[Youseenmywork]

Is that a yes or a no?

Is this train of thought something you'd want your future daughters to prescribe to in their relationships with men?

 

[Youseenmywork]

Simple yes . I would not want my daughter dealing with anyone like me because that would mean she sought ought for a father figure to compensate for my lack of me being one. I refuse to not be a great father if I was so blessed to have children. Understanding that the “ain’t shyt” dude is alive & well, I can only teach her, not preach to her, how to have standards that suit the child I know raised. However, understanding my everlasting responsibility to my child, I will not coddle my daughter because she will eventually be an adult& as adults, male or female, we are to make our own decisions & as a parent just hope the guidance, morals & values given over the years stayed with our child.

 

[Youseenmywork]

Couples are supposed to put one another first friend. It doesnt matter whay says because you have to be the one to find the woman who meets angelic qualifications by not accepting demonic applications, friend.

And my point still remains dating is a numbers game. Men dont search for a relationship if it happens it happens. I have NEVER gon out with guy from my inner circle and we put our hand together and say " tonite we are going out to find love ...love on three.....LOVE" . It just dosent work that way for us . I feel like if im reaching my potenial as a man i can help a women be at her hughest potenial. I write this post knowing that most people are not forgiving ...just like a lot of people are not christian ...breh. How many women are willing to put men first in today world ?

 

[Youseenmywork]

A hoe by my definition is a female who uses her femininity, sexual or otherwise, to get ahead in life.

 

[Youseenmywork]

I’m no better or worse than any man walking this planet but I am different, as we all are & that is what makes me better. Females love consistency but the consistency becomes bland & spontaneity becomes what they are attracted to. Example, female dates a man who likes to stay in every night, she gets bored & wants to hit the town to party. The other man is no better or worse, he’s just different, that & that alone makes him(me) better. Don’t HIM me though, I’m serious.

 

[Consigliere]

[QUOim E="Washington_Red, post: 9823223, member: 4062"]That's how being single works. It doesn't mean celibate.

Huh Im lost ?? How did celibate come into play ![/QUOTE]

You keep stressing the fact that guys who say they r single have multiple chicks they're just not claiming then as girlfriends.

My point was that that's the whole point of being single. Single = free to do who and what u want. Relationship = committed to one person. Maybe some threesomes if you can swing it.

 

[Youseenmywork]

1. In YOUR opinion, how many chances do you think females should give a man in a relationship before saying “fukk this, I’m out” & why?

As many chances as she deems possible or is willing to tolerate. Every situation is relative to the individuals involved & should never be left open to opinions of outsiders. However. There are females who carry on as if they need something to bytch about because if all is well you they’ll as if you don’t have the upper hand. Females feel the need to mask their insecurities by playing victim instead of understanding they’re in a relationship which equates to being a compromising partner. So y’all say tolerate & give chances. We say compromise & endure this relationship. Let’s slowly build us up not be in a rush to destroy us down.

A women finally got what I was implying....

 

[Mr. Somebody]

And my point still remains dating is a numbers game. Men dont search for a relationship if it happens it happens. I have NEVER gon out with guy from my inner circle and we put our hand together and say " tonite we are going out to find love ...love on three.....LOVE" . It just dosent work that way for us . I feel like if im reaching my potenial as a man i can help a women be at her hughest potenial. I write this post knowing that most people are not forgiving ...just like a lot of people are not christian ...breh. How many women are willing to put men first in today world ?

Looking for a relationship is something a man makes as a personal decision in his mind friend. You're making it sound corny and unrealistic. When you decide you want a relationship you allow yourself to be more open to the other side of our nature which is more loving.

Many women are willing to put men first and many men meet these women but we have men out here that meet women like this and say

*i cant be with no woman whos going to do what i say*

Then they when they meet some trollop that breaks them down mentally and takes them to the cleaners.

I have a wife who has these qualities and that means you can find a woman like to friend.

Now lets get serious and take family serious and stop procreating with women we saw valueless outside of what they had to offer in the bedroom.

 

[KinksandCoils]

Its not a silly question actually It should be a thread .

My definition of what a hoe is is a women who sleeps around for career gain or some form of upward mobility that involves money.

Why just a women? Can a man be one by your definition or no?

 

[Youseenmywork]

Why just a women? Can a man be one by your definition or no?

A hoe by my definition is a female who uses her femininity, sexual or otherwise, to get ahead in life.

NO , but hear me out women know men move around . Women can sit there and men will approach them . Men we have to go get you (women). So to me teedot it depends on the guy . Some guys wanna be a pimp , some wanna have threesomes , some wanna just be loved by women. I have never gotten ahead for being or trying to use my maleness to get ahead. We have have to approach a lot of women I just dont think a man who has no women is desirable....to any women.

 

[Youseenmywork]

 

[mannyrs13]

On a serious note, I'm like any other guy. I'll be with lots of women. But if I can get just one, I'm happy.

On a not serious note, so your nieces are 18 huh?

 

[skeetsinternal]

Ive been hearing a lot lately on my job and the coli that men anit loyal or what does it take to keep a man ...cause they all cheat or men want there cake and eat it to. I feel like men when you boil it down we are really simple. Im give this subject a go I know what would make a lot of men happy ...its simple really well to us men.

FIRST: ladies you guys need to understand that MEN are biologically set to want ton of women. Most men want a ton before its time to settle down and try to be in a marriage or just a monogamous relationship.NO man is SINGLE if a guy says he dosent have a any girls he has about 7 that he is not calming as his girlfriend.

TWO: Men have to womanize they have to get...we have to get it out of our system so when we pick what WE believe the one for us we can be mature...as far as relationship wise is concered. As a matter of fact if a man hasnt womanized I wouldnt trust him.(think tiger woods he had to get that goofness out ). Talking to women is a skill for men this is why we flirt, try to make women laught etc ...we have to exercise our conversational skills. Just like if you dont do sit ups you start to get fat. I also want ...I dont know how men/ women will take this but im say it anway . Women gotta stop leaving men because he got some vagina on the side ...not a side chick just some other vagina. I say this because if this guy takes care of his finance well has a pretty decent family system , is passionate about his career and his only draw back is women ...then no your limits as a women.Something else I wanted to say about "cheating" fukking other women and loving you does not intertwine with men we can fukk anything. Women have to understand this but it dosent take away from the overall package of how great the guy is and men shouldnt let a women take away from how great they are because you like women.

How do I keep a man (jellybean theory) every girl is represented by a jellybean jar. Every time she does something positive, she puts a jellybean into the jar. Every time she nags, flakes, denies sex, throws a tantrum, or other misbehavior, she is taking multiple jellybeans out of the jar. Most women will add and subtract so that it roughly evens out over time. The best move, however, is to add so many jellybeans that when she takes it away by withdrawing from the relationship, the man has no choice but to consider commitment because of the VAULE she has brought to his life.

Consistently add to the jar

Consistent-adders may not dazzle you at first, but they are the girls who continue to add value as the relationship progresses. They take care of you when you are sick, keep nagging to a minimum, and are generally just very pleasant to be around. While the sex may not be mind-blowing, it is good, on-demand and the girls keep in shape. These girls often have other intellectual pursuits and practical skills such as cooking, and a more even-keel outlook on life. The way to describe this type of relationships is “easy”, because it does not add any further headache to your life.

Most well-adjusted red pill relationships follow this blueprint. Women will be women, but the disruptions (and thus subtractions from the jar) are at an absolute minimum. We tend to make dating, relationships, and the game into an adversarial interaction, but sometimes we forget that with the right maintenance and choice of woman, it can be a value-adding experience. If you believe in marriage, you would consider making a long-term investment only to women who fall into this category.



“What I’m saying now sounds cruel and all fukked up. But that’s how we feel.” - patrice oneal

, fukk all this....ladies, just suck ya man's dikk

 

[TLR Is Mental Poison]

Keeping a man is simple.

a) Love
b) Loyalty
c) Obey orders
d) Stay at home
e) No wondering eyes/lust for other men (even celebrities)
f) Cook
g) Clean
h) Keep in shape
i) Be a supporter to the children she bred
j) Have hobbies when your man is busy, like knitting, reading books, gardening etc.
k) Don't question your man, always support him even if you may disagree

Its even simpler than that. See: the 3 F's

 

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

cheaters are scum on both sides, but more women take back cheaters than men do.


For it came to pass, when Solomon was old, that his wives turned away his heart after other gods: and his heart was not perfect with the LORD his God, as was the heart of David his father. For Solomon went after Ashtoreth the goddess of the Zidonians, and after Milcom the abomination of the Ammonites. And Solomon did evil in the sight of the LORD, and went not fully after the LORD, as did David his father. Then Solomon built a high place for Chemosh, the abomination of Moab, in the hill that is before Jerusalem, and for Molech, the abomination of the children of Ammon. And likewise did he for all his foreign wives, which burntincense and sacrificed unto their gods. And the LORD was angry with Solomon…


So the Lord said to Solomon, ‘Since this is your attitude and you have not kept my covenant and my decrees, which I commanded you, I will most certainly tear the kingdom away from you and give it to one of your subordinates’” (1 Kings 11:11).

Solomon wasn't chastised for having multiple wives. He was chastised for allowing them to turn against his god.