That's where I think Joe overstepping tho
I know thats his mans and all, but Joe ain't really required to get updates on where Saf takes his woman. I legit feel if the shyt was flipped, Joe wouldn't be giving nikkas a heads up either, he do as he want anyway.
I don't know how Joe is. I know who he is but i never watched the show. I just put myself in that situation. Of course there isn't any requirement to tell Joe shyt, but if I'm about to do something that is going to make one of my mans uncomfortable, I'll give him a heads up. I wouldn't just blind side him.
And on a separate but related note, if you put a man in an awkward situation, especially involving his family, he might react a certain way. Ego, pride, family and disrespect can make any situation messy real quick.