Joe Budden podcast debates how can you tell the difference between courting and "love bombing"

[MicIsGod]

It's not wild

Look therapy is a great thing for a lot of people, but what is never acknowledged is the fact that therapy makes some people worse. There are plenty of people that walk out of therapy more arrogant than they've ever been

This is especially true these days when "I've been going to therapy" has become a form of social currency

Therapy can only make a narcissist worse, in my opinion(which alot of women naturally are but that’s another story). 2 things can be true. Does therapy bring the worst out of bad people? Sure. But way more often than not it makes people better. I’m not speaking to the people that go 1 time a year to play victim. A good therapist spots this behavior pretty quickly.

 

[Carl Tethers]

nikka said he a romantic.

How you romantically rape a chick?

Rapist laying out rose petals leading to a gun on the dresser, wrapped up in a neat little bow

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

This type of thinking is a scam. It completely removes womens’ accountability , disregards the fact that women often LIKE the flawed guy bc yall are fixers by nature, and it removes a man’s right to pivot based on new information/new behavior.

Like ‘littlest thing’ to who?!? That’s not your call lol He’s entitled to the same feather trigger for bullshyt that social media has women working with. Ain’t so cool when the Rabbit got the gun

And if he is purposely, maliciously doing wrong then the old saying applies ‘fool me once shame on you . Fool me twice….’

Can’t no grown ass woman be ‘manipulated’ by a man. What is he Magneto. Choose better

Damn you sound mad. And I witnessed him do this many times to women he couldn't stand to begin with. Idk what you are on.

And dude would do it to men and women. Obviously not in a homosexual way for men. He would just put them on. Even has men doing time for him. I guess ya'll are just foolish as the women huh?

I know you cannot think beyond your bitterness for women but intentionally manipulating and using people is wrong. I know you think women are subhuman and deserved to be used but luckily your opinion doesn't matter.

 

[bigde09]

Love bombing is basically when narcissists get you attached to them through positive reinforcement and then they abruptly discard you. If you have low self esteem you’ll crave that attention they give you and keep coming back for more. A narcissist like Joe probably knows all about it

 

[Nigerianwonder]

Another term for women to try to escape accountability for their poor choices and decisions. I'm sorry but as an adult you can say NO THANK YOU to extravagant gifts, trips, and expensive restaurant dates from someone you just met or don't know very well. It's not that hard.

Ironically the same birds chirping about "love bombing" are the same ones who would complain about going on a coffee date when this is exactly why coffee and lower budget dates are better in the beginning of getting know someone. Nobody can force you to rush into a relationship or accept gifts and money. If your relationship status can be bought then you are a low key prostitute and these women should just say that.

 

[Canon]

women are just eternal victims ex.37361

 

[Tetris v2.0]

There's a difference between "love bombing" and basic courting.

It's the manipulation factor.

Doing all that because you are crazy about that person and want to give them the best VS doing it disingenuously because you just want to smash and think you have a better chance if you do

At the end of the day, the burden falls on women to be discerning and tell the difference

 

[Brandsdale]

This isn’t a debate for men. We already know what it is.

The part that gets left out when women say ‘love bombing’ and ‘he fell off’ is: no bytch I wasn’t lying, I just got to know you and I no longer like you.

We’re expected to be engaging, dynamic, set up dates, be in a constant state of ‘impress’, while she just sit n look pretty no personality whatsoever. That dynamic has an expiration

bolded is fax lol

 

[In The Zone '98]

Why is there a term for everything!!!!!

 

[Brandsdale]

love bombing is just unnecessary/expensive gifts that are preemptive beccuase youve barely gotten a full chance to know someone

it can be as simple as getting a woman a book or a plant as a gift or something in the early stages of courting (assuming things are going smooth) as oppose to giving her a car or a huge TV

its reallly not rocket science tho. Joe is just a bird loll

 

[Brandsdale]

Why is there a term for everything!!!!!

or folks could just keep it as "doing the most" or "being extra" lol


theres so much simple day-to-day shyt that gets coined a term nowadays

 

[Van Cleef]

The only guy that has legitimately love bombed me (spent mad $$$ then slow ghosted) still watches my stories from a fake profile. So weird.

how u you know it's him?