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yes they do...I am not knocking that man for what works for his family...when I get married I do not want to begin my beginning with my husband separated...but that is just me...

You fail when you start thinking marriage is something different from the relationship.

What ever yall were doing before marriage that was working is the same shyt yall should be doing when you tie the knot.
 

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You fail when you start thinking marriage is something different from the relationship.

What ever yall were doing before marriage that was working is the same shyt yall should be doing when you tie the knot.

it is different...

the people are the same...but marriage should be different...

but I agree that if you were doing certain things that worked for you two as a couple before marriage you should continue it...but of course after marriage you cannot expect things to be identical...when you go from being a couple to sharing a life together changes will take place...
 

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it is different...

the people are the same...but marriage should be different...

but I agree that if you were doing certain things that worked for you two as a couple before marriage you should continue it...but of course after marriage you cannot expect things to be identical...when you go from being a couple to sharing a life together changes will take place...

Marriage is not different. There is not 1 thing different from me and my wife's relationship.

We also lived together a bit before we got married.

If you have been with your partner long enough where you really know them marriage won' be different unless one has an ulterior motive to getting married
 

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Marriage is not different. There is not 1 thing different from me and my wife's relationship.

We also lived together a bit before we got married.

If you have been with your partner long enough where you really know them marriage won' be different unless one has an ulterior motive to getting married

okay
 

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ETA:

All these posts from you nggas just lets me know you fools are not emotionally nor mentally capable of being in relationships with the opposite sex. You nggas just need to fcku each other and get it over with.

Part of the attraction and laundry lists of requirements should include, DOES SHE SHARE MY FINANCIAL GOALS?

Any smart man would have that requirement probably in the top 5 as most important.

You nggas need fathers and life coaches man. I wouldn't even think of getting in a relationship with someone who is financially stupid. If you are currently in that situation, you lost.

Why in the world are you in the red? Rep this man!
 

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Look what Ginger did to DeNiro in Casino....




A bytch ever suggests this shyt it's "SUCK A dikk GET THE fukk OUTTA HERE":stopitslime:
 

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You fail when you start thinking marriage is something different from the relationship.

What ever yall were doing before marriage that was working is the same shyt yall should be doing when you tie the knot.
which like i always say makes the act of marriage pointless. the relationship existed before and after the act.

all marriage is really is signing a contract to merge assets, be legally liable for one another's decisions, and stating that if the relationship fails you will pay out half of your shyt.
 

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There would be a joint account with the wife, but that would be the one where we'd each contribute to pay the general bills and a bit of an emergency fund. Then the amount above that would be in our own separate accounts. Keeps thinsg smoother that way. Don't be worrying about what I'm doing with my money and you use your money to buy what you want.
 
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