My mother has always been slim thats genetics coupled with the fact she takes care of herself. A woman that cant manage whats goes between her hands and her mouth is prone to divorce and consistent breakups.
Like you said, it's probably more so genetics than anything
Most people have a regular metabolism, so the older they get the slower it gets. So unless they keep themselves active (which is harder to do when you get older) then more than likely they gain weight. Especially women after a pregnancy
You don't have to prefer your chick to get fat but if you leave a chick because of a lil, inevitable weight gain then you should've never married her
Jordin had baby fat and was still a cute chick. Knowing that she can get chubby and still be cute , just in case it ever happens, is good to me
Everyone gains weight when they get older. I'm sure your mother hasn't/wasn't the same size her entire life