Just came from Lipstick Alley left depressed.

[marcuz]

What happened to that thread, that shyt got deleted? I can't even find it

iunno, stopped lurking LSA after that shyt

 

[AJtheOne]

Proud to say I don't lurk or post on tHat site

 

[xoxodede]

i've yet to see one coli thread discuss the logistics of not having black daughters. yet i've seen a couple threads on LSA seriously debating the ramifications of aborting black sons.

I'm not going to take up for and speak on all things LSA. But, that doesn't represent LSA. Many of us see threads like that - and just shake our heads and go in and make a comment calling them out on it. And, I can't lie sometimes, I won't even click a thread like that. I like to keep my energy positive - I am sensitive to negativity and it can ruin my day. I'm not going to fight and debate with people who clearly are on some other ish.

The truth of the matter is some BW are just Anti-Black men in general. And we can say the same about SOME BM being anti-BW. It is what it is.

But, just like I was able to be on The Coli and figure out some of the posters who are dealing with self-hate and rejection issues - you have to be able to spot people like that on LSA and online in general. Don't take that like BW are out here with an agenda to stop having Black male children. Maybe a few are - but that's them - and clearly they have some things they are dealing with and need to seek help for. Just like I am not taking "PAWG" threads to mean Black men are out here only trying to make children with white/non-Black women. But, some are though - and that's them....

Some stuff is not worth commenting on. Some people are damaged and truly hurt by things that happened to them in their lives and with members of the opposite sex. Those experiences make them say extreme ish - that is unhealthy in all ways. Hurt people hurt people. And hurt people are on LSA and The Coli.

 

[DStyles]

So after seeing this thread I decided to google it and it looks like I went there after a Google search about a tattoo. Anyways I did a lil lurking and there's a bytch by the name of ingconito or some shut like that. The username looks familiar. Does that bytch post on here?

Anyways, fukk all the LSA bytches. Probably a bunch of feminist dykes.

 

[Claudex]

yeah they go hard. I had chicks say some evil things in my PM's after light hearted comments, rated PG-13 comments. The tone of the messages were so angry and filled will raged. I've been on many boards and still never seen posers like them, they are on another level of angry. The level of anger over there is scary. Its not even a black woman thing, its a mentally ill thing...don't put all BW in that breh.

That's not a healthy place for a black man or black woman to be, those chicks aren't black women, they're mental patients that found a site to gather

And if your self esteem isn't solid at the moment ...def don't read that confession thread that they got. The one @SheWantTheD posted on Christmas. It'll take your mind to places u don' t want to go. Read that, and fukk around you'll be standing on a ledge.


IMO no black man should ever visit that place unless your doing well, got a chick and your mind is right, because then u can just visit for the fukkery and lurk.

 

[joeychizzle]

fukk these entitled hoes.
all they have is A cups, IG followers and stank boxes.

 

[Mindfield333]

hmm... i caught a neg for my comment on here. I guess a weirdo caught feelings

if it don't apply to you, let it fly

 

[ezrathegreat]

"I want white men to want me. I want half white kids. I want the perfect family and I want society to see I am a winner and whiteness is my prize. Its a little messed up but its my dream."


Dear God it's literally 100's of pages of this fukkery on LSA. How have I never heard of this shyt before.
fukked up part was all the people liking this damn post. Smh

This is why the women over there are really upset, it has nothing to do with black men. They just lash out at black men because black men to them represent blackness and being a loser. They will never be white and white men will never want or value them, so they live in constant agony. God help any man who deals with these women.

 

[Indiglow Meta (R$G)]

See. You trying to start ish. Unfortunately, that didn't happen. I can't front - I was waiting and expected one of the Coli men aka "bruhs" to check him or speak up or whatever on my behalf -- or just say "aye - that wasn't necessary" -- but it didn't happen.

BUT THEN, a few months later I got my answer on LSA. A male poster made a comment that a lot of Black men don't feel like it's their responsibility to check another man or stand up for Black women IF that woman is not a family member, friend or his mate/girl. So, I think that's the reason why. Or maybe they thought that was cool or no big deal? I really don't know. The Coli is like a class on male behavior for me.

Being a Daddy's girl and someone who is close to my brother, male cousins and male best friends since childhood - I always EXPECT a man to nip that in the bud. But, this is the Internet and my man, family and friends aren't present.

Which brings up a GREAT point. So many times we hear people say Black women are "masculine" or "independent" or "feminist" or whatever else --- but in that situation I HAD to be what some may call "masculine" and defend myself - cause no one else did - or felt like they should for whatever reason.

The whole issue was stupid anyway -- I was called a "B" for defending another woman some Coli poster went in on talking about her looks - and I asked him how HE LOOKED. He then went in on me - saying I probably looked like this or that - and told him I had no issue with showing my pics if he showed his. And you already know he didn't.

Was his rep red?

 

[DrX]

exactly how it feels...some things are better left not learned

 

[newworldafro]

I had to come out of lurking mode for this one.

I'm a font on LSA and I know FOR SURE that the majority of the fonts on LSA don't hate Black men.

It's many of us that consistently praise, support and are in relationships with + want to be with Black men ONLY. Black women who were raised by, dated and surrounded by good Black men. Also, LSA has a lot of MENTALLY stable, smart, beautiful, in-shape, successful women who are up on all things. And are in loving relationships with Black men.

I learned about the Coli on LSA. One day I lurked over here.. because I just wanted to see why so many of the fonts had a negative view of this forum - and I found out quick. When I first signed up, I was just blown away at getting an inside look at how SOME Black men thought of Black women. It made me sad.

I remember I tried to post on a thread one time and was called a bytch. Like why? LOL. It was that easy to be called a bytch for a comment. That wasn't cool.

I will say it's gotten a lot better since when I first started coming/lurking on this site. I guess cause I know what threads to enter into now and I know some of the posters here - just don't like Black women in general - and I prepare to read some disrespectful ish when I enter into certain threads.

But, just like how I get disturbed on LSA with White/Non-Black men appreciation threads - I feel the same over here when I see "PAWGS" and Black women being called "Bedwenches". Or "Black Feminist" or bytch being thrown around.

I personally don't IR date , but to see Black men go IN on Black women for the same thing a lot of them are doing is crazy to me. I will say I LOVE The Coli's Gifs and I picked up some terms here and there and many laughs from the "bruhs"... so thanks. And I DO notice the many Coli Black men that stand up and show love to Black women too - so that always makes me smile.

But, If someone from the Coli thinks that LSA is so BAD - then - it can be said equally about this forum. I can easily pull out threads, users -- that would make some feel the same way about this forum.

People have to stop generalizing each other - especially Black men and Black women.

Why don't you post over here more?

 

[iBrowse]

"I hate the way I look. I want to be beautiful. Beauty is the be all end all. I want men to look at me in awe, smile at me, hold doors for me, give me free things. I want girls to look up and down at me in jealousy.. My friend experiences all of this. My resent is turning into hatred. I wish she would become fat and bald, or I wish her face became riddled with acne and cysts. Not being desired by men makes me angry. It makes me hate men."

That damn confessions page really is quite disturbing.

I know a few women and posters on here like thissss

 

[Unknown Poster]

Social media has killed black love and it's going to get worst with newer technology

It really has. Its seems the culture of self hate the internet has fostered has hit black folks the hardest where all of these black women wanna promote "swirling", the black women hate from black men...etc.

 

[Unknown Poster]

"I hate the way I look. I want to be beautiful. Beauty is the be all end all. I want men to look at me in awe, smile at me, hold doors for me, give me free things. I want girls to look up and down at me in jealousy.. My friend experiences all of this. My resent is turning into hatred. I wish she would become fat and bald, or I wish her face became riddled with acne and cysts. Not being desired by men makes me angry. It makes me hate men."

That damn confessions page really is quite disturbing.

Sounds like she's one step away from throwing acid in her face out of spite and jealousy.

 

[LuckyLibra619]

LSA is a much better forum than thecoli, their sub-forums are great. and their more inclusive.

thecoli is run by a lot of miserable, ignorant, naive black men who don't know the black struggle, but found an article or two online and think they can speak on shyt.

You should go over to LSA then, they obviously hate straight Black men over there so maybe they'll accept you
I'm a straight man whose had sex exclusively with other men for the past 7 years, AMA