Just Found out my Dad is having a affair

[porque]

Lurking for 2 weeks a lot of replies ready, and have off from work and the kids for the weekend. Then its back to the grind

that makes no fukking sense

no need to play with us

 

[neko_804]

Don't look at my shyt either.

Do you nikkas sleep?

 

[The Unknown Hype]

You should be happy for him, he's living his life. It's time to live yours. You're about to graduate college and you're still living at home? You're in position to judge your father.


Your sisters aren't going to starve to death.

yeah i moved back from living on campus since I had lived in the dorms about 2 years but its expensive so moved back home to save some money. And if its all good then why cant he just tell the truth about the situation im still affected by this since he was the reason i stopped working to focus more on school

 

[neko_804]

I used to post on sohh

You from NJ?

 

[Daenerys Targaryen]

That's so difficult. However, this is apart of adulthood. We all have to learn that out parents aren't perfect at some point.

 

[The_Sheff]

yeah i moved back from living on campus since I had lived in the dorms about 2 years but its expensive so moved back home to save some money. And if its all good then why cant he just tell the truth about the situation im still affected by this since he was the reason i stopped working to focus more on school

Your father doesnt have to tell you who he is fukking, yall both grown ass men. Let that man live. If he isnt doing right by your sisters then that can be an issue, but him and other women has nothing to do with you since your parents are separated.

 

[Mr.Raider]

Do you nikkas sleep?

Been procrastinating all day sorry.

 

[88m3]

yeah i moved back from living on campus since I had lived in the dorms about 2 years but its expensive so moved back home to save some money. And if its all good then why cant he just tell the truth about the situation im still affected by this since he was the reason i stopped working to focus more on school

Maybe it's none of your business? You're a grown man or woman and he's a grown man. If it isn't serious with whatever is going on why even bother bringing it up to you, you're his child after all, not his confidant. As far as telling your mother... I mean what good is that going to do for anyone involved? No one.

 

[Metta World Movement]

technically him and my mom are separated but are still married. Went to work with him today and his phone went off so I checked since i had suspicions after he had been coming home late for about the whole week before([plus this nikka doesnt buy any food for the house anymore). Some of yall would say its cool but ever since my mom left he hasnt really been helping her raise my two sisters or even bother to talk to his daughters. idk why its making me so mad so tell me am I trippin or is he in the wrong. text were of the woman saying what was on the menu for sunday and all these good morning text I cant tell my mom cuz she still has hope that he will change and he tried to get her back at first but while he is how he is now its best they stay separated. But I still feel like they should be divorced before all this goes down. He feels that woman is more important than his family apparently...as you can see this runs deep but am I in the wrong as should i leave it alone?

 

[The Unknown Hype]

Your father doesnt have to tell you who he is fukking, yall both grown ass men. Let that man live. If he isnt doing right by your sisters then that can be an issue, but him and other women has nothing to do with you since your parents are separated.

nah he doesnt i would rather not know but when it comes to no food is coming into that house and i might be having to pick up a job instead of spending my savings(the whole pointof being home) to eat maybe i shoudl get a heads up. plus i guess half of it is him doing my mom like that

 

[Mr.Raider]

Your mom doesn't get any money or have a job?

 

[Hacksaw Jim Thuggin]

nah he doesnt i would rather not know but when it comes to no food is coming into that house and i might be having to pick up a job instead of spending my savings(the whole pointof being home) to eat maybe i shoudl get a heads up. plus i guess half of it is him doing my mom like that

doesnt your mom work?

 

[The Unknown Hype]

you gotta understand though is was just gonna be the same shyt and if he had tried to change it would be different. But when i say try its more like he was saying "come back or you will fail out there"

 

[Hacksaw Jim Thuggin]

you gotta understand though is was just gonna be the same shyt and if he had tried to change it would be different. But when i say try its more like he was saying "come back or you will fail out there"

how long your parents been together?

 

[The Unknown Hype]

doesnt your mom work?

yeah but she doesnt make crazy money shes in social work and cant even afford to buy a house without a setback at this point. and here the fukked up part my dad has like 3 he owns all close knit together. If it was just her whatever but she has my 2 sisters