Just got BANNED from POF...

mannyrs13

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I've noticed women tend to respond more when you say something inappropriate then if you come correct on there. They might not agree with it always but they'll give a response. Hit them up saying hi and asking about one of their interests and they usually won't reply. Some women just block for no reason without even reading a message or viewing profile. They just use it to inflate their egos. Just keep it moving and on to the next one. Not like you likely to find your soul mate on there anyways. Get in, get out.
 

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Emperor_ReinScarf pretty much already gave yall a blueprint on how to get at these online chicks.

the main thing is to leave a lot of blanks in your presentation and approach. Only one or two pics. vague short sentence in your profile.
the main idea is for her not to be sure what type of guy is talking to her initially. a chick won't dismiss you right away as long as she's not sure if you're a good look for her or not. it's the whole "fear of missing out" thing. so you play on that fear by remaining vague enough that she can't peg you in a specific category. she will fill out the blanks on her own (aka play herself). Then you put her in positions where she has to make a choice right away. don't negotiate with her, don't debate or argue with her, just give her the options and fall back completely. by doing that, she has to choose between compromising to a dude she doesn't know anything about but who may be a good look for her, or saying no and maybe missing out on something amazing. most will try to play it to the middle and try to stall while finding out more about you. that's why i said you don't debate or negotiate. just cut her off right away with no bitterness in your tone. she'll wonder even more about you. this gives them adrenaline, Faced with these types of decisions,

most chicks will choose to continue with you if they have no better percieved options, if they already invested some time and emotion into you and most importantly if you don't give her the option to take her time. she will feel like she just cooperate for now and put you in the bushes if she later finds out you're a loser. but she's digging herself in a ditch the more she compromises herself. this will work at any stage (wether it's the initial message, getting her phone number, or smashing. hell sometimes just acting that way they'll be the ones making moves to lock you down.
 

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I'm close to London, and it's a wrap for me on POF. I got talking to one NICE lighty in my area, then for some reason my account got deleted. Made another one, hit her up again and she went quiet on me

But then my man put me onto Afro Romance, was up on there for about a week or two, and now I'm dating from there...
 

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Rosenbreg's, Rosenberg's...1825, Tulane
:wow:


although i am taking a break from all dating cause im semi-boo'd up


i will admit that i received a warning from Match for the template msg that i posted in the thread i made



some chick said she felt scared
just cause i said we could rob liquor stores in the nude together as a date:stopitslime:



like the bytch dont understand sarcasm :upsetfavre:


so the Match admin sent me a warning msg:upsetfavre:




but i smashed beacoup others with that shyt tho:smugfavre:
 

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Real convo I just had with a girl on POF. We've been messaging for about a couple days prior

Me: I'm rarely on this site, do you wanna text?

A day later....

Me: You ignored me cause I asked if you wanna text? Aw lol
Girl: No i actually was in the hospital for kidney stones but ok assume if you like
Me: You would use a serious thing like kidney stones for an excuse to not exchange numbers
Wow.....
Girl: You have kik ?

5 min later...

Girl: Reason i say that is i could of proven to you i do not lie about my health problems as i told you in the above convo i just had surgery what i didn't tell you was all the complications I've had since getting it but you don't know me and have no reason to believe me so it is what it is goodbye


Scandalous hoes I swear :laff::laff::laff:
 

rogue_riezo

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Never been on POF but I've been feasting on Tinder and when I'm really desperate Badoo :mjlol:.
 

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If you have a good looking face, then that shyt is easy. And we have already seen that that's the case. Le sigh.
 

rogue_riezo

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If you have a good looking face, then that shyt is easy. And we have already seen that that's the case. Le sigh.

Take better pictures :yeshrug:. Angle your face, focus on other shyt, obscure your face etc. Hell take selfies and block your face with the camera. Atleast you'd get hits then from there use your mouthpiece.

If you're:flabbynsick: and ugly only Jesus can save you.
 
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