Just got out a 4 year relationship at 28

[⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐]

perfect timing, 28 looks better on your dating profile than 31

you can focus on yourself and choose to let some fun come your way or you can focus on getting yourself together


ask yourself

who am I?


because we lose a sense of ourselves in relationships of such length that don’t go right, there are a lot of things not going right I lasted four years. You guys likely even made a difficult on yourselves more than once just to make it work.


All training to have you ready for the woman that is right for you

 

[Scaaar]

It's lame as fuk to be teaching women life shxt when you dont care about them and they're basically just a sex object to you.



That "teaching" part is what i have a snag with. If I have to teach you regular life shxt you arent relationship eligible to me any more and I dont find coaching someone I'm fuking very attractive unless we are in an exclusive relationship. The only teaching I'm doing up until that point is teaching her who i am, my boundaries, and my standards. Yall out here trying to "teach" women when there are too many out here to even have to do that. Its plenty that are already life competent.

I'm in my late 30s, I don't have anything in common besides hobbies and interests with a 21 year and I've probably been interested in that hobby longer than she's been alive. Its an unreciprocal relationship where she get all this life knowledge, access to places and experiences above her station, and all I get is some ass. My resources/time are worth more than that.

Only thing a 21 year got for a 30+ guy is pu$$y and problems, and chances are the pu$$y mid because she doesn't know what she's doing yet. If she does know what she's doing its likely because she's got heavy practice which is problematic for obvious reasons. If youre in your 30s she probably doesn't even really want to fuk you unless you got some stuff for her, she'd much rather be smashing that football senior on campus but he's likely still broke.

What does a 20 year old have that a 26 year old doesnt have except more whinning and immaturity?

Yall keep thinking these young girls are some sort of preferred women because they arent "damaged" and you can treat them like a bag of chips, dont complain when you end up looking like Shannon Sharpe or Billy Belichek.

Preaching breh! They out here preying on these younger women and think it's cool. Why do you even want a woman in your circle that's a liability like that? They use their money as a in and then get mad when she's only around for the bread. Some of these brehs got some deep trauma to be messing with chicks a few years removed from HS and beating their chest like they won at life. You mentioned Shannon sharp and Belichek and some of these dudes look up to stuff like that. Get you a chick that also has something to lose. You cut out a lot of the BS doing that.

 

[Treblemaka]

Yall dudes do way too much.

If you can’t get/don’t like younger women then do you but i’ve dated 19-35 and everything in between. I know what I like.

I’m not about to break down all the reasons for you not to date older if you want to. Do you.

Certainly dont blame you for not sharing your reasons, youre not obligated to, but now that mentioned it i am curious as to what they are. Especially if youre going to tell anyone in their 30s that its a good idea, and especially if it doesn't have anything to with a fuk or a finesse.

It's just a conversation, tho breh. I'm just speaking from my perspective.

 

[Silkk]

Certainly dont blame you for not sharing your reasons, youre not obligated to, but now that mentioned it i am curious to what they are. Especially if youre going to tell anyone in their 30s that its a good idea. And especially if it doesn't have anything to with a fuk or a finesse.

It's just a conversation, tho breh. I'm just speaking from my perspective.

I meant that in the sense of if I did then I wouldn’t try to tell you not to.

I’m not opposed to anyone dating their age/older.

I’m 34 now so most women my age have kids, more situations they’ve been in, etc.

Younger women usually don’t and they’re more physically appealing in most cases. I’ve also just had a lot more genuine fun with younger women, They’re usually softer and more submissive in my experiences. And when i’m ready to have kids i’d rather it be with someone younger than someone older for health purposes.

 

[maxamusa]

I missss yooooouuuuu.......I''mm talking 2 u bbaaaabbbbbyyy.....I missssss yoooooouuUUuUuUUuU

hit that liquor and feel that pain OP

 

[maxamusa]

You're one of the bruhs on here that I've seen champion commitment .

I feel you, dawg; it's kinda rough out here; before I found my girl, it seemed like finding a woman was hard because either they had kids (which I'm not against if she only has one) or had a thing for chasing after other women's baby daddies aka men who are already taken, so being a single and childless man doesn't seem like a pro anymore.

Back in the days of our fathers, uncles, and grandfathers, a man with no kids used to get women jumping, but nowadays, it's like they want dudes with kids/baby mamas.

I'm 29 so I can relate to the dating scene for guys our age. In regards to the bolded, have any of y'all other bruhs gone through these issues? Or maybe it's just in my city.

Lock something down for your 30s....thats the right way to begin your journey into the next decade