You can't go wrong with communication so if you tell her something respectful like " I don't recommend you hitting me", then you did your part in checking her and communicating your likes and dislikes.
My lady was on some other type shyt when I met her so I had to retrain her on how I do like
1. Don't point your finger at me
2. Look at me when you talk and don't show me your back when you talk to me
3. Don't say "whatever" because I view it as disrespectful.
4. Its NO or YES, I don't know wtf "mmmm mmmm " is
I put some advice in that Quick lil Gems for women thread. Like don't talk to a woman with your back against a wall, put her back to the wall, don't kiss a woman with your back on a wall etc. When you hug a chic put your hands on her hips etc.. Don't let a chic hover over you like for instance you laying down and she standing up talking, make the effort to get up and make her sit or you get up and talk. Also try this, in just a regular conversation in bed for example, grab her throat or grab her from behind the neck and look in her eyes, not hard but firm ..do that one time, let her get used to them grips to the neck....also if you talking to her, grab her hips and look her in the eye during conversations....its techniques like this that will train a bytch or smooth a bytch out and get her mind right. Ask her to repeat what you just told her and to start the sentence by stating your first name, ex: "Eric, you said to pass me a pillow and a beer", you can also train her by also letting her hear you state her name in directives, ex: "Mary, you said not to put the toothpaste cap back on after using it". Be consistent, chics like and respond to structure and consistency. You won't ever have to think "she got me fukked up" if you nip things in the bud certain actions or traits.