Just saw my dad today...

[GoldTeef]

If he wasn't there for you when you were growing up then you're not obligated to help him.

 

[lucky lefty]

Stop being a p*ssy and let that sperm donor who aint do shyt 4 u outside of being dumb enough to skeet in a bytch that he had no intention of helping to raise a child suffer til he dies.

Karma outchea tryna keep the balance & yo bytch ass is fukking it up witcho bleeding heart bullshyt.

 

[knickscrusaderm]

Stop being a p*ssy and let that sperm donor who aint do shyt 4 u outside of being dumb enough to skeet in a bytch that he had no intention of helping to raise a child suffer til he dies.

Karma outchea tryna keep the balance & yo bytch ass is fukking it up witcho bleeding heart bullshyt.

Harsh delivery but this .

fukk that nikka op he ain't do shyt for you by the looks of it . Give him that eternal L and deny him assistance .

 

[CouldntBeMeTho]

Idk if you have experience dealing with mentally ill people. It can be a lot of extra shyt you may not be expecting. You may not be in a position to really help him even if u tried.

 

[ℒℴѵℯJay ELECTUA]

Your damn father and here you asking what you should do?
Pray you don't have kids..no diss miss.

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

Take him in

 

[GodinDaFlesh]

Help the dude out and try to forge that father/son bond that you never had. I know your first instinct is to say, "Fukk that dude, where was he back when I needed him?", but who knows what issues he had that led to that? A lot of men in this country, especially black men, have it hard in this country which can lead to the breakdown of the family structure. You only have one father man. At some point we as humans have to let go of grudges and mindful of other people's situations.

 

[BNT]

Your a better man than I, my Dad reached out last year to come to his Fathers funeral I hit him with the

 

[Mandizi]

Give it a chance to try to help him out. To what extent is your choice and comfort zone. At least try to reach out, instead of not doing so and regretting your decision later if your dad were to pass on (not wishing that ). If you try and he doesn't accept, then at least you won't have the burden of "what if" on your mind.

If you be a blessing to your dad, "He" will bless you.

 

[Slaimon Khan Shah]

My dad was never around when I was growing up to begin with, so we're like complete strangers. It's been a year since I last saw him. I found out that he's now homeless and has memory loss problems, maybe dementia. He's lost a lot of weight, no job and wanders around the city He still has a car and sleeps where he can at peoples houses. I'm sorta conflicted right. Not sure if I should try to take him in and help get him work or what... I don't know...

Any advice? What would you guys do if you were in this situation?

I just recommend you treat him the best you can (within moderation) to attain the best afterlife possible for yourself.

 

[CoochieMane]

Dude is just a sperm donor I would just keep it moving and have nothing to do with him

 

[Snoopy Loops]

Think about your children finding out that their father left his own father on the streets. That's some despicable shyt.

 

[yo moms]

That isn't your dad. A dad actually sticks around to help raise their offspring. Chuck up the dueces to him like he did to you.

this is why women should never be in a position of authority. emotional and bitter they cant be trusted to make the right decision.

 

[bcrusaderw]

this is why women should never be in a position of authority. emotional and bitter they cant be trusted to make the right decision.

Enjoy prison.

 

[yo moms]

Enjoy prison.

at least i dont have to live the rest of my life being a bitter bytch like you you must be real happy