Just saw my dad today...

[Kitsch]

You wouldn't be here without him.

 

[bcrusaderw]

at least i dont have to live the rest of my life being a bitter bytch like you you must be real happy

I'm happy as fukk. I won't be forced to toss salad in prison. Interesting that you only decided to target me as "emotional and bitter" when several male posters said the exact same thing. That doesn't fit with your moronic notions about women though. It does fit with your history of targeting women which is what you are coincidentally going to prison for. Clench your cheeks. I've heard that deters bum rape.

 

[yo moms]

I'm happy as fukk. I won't be forced to toss salad in prison. Interesting that you only decided to target me as "emotional and bitter" when several male posters said the exact same thing. That doesn't fit with your moronic notions about women though. It does fit with your history of targeting women which is what you are coincidentally going to prison for. Clench your cheeks. I've heard that deters bum rape.

i was falsely accused you dumb fukk. have you heard the story? and who the witnesses are?

 

[bcrusaderw]

i was falsely accused you dumb fukk. have you heard the story? and who the witnesses are?

Still I hope you enjoy your hopefully lengthy stay in prison.

 

[Paradise]

Maybe I'm not as fukk up as some people, but I would at least reach out to him and try to get him some help.

I try to treat others the way I would want to be treated and ignoring that your father is in need is not going to make you feel better.

I understand that people may have disdain for their fathers as I came from a home where my biological father didn't want to be involved with me until my teenage years.

My father passed away in 2011 of a massive heart attack and I didn't even get to talk to him before he passed.

Hell I didn't even know he had passed until I overheard my grandma talking to her friend on the phone. She told me that my mama knew he had passed, but she didn't want me to know because the man hadn't done anything for me so why be sad that he was dead.

Even though he didn't do anything for me I would still help him.

But I wouldn't or I should say couldn't leave my father out on the streets even though he wasn't involved in my life.

But you do what you feel is best for you...

 

[wickedsm]

Op good luck to you in whichever you choose. My only advice is do what you can live with. It may be help alot it may be help just some it may be not help at all.
This isn't even about him, how you choose to handle this is about you.

Something I always tell my own grown kids. You aren't responsible for anyone else's actions, only your reactions to them.

Again, good luck

 

[Elle Driver]

I would help him personally, just because he walked out on you doesn't mean you have to abandon him in his time of need. Put him in some kind of transitional shelter, help him get medicaid, get him to a food pantry,if he's elderly and disabled then needs a lot of help. I don't believe in hurting someone back if they hurt you.

 

[The Nigerian]

My dad was never around when I was growing up to begin with, so we're like complete strangers. It's been a year since I last saw him. I found out that he's now homeless and has memory loss problems, maybe dementia. He's lost a lot of weight, no job and wanders around the city He still has a car and sleeps where he can at peoples houses. I'm sorta conflicted right. Not sure if I should try to take him in and help get him work or what... I don't know...

Any advice? What would you guys do if you were in this situation?

You owe him for giving you life.

The least you can do is to give him a safe passage into the next life.

 

[gho3st]

nursing home

 

[Slaimon Khan Shah]

@bcrusaderw Hello! I just wanted to say don't let the hate bring you down.

 

[MidniteJay]

fukk that dude.

I'll never for the life of me know why people care sooo much about people that don't care about them.

But yeah. Take him in. He fukked your mom and cummed in her you know

I'm sorry but this. I've heard what my father had to say about us. If I ever saw him in destitute I wouldn't lift a finger to help him. There's nothing I can learn from that dude, even his own father and brothers hate him.

 

[GetInTheTruck]

Let him be, he chose that life.

 

[trick]

Find a reputable group home for him to live in, they'll be able to take care of him and you'll be able to visit him as often as you want. Find a crisis program in your city and they'll be able to help you out with housing applications, doctors, etc.

 

[ottorocket]

Why would you help someone who abandoned you when you needed them?

 

[BujuBoombastic]

That isn't your dad. A dad actually sticks around to help raise their offspring. Chuck up the dueces to him like he did to you.

Heartless.