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I'm at 19 years of marriage. 90% of the post is facts. I love my fam tho and would never leave them out here in this crazy world alone. Yes shyt gets monotonous at times. Finding someone else and starting the process all over doesn't make sense to me. The butterflies only last so long. Nice vacas and date nights help. Give each other massages and nurture each other as we age. We are very traditional, I get the final say in everything and my wife respects me as the head of the house. Yes I envy people who can just up and do what they want, when they want without having to consider another person. But the trade off no real love and support in this crazy world isn't appealing to me. So I choose the family life.

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I figured. It gives merit to the concept of marriage and love being hard.
 

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Marriage Is Like A Job, You Gotta Constantly Put Work In To Make It Successful

It’s Like Maintaining A Diet

It’s Easier To Want To Fulfill Your Own Happiness By Eating Fried Chicken, Hamburgers, Chocolate Shakes Etc.. But For The Betterment Of Your Life You Need To Constantly Be Aware Of The Needs Of Your Body In Order To Maintaine It As Healthy As Possible For It To Last As Long As Possible

Think Of Your Marriage As Your Body And That Bad Food As Your Selfish Needs, You Can Still Do The Things You Enjoy In Life, You Don’t Gotta Give Up Who You Are, You Just Gotta Make Sacrifices Sometimes And You Can’t Do Those Things As Often

If You’re A Person That’s All About YOU, Don’t Even Bother Getting Married, Live Alone Forever, Play Your Video Games All You Want, Drink As Much As You Want, fukk Who You Wanna fukk, If That’s What Brings You Joy In Life And You’re Not Ready For The WORK Marriage Entails Then Stay Single,

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Great analogy. +rep
 

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I'll probably get married but not until I'm 50. As far as kids, don't know that's gonna work.

This thread makes me think, does relationships work if you stay separate households? I've heard of this and wonder how it works
 

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He speaking for himself.

I don't have these issues.

I ain't no bytch.....I express how I feel and she does the same in order to NEVER feel the way that simp does. He lost me with the "resentment" sentence. That's exactly why you vent and communicate to avoid that.

Plus, I'd get a divorce if I was really unhappy. Life is too short does the bullshyt.

I wouldn't care what anyone thinks about my marriage ending. Life happens...nikkas get divorced everyday, b.

I'm just scared to have kids and get divorced...I know plenty of single moms and dads and that shyt seems rough and draining.

But I get money and have a great job and friends so I'll be fine either way :blessed:
 
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marriage is like church and AA.
it's for quitters.....i'm no damn quitter
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Marriage Is Like A Job, You Gotta Constantly Put Work In To Make It Successful

It’s Like Maintaining A Diet

It’s Easier To Want To Fulfill Your Own Happiness By Eating Fried Chicken, Hamburgers, Chocolate Shakes Etc.. But For The Betterment Of Your Life You Need To Constantly Be Aware Of The Needs Of Your Body In Order To Maintaine It As Healthy As Possible For It To Last As Long As Possible

Think Of Your Marriage As Your Body And That Bad Food As Your Selfish Needs, You Can Still Do The Things You Enjoy In Life, You Don’t Gotta Give Up Who You Are, You Just Gotta Make Sacrifices Sometimes And You Can’t Do Those Things As Often

If You’re A Person That’s All About YOU, Don’t Even Bother Getting Married, Live Alone Forever, Play Your Video Games All You Want, Drink As Much As You Want, fukk Who You Wanna fukk, If That’s What Brings You Joy In Life And You’re Not Ready For The WORK Marriage Entails Then Stay Single,

:yeshrug:
Great assessment
 

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He speaking for himself.

I don't have these issues.

I ain't no bytch.....I express how I feel and she does the same in order to NEVER feel the way that simp does. He lost me with the "resentment" sentence. That's exactly why you vent and communicate to avoid that.

Plus, I'd get a divorce if I was really unhappy. Life is too short does the bullshyt.

I wouldn't care what anyone thinks about my marriage ending. Life happens...nikkas get divorced everyday, b.

I'm just scared to have kids and get divorced...I know plenty of single moms and dads and that shyt seems rough and draining.

But I get money and have a great job and friends so I'll be fine either way :blessed:
I can tell your wife fukking another nikka just from this post
 
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