see my later post.
But the same goes for you also. If you spent all of your life in Montgomery County( I live out here now, so I know how nice it is ), how can you relate to somebody who grew up in the bad parts of DC or Bmore? You can't at all. So in a lot of our minds, you haven't experience what supposedly defines a black person either.Yeah you may have been denied a job or pulled over before. But that's small stuff compared to what happens in the 'Hood'. So to alot of us you aren't black either, you're a cornball, geek, c00n, sell-out,soft. If you aren't from the same type of environment i'm from, you are the same thing to me as a white person, your skin may not be white, but you aren't one of us either. That's the same thought process some of you are displaying in here, yeah it may be on a lesser degree. But it still falls in line with that thinking.
never ending cycle...and I dare anybody to say this is some new type of issue im bringing up or you never heard of this type of thinking before. Its still at the back of my mind when I deal with blacks who had it 'Good' all of their life. But who am i to say ' O, you must be white'...its stupid.