No one respects a people with no testicles (to be blunt). Let his mom worry about if it's fair. I can't imagine them releasing a video of Bow wow when he was 15 making oven, hook nose jokes and using k*** to refer to Jewish people (just to pick a random group, insert anyone) and a chunk of them falling over themselves to excuse his behavior, 15 yo or not. Nor should they.
Black people, so noble and magnanimous...from the bottom of the barrel. This type of response impresses no one (why would it? They know they wouldn't react that way. People act like they admire it as evolved but really....). Every time one of THEM do or say something out of pocket, WE end up arguing, pointing fingers at, and tearing down each other. There's this hyper focus on "blaming the victim" in society now because people are cowards and it's easier to pile on than to take on the actual guilty party (or what they represent, like in this case. These pervasive racist attitudes).
So forgiving to other groups, but keep everlasting beefs with each other. Give people the benefit of the doubt, who wouldn't give it to you, brehs.