Keep it real: Would you forgive your chick if she cheated?

[wire28]

In my short time on The Coli, I've found that people simply like to be contrarian just for the sake of being contrarian. It seems especially so for the women.

I don't know where people come from, but in my experience, men are much less forgiving of women cheating as women are of men cheating. Most of the men that I know who cheated, including myself, still kept their women after they were found out. The woman may have been angry and hurt but she stayed. Most of the women that I know who cheated were dropped, and some got more than just being dumped. Yea, some dudes, cupcakes, kept the woman but they weren't the majority.

Peace

Yeah I don't even speak in threads like this, just skim them and keep it movin, but that one poster got me blown lol. No idea how they came to that conclusion. Either just playing devils advocate or seen 30 separate cases of women cheating and the men taking them back or some shyt lol

 

[MikelArteta]

The reason why most women take back a cheater is the same how women emotionally withdrawal before they break up a marriage or relationship..

Most women are run by emotions and just can't walk away right of the bat. So I'd you have a girl you cheat on her shell be like f you nukka but because her heart hasn't been emotionally cut from you she will be back giving you another chance.

Every woman I've known who has been cheated on has given dude another chance, maybe they break up later due to the infidelity but they give another chance. Because they are still emotionally invested.

When I was cheated on , did I still like the girl? Yes even though she cheated on me. Did I stay? Hell no.

The first time I threw it in her face and she denied and denied all the texts pictures etc
Then I cut the cord.

 

[Hypris]

It depends. If you've been dating for a year and she cheats, it's over.

If you're married for years and have kids with a broad, it wouldn't be as easy to just end the relationship if she cheats. You gotta think about the kids, you gotta think about your finances after the divorce...shyt. I'm wouldn't ever wanna deal with that.

 

[Jone2three45]

Kids or no kids,
If she cheats,
And I find out...
I'm gone.

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

Would you cheat on me??

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

Would you cheat on me??

I've never cheated on anyone. You included.

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

I've never cheated on anyone. You included.

Your missing out on the rush of cheating

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

Your missing out on the rush of cheating

I don't get a rush from cheating.

 

[Mr.Black]

 

[Ronnie Lott]

it's really not tho....esp considering how much work and effort many of us women put into pleasing our men. it's extremely insulting tbh.

what do u mean by "work & effort many of us woman put into pleasing our men" Guys put a lot of effort to pleasing their women too and females also cheat. I'M not excusing cheating at all. Both cases are wrong. But imo when a female cheats, it appears to be much worse

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

I don't get a rush from cheating.

I don't get a rush from cheating.

I'd cheat on you just to say I fukkin did it

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

I'd cheat on you just to say I fukkin did it

You would never get the chance hun. You are too unstable for me.

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

You would never get the chance hun. You are too unstable for me.

I'm down to earth and carry a big stick in between my thighs

You saying no to that

 

[Woodwerkz]

For all my coli brehs that are in long term relationships. The married cats, engaged or if you have been with your chick for a number of years. Even those of yall who have kids with that woman, yall live together, share a household, bills, rent, mortgage etc. if she cheated and you found out, would you toss her in the Coli bushes or would you stick with her and try work it out?

I know for the most part Coli nikkas stick to the strick code of #HOH, no simpin, 6 certs, 6 series and 6 figgaz, 6 dimes. But would yall toss ol girl in the bushes when u have so much to give up Would you give her another chance

Yep...I let her guilty conscious pay money toward my car note, buy me a new laptop...DJ speakers and paid off my original Student Loan balance. But you can only live with that hollow feeling in the relationship but for so long. I put up with a lot of b.s. during that process...so even with those gifts it wasn't worth it. I let this one chick that i was really feeling get away trying to make it work. When I pushed her away and made her go on a date she didn't want to go on [smh b/c they got married a year later]...I felt like i sold my soul to the devil.

 

[Solano707]

Honestly, it would be hard. I've been with her for 14, married for 10 and we have 4 children together. I mean that shyt would cut so deep - it's so hard to even fathom the though of her cheating. I know I would lose it personally. I honestly can't say yes or no and I prefer not to - I don't ever want to cross that bridge and hopefully it never comes.