Keep it real: Would you forgive your chick if she cheated?

[beanz]

thats hard. as much as it would hurt, i would let her go. i could never forgive that. if a woman cheats, it wasnt just sexual, its alot deeper. a woman(a good one at least) will only cheat on u if a part of her fell in love with the other man. thats what makes it harder. the thought that she thinks about him all day, that he makes her laugh, that when ya sitting watching TV and she is being quiet, she is likely thinking about and missing him. nah i would throw her to the bushes but id be torn up inside about it for years most likely.

 

[karim]

I wouldn't and I didn"t. When I found out my ex cheated I turned my back and walked away without ever looking back. Yes, part of it was an ego thing, but the main reason was that I could not trust her anymore and that I told her from the beginning that should she ever cheat on me, she would never see me again. Cheating is a sign of a lack of rspect and I can't stay in a relationship with someone who disrespects me. It's been three years and the bytch keeps writing me letters. Had I stayed I wouldn't be able to look at myself in the mirror, but as it is I'm winning while she's miserable.

 

[sanityovar8ted]

if my husband cheated, it would depend on how i found out. if he came out on his own and told me i would forgive him , we all make mistakes. if i had some intuition and had to investigate on my own, id prolly still forgive him but it would be hard and he would hafta really work hard to earn my trust again. but please believe me no matter what i aint gone forget that he cheated.

 

[DEAD7]

The fact is if we really love a woman most of us will forgive her.

 

[el_oh_el]

It depends. If i had did some dirt and she hadn't found out...then nah i won't leave cause I'm not a hypocritical ass nikka.
Problem with women cheatin vs men is when women cheat, its usually on some emotional shyt. They would be havin long term affairs fallin love with the dude nshyt. A dude can and usually will fukk a chick and not give 2 fukks about her after that nut exits the shaft.

 

[KeysT]

Nope any female that cheat ain't yours.

Men are dumb cheaters. A man will think "damn I wanna fukk this bytch, fukk it my girl won't find out" that's why men often cheat down with women that don't even compare to what they have at home, that natural urge to raise your body count and get a nut

Women are smart, cerebral cheaters. Women actively compare the nikka they cheating with their main, If she cheating on you that mean she did the math and came away with he's better than you in some way, shape, or form, and you can't have that in a relationship.

close thread

 

[hood b. goode]

thankfully this hasn't happened to me yet, but I know that if it did, I would be gone

 

[Brofato]

Love's a weird thing. Not really black and white. Pretty sure that afterward there'd be a whole bunch of justifications on why it might not happen again or some shyt like that to make yourself feel better and to get over it. Gets even muddier when kids are involved.

A lot of people say they'd walk away but don't really know how they'd react til it happens.

 

[saint25225]

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[MikelArteta]

Nope

i've been cheated on and NOPE

even in the bible the one thing in a marriage where you can give your wife the boot and its sanctioned is infidelity.

Life is to short for me to stick with a cheater, and always worrying when she's texting, or always worrying when she's out late etc. screw that.


ever broad starts with 2 strikes

 

[MikelArteta]

Most men would. Of course they'll say they won't.

um your wrong most men think logically not emotionally.

Women are the ones who keep going back to cheaters time and time again.

 

[MikelArteta]

i have taken a cheating whore back one time before and before you know it, she was looking at me like while slurping another dikk less than a month later. so never again. she ruined any chances of me ever doing that shyt again. if i even THINK that my wife is cheating, i will be packing her bags myself and hand delivering it to the other dudes house. she gave him the p*ssy, so i'm giving him the rest of that raggedy hoe. on to greener pastures...

once you take back, its like letting a thief of the hook with no consequences.

the thief will tell the cop im sorry i wont do it again,

allright son go on

give it a while and the thief will steal again


consequences for every action

 

[MikelArteta]

Women cheating is WAY...WAY worse.

I don't care what anyone says.

because more times than not not only is it physical but also a emotional bond.

Men for generations and generations have had mistresses, side pieces, etc. they smashing, but they know at the end of the day who their main chick is, now im not advocating cheating but its different.

A guy can smash a chick and feel absolutely nothing and not do it again if he pleases, a woman forms a emotional soul tie bond with a dude she is smashing that is not her husband or bf, they enter the fog where its like a drug and they just can't stop.



nothing can stop a woman who cheats, not having 5 kids, a loving husband at home, NOTHING

 

[mcdivit85]

When herpes, HPV and HIV give second chances that's when i'll think about forgiving

 

[Diondon]

When herpes, HPV and HIV give second chances that's when i'll think about forgiving

Good point. I don't play with my health like that.