Keep Receipts On These Women Brehs

[mamba]

This is why it is important to choose the right person, that way your problems will be minimized to almost non existent.

Me? I let it be known from the beginning what I will or will not tolerate. I believe in discussing boundaries and parameters right away to set precedent on a relationship.

You simply do not tolerate disrespect! You also have to be strong enough to charge a woman to the game, if she gets way out of pocket. You have to stand by your principles!

Having receipts is cool and all, but it becomes pointless to keep them if you are constantly going though shyt to accumulate them. Cease and desist the disrespect then there will be no need to keep receipts!

Just know that you only live once. You don't know how long you will be on this earth as you are, so cherish what time left you have and get with someone who is mature and emotionally stable enough to deal with you.

Just how I see it...

Facts and more! You have to set those boundaries and ground rules for what you will not accept from jump.

And let the woman know that you will cut bait the minute she violates the agreed upon rules of engagement.

Too many brehs choose wrong and/or don’t lay it out from jump and end up in bad situations.

I had a chick like that recently who started messing up in terms of boundaries. Cut her loose and haven’t looked back since. She’ll never find another breh like me, so I hope she has learned her lesson.

 

[Deafheaven]

Bruh FACTS all day. I just got out of a relationship with a very pretty but manipulative chick.

Advice to bruhs. Dont fukk with a chick that suffers from depression and is not doing anything to cope with the issue. Its stressful bruhs.

For the first time in my life, I see/understand how a dude that doesnt know how to respond to a depressed manipulative women can snap and slap the living fukk out of a women. I dont hit women and never have. If you cant deal with it then leave.

I made her azz move out my apartment. She's the next guy problem now.

Joe this top five woat traits a bytch could have. Terrible. My ex was on this wave.

 

[desjardins]

Someone trying ruin your career on some cancellation shyt is one thing i guess
But just on some normal joe blow shyt not sure this is necessary. I'll just ghost a bytch. she can tell everyone she know a lie shyt won't have any impact on me. Don't give a fukk what ppl think so the lie ain't impacting my day to day. If you move on right you won't even know what's being said about you

 

[mamba]

Joe this top five woat traits a bytch could have. Terrible. My ex was on this wave.

Agreed! I had a chick once that had adult ADHD. Never again.

Felt like I was dealing with a child sometimes. She’d forget stuff, was messy, was always late, etc. Her mind would also get fixated on random stuff to the point that she would lose focus on other stuff.

She didn’t let on that she had ADHD until months into the relationship.

Not someone I felt I could depend on to get shyt done inside of a marriage.

 

[Koapa]

I almost made the mistake of letting a toxic woman like you describe get her hooks in me recently. This chic is beautiful plus driven and I loved talking to her and I wanted her... but I had to come to the tough realization that being involved with her would destroy my life. The homie @ultraflexed helped me to realize this.

Bruh it got so toxic. My world starting revolving around her depression. I started becoming stressed. I took a peep at her journal and her depression was getting worse. She was talking suicide and saying that she was disgusted with me because she hated herself. But she would talk down about me but really she hated her own life. I had to get my guns out the house. I took pics of her journal for evidence. I told my uncle about it. Told him get my phone if anything happens to me.

Im so glad Im not dealing with that fukking drama anymore.

 

[Deafheaven]

Agreed! I had a chick once that had adult ADHD. Never again.

Felt like I was dealing with a child sometimes. She’d forget stuff, was messy, was always late, etc. Her mind would also get fixated on random stuff to the point that she would lose focus on other stuff.

She didn’t let on that she had ADHD until months into the relationship.

Not someone I felt I could depend on to get shyt done inside of a marriage.

The whole selective sadness shyt gets old.

 

[mamba]

Bruh it got so toxic. My world starting revolving around her depression. I started becoming stressed. I took a peep at her journal and her depression was getting worse. She was talking suicide and saying that she was disgusted with me because she hated herself. But she would talk down about me but really she hated her own life. I had to get my guns out the house. I took pics of her journal for evidence. I told my uncle about it. Told him get my phone if anything happens to me.

Im so glad Im not dealing with that fukking drama anymore.

It’s good you got out of that situation, breh.

 

[GnauzBookOfRhymes]

Some of this can be avoided by having real fathers/father figures growing up. Times/technology changes but honestly humans rarely do. We've been doing and dealing with the same shyt for eons. But when you let the internet, celebrities or only women raise your sons this is the kind of shyt that happens. Lot of good women out there but dudes want to chase the wrong shyt in women they want to be in relationships with. If you're out there for the p*ssy then that's a different subject. But men shacking up with chicks that dont offer anything but a fat ass/wet mouth....as soon as she realizes that her p*ssy/mouth no longer has the same control over you, thats when the games will begin. Then a lot of men get into relationships before they have their own shyt straight. Not saying that men HAVE to make a certain amount of money etc, but never put yourself in a situation whereby you are subconsciously trapped into a relationship bc you rely on this other person for your shelter/transportation/livelihood. A man should be able to drop everything and walk the fuk out in a moments notice if necessary. But instead there's an entire generation of cats who cant really afford to leave toxic relationships and end up staying out of necessity. And a lot of women know that and use that as leverage. Whereas when you get into a relationship and the woman knows from jump that you dont need her financially, the balance of power immediately shifts.

if you got money
they can never hold u down in the dark
they can make u feel played
but that money goin' talk

 

[TheIsleofMan]

I’m going through something similar. Tells me one thing then flips the script on me (I actually have witnesses) and tries to do something different. shyt is wack but I know what I’m dealing with so I’m not too upset (as much). Just puts things into perspective.

 

[Neo. The Only. The One.]

Bruh it got so toxic. My world starting revolving around her depression. I started becoming stressed. I took a peep at her journal and her depression was getting worse. She was talking suicide and saying that she was disgusted with me because she hated herself. But she would talk down about me but really she hated her own life. I had to get my guns out the house. I took pics of her journal for evidence. I told my uncle about it. Told him get my phone if anything happens to me.

Im so glad Im not dealing with that fukking drama anymore.

Man thats crazy. The chic I'm talking about, mental illness runs in her fam. Her mother is insane (like literally had to be hospitalized) and while this chic aint nearly as bad as her mom, she has some type of psychotic trait that she takes medicine for. And she's possessive. She got on the phone with me one night and told me "Neo you are f'in MINE. "



In the moment I had the


But when relaying the story to a friend a few days later, she hit the and made me see how crazy it sounded in the context of the convo.

After that, I realized that she was indeed literally trying to own me, she wanted to control everything in my life, it was insane. She's in the same industry I'm in but a little more advanced than me and she would throw me an alleyoop or open a door for me, but it was with her permission. Like she wanted me to be loyal to her and only her in every way imaginable.

Sexy but insane.


That was a situation waiting to happen. I was about to be out here like the mayor of Anchorage

 

[Commish]

Facts and more! You have to set those boundaries and ground rules for what you will not accept from jump.

And let the woman know that you will cut bait the minute she violates the agreed upon rules of engagement.

Too many brehs choose wrong and/or don’t lay it out from jump and end up in bad situations.

I had a chick like that recently who starting messing up in terms of boundaries. Cut her loose and haven’t looked back since. She’ll never find another breh like me, so I hope she has learned her lesson.

Yep! Brehs always say that women are a dime a dozen. OK, if that is true, then act on it, if need be!

You don't have to put up with bs, if you don't want. I don't expect a woman to be perfect nor not have any flaws, but one thing is certain...

If she gonna be my woman, she can't treat her boss and coworkers/colleagues better than me! If she is gonna be on her square and follow company rules and guidelines at work, then she gonna do the same shyt with me at home/private life!

When you deal with a mature, emotionally stable woman, she will understand and respect you. She will always demand the same level of understanding and respect from you. Also, remember that tone and delivery is also important when communicating with someone.

Real recognizes real! Deal with a real one and you will have a happy, sustaining relationship!

 

[MVike28]

another thing this new focus on mental health and self care and shyt has been manipulated to another degree


"You're abusive!!!"

"I never laid a hand on you, matter of fact you laid hands ON ME!!! "


"YOU'RE VERBALLY ABUSIVE AND IT BRINGS ME FLASHBACKS TO THE TRAUMA I SUFFERED WHEN I WAS YOUNGER"

"bytch take that up with your daddy ya mama and any nikka who came before me "

 

[TAYLONDO SAMSWORTHY]

If you find yourself dedicating time to keep receipts on a chick, you’re prolly with the wrong chick

 

[Scustin Bieburr]

Bruh FACTS all day. I just got out of a relationship with a very pretty but manipulative chick.

Advice to bruhs. Dont fukk with a chick that suffers from depression and is not doing anything to cope with the issue. Its stressful bruhs.

For the first time in my life, I see/understand how a dude that doesnt know how to respond to a depressed manipulative women can snap and slap the living fukk out of a women. I dont hit women and never have. If you cant deal with it then leave.

I made her azz move out my apartment. She's the next guy problem now.

Gotta look out for red flags. nikkas take Ls so you don't have to.

*Doesn't have friends who shes close with and has known for over 5 years?
*Dated dudes much older than her/dudes who were already in their 20s when she was in her mid to late teens?
*Mad tattoos and piercings?
*poor relationship with her mother?
*problems with weight where she's complaining but has never seriously done anything about?
*no hobbies that she's passionate about that she can enjoy on her own like sports, art, music or videogames?
*Will start arguments for no reason or to see if you care?
*CONSTANTLY needs reassurance and attention and is on social media?
*Grew up with no male role models she respects?

If the answer is yes to more than 30% of the above then she's a jump off. Never commit.

 

[Entropy Fan]

If you find yourself dedicating time to keep receipts on a chick, you’re prolly with the wrong chick

play with fire and keep a bucket of water nearby brehs