Keep Receipts On These Women Brehs

[mamba]

Yep! Brehs always say that women are a dime a dozen. OK, if that is true, then act on it, if need be!

You don't have to put up with bs, if you don't want. I don't expect a woman to be perfect nor have flaws, but one thing is certain...

If she gonna be my woman, she can't treat her boss and coworkers/colleagues better than me! If she is gonna be on her square and follow company rules and guidelines at work, then she gonna do the same shyt with me at home/private life!

When you deal with a mature, emotionally stable woman, she will understand and respect you. She will always demand the same level of understanding and respect from you. Also, remember that tone and delivery is also important when communicating with someone.

Real recognizes real! Deal with a real one and you will have a happy, sustaining relationship!

Breh. Straight up! A lot of these women know how to follow their white boss and his rules at work, but want to push the envelope at home. That’s a big red flag. Good point.

 

[mamba]

Gotta look out for red flags. nikkas take Ls so you don't have to.

*Doesn't have friends who shes close with and has known for over 5 years?
*Dated dudes much older than her/dudes who were already in their 20s when she was in her mid to late teens?
*Mad tattoos and piercings?
*poor relationship with her mother?
*problems with weight where she's complaining but has never seriously done anything about?
*no hobbies that she's passionate about that she can enjoy on her own like sports, art, music or videogames?
*Will start arguments for no reason or to see if you care?
*CONSTANTLY needs reassurance and attention and is on social media?
*Grew up with no male role models she respects?

If the answer is yes to more than 30% of the above then she's a jump off. Never commit.

All of those are absolutely red flags. Poor relationship with her mother means she will typically have a hard time relating to other women, hence the limited number of female friends.

Which means she will likely have few real hobbies.

Which typically means she will spend a lot of time creating drama or seeking attention to keep herself busy to ward off boredom.

All of it is connected.

 

[Commish]

Breh. Straight up! A lot of these women know how to follow their white boss and his rules at work, but want to push the envelope at home. That’s a big red flag. Good point.

Corey Holcomb made that point a while back and it resonated with me. He was/is right! Just have to nip the bullshyt in the bud when it comes your way. That's all!

Appreciate the positive feedback, Breh mane!

Salute!

 

[GodinDaFlesh]

Yep it's women 101, they have to make you into the evil villain to justify their actions.

 

[HARLEM AL]

stop swimming in the gutter*

The fukk does this mean?

 

[010101]

The fukk does this mean?

stop laying down with broads that are bankrupt in character if you gonna cry about the L's that always come with them*

 

[Thurgood Thurston III]

I keep receipts like Kevin Samuels.

Man, I could write a ten page report on any woman I deal with.

With citations.

 

[SwizzLake]

Facts -- Don't delete those text messages, and evidence to show who she really is in case she plays a victim.

 

[mamba]

I asked a chick recently why her last relationship ended.

She said her previous man didn’t like that she had so many male friends. And that he broke up with her after seeing her out with males friends on social media.

I followed her on social media and could see why breh gave her the boot.

She still hasn’t learned her lesson. I smashed and dashed. Wasn’t about to get caught up in her foolishness.

 

[HARLEM AL]

stop laying down with broads that are bankrupt in character if you gonna cry about the L's that always come with them*

you do know people put on a mask right?

 

[Thurgood Thurston III]

I save voice-mails, emails, and text messages now. Trying to find a way to record telephone conversations lol.

I've had my situation blown up before, I'm not getting caught out there again.

This why I loved Android.

It has the best recording apps that start automatically for every call. FOR FREE.

I used to win so much arguments with friends and girls by just pulling up old conversations and making them listen to it.

Iphone's recording apps are all terrible. They have limits. They cost money. They don't start automatically. They aren't being recorded directly on your phone but rather on the app developer's end or some shyt. So every recording has to be a conference call between you, the person you're talking to, and the developer.

I'm trying to figure out a work around. Even if it has to be an external advice.

 

[SwizzLake]

Lol crazy that this thread is made...

Girl I’m with started giving me attitude since Friday night and being distant. I said I know you dealing with things so I’ll give u your space

Mind you, I’m helping her get her life together and she has an attitude with me. Finally I text her, you wanna push people out your life...that’s fine. I’ll accept you as you are and now ima go back to being a dikkhead and ended the message with your loss...

bytch messages me back quickly and send me photos of her doing work at the house.

as far as keeping meeeages, she accused me of doing something I didn’t... I screenshot her the messages about me telling her she misunderstood and we had moved on from that topic...bytch had an attitude with me because I put her in her place

I am dropping her for good. This relationship is headed no where

She carries too much emotional baggage for me...I am positive and fun, she’s just a bag of negativity. I felt sorry for her but it’s time to move on

Also, I’m sure she’s cheating and to be honest...the thought of someone else fukking her doesn’t bother me at all and that’s how I know I’m done with caring about her and I dint love her...now I’m preparing myself for fake drama when I let her loose

I was dealing with the same type on and off for 3 years.

Recently she accused me of having "secret IG" account for looking at "IG models" and "booties". I asked her what evidence she has to support her claims against me. She wouldn't tell me, but played a psychological game with me. She said "in time, I'll expose you" to me. I took this as a threat, but I quietly stopped talking to her. Then she got super defensive about me ignoring her. She then said to me that "she was playing" the whole time about the IG account, and accused me of not being "there for her" emotionally. She twisted everything back to her and painted me the fault guy. She's done countless of other bs like this before. She suffers from past traumatic issues that caused her depression.

This is girl I'm facing is literally crazy, and I started saving the texts, and voice notes. I'm planning my exit strategically because if I walk-out suddenly I know she'll accuse me of something. The next guy can deal with her baggage's, I'm out.

 

[HARLEM AL]

Some of this can be avoided by having real fathers/father figures growing up. Times/technology changes but honestly humans rarely do. We've been doing and dealing with the same shyt for eons. But when you let the internet, celebrities or only women raise your sons this is the kind of shyt that happens. Lot of good women out there but dudes want to chase the wrong shyt in women they want to be in relationships with. If you're out there for the p*ssy then that's a different subject. But men shacking up with chicks that dont offer anything but a fat ass/wet mouth....as soon as she realizes that her p*ssy/mouth no longer has the same control over you, thats when the games will begin. Then a lot of men get into relationships before they have their own shyt straight. Not saying that men HAVE to make a certain amount of money etc, but never put yourself in a situation whereby you are subconsciously trapped into a relationship bc you rely on this other person for your shelter/transportation/livelihood. A man should be able to drop everything and walk the fuk out in a moments notice if necessary. But instead there's an entire generation of cats who cant really afford to leave toxic relationships and end up staying out of necessity. And a lot of women know that and use that as leverage. Whereas when you get into a relationship and the woman knows from jump that you dont need her financially, the balance of power immediately shifts.

if you got money
they can never hold u down in the dark
they can make u feel played
but that money goin' talk

This aint true. The good ones are married or in a relationship.

 

[Serious]

Every story about their ex is the same. Their ex was always some horrible person who never took them anywhere or did anything.



























































who am I kidding I've been there.

No expectation relationships are the best.

 

[Serious]

You'll learn a lot about a person; especially a woman, when they get pissed off with you about something.

I've had women tell me they love me one day, but then saying how much of a lowlife I was later on when we weren't seeing eye to eye about something.

I'm a lowlife but I gave you money, fed you, got you just because gifts, and never treated you like anything less than a lady. Oh ok.

I started keeping text messages, DMs, and the whole nine of exchanges because there isn't nothing worse than an idiot female with a bunch of other idiot females behind her hyping her up.

When you start coming back with time stamped dates of them saying one thing happened and another actually happened and you can prove it, it kills all that drama and wolf tickets.

Yeah I've dealt with this as well.