Keep Receipts On These Women Brehs

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Gotta look out for red flags. nikkas take Ls so you don't have to.

*Doesn't have friends who shes close with and has known for over 5 years?
*Dated dudes much older than her/dudes who were already in their 20s when she was in her mid to late teens?
*Mad tattoos and piercings?
*poor relationship with her mother?
*problems with weight where she's complaining but has never seriously done anything about?
*no hobbies that she's passionate about that she can enjoy on her own like sports, art, music or videogames?
*Will start arguments for no reason or to see if you care?
*CONSTANTLY needs reassurance and attention and is on social media?
*Grew up with no male role models she respects?

If the answer is yes to more than 30% of the above then she's a jump off. Never commit.
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Women have to make you the villain when everything doesn't go their way

That's why they willingly stay with dudes who lie and lead them on

When things do work out how they want it, she can justify "wasting" her time by pretending to be manipulated by the devil (:ufdup:you)
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Bruh FACTS all day. I just got out of a relationship with a very pretty but manipulative chick.

Advice to bruhs. Dont fukk with a chick that suffers from depression and is not doing anything to cope with the issue. Its stressful bruhs.

For the first time in my life, I see/understand how a dude that doesnt know how to respond to a depressed manipulative women can snap and slap the living fukk out of a women. I dont hit women and never have. If you cant deal with it then leave.

I made her azz move out my apartment. She's the next guy problem now.
what's facts is not messing with pretty manipulative chicks or any chicks with character flaws

dudes make life waaaaay to complicated. like homie said in here stop swimming in the gutter.

brehs be choosing for all the wrong reasons. if she don't have a stable life and a career stay away :heh:
 

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I was dealing with the same type on and off for 3 years.

Recently she accused me of having "secret IG" account for looking at "IG models" and "booties". I asked her what evidence she has to support her claims against me. She wouldn't tell me, but played a psychological game with me. She said "in time, I'll expose you" to me. I took this as a threat, but I quietly stopped talking to her. Then she got super defensive about me ignoring her. She then said to me that "she was playing" the whole time about the IG account, and accused me of not being "there for her" emotionally. She twisted everything back to her and painted me the fault guy. She's done countless of other bs like this before. She suffers from past traumatic issues that caused her depression.

This is girl I'm facing is literally crazy, and I started saving the texts, and voice notes. I'm planning my exit strategically because if I walk-out suddenly I know she'll accuse me of something. The next guy can deal with her baggage's, I'm out.

it’s crazy how many broken souls are walking around...I’m too old to be choosing women as poorly as I am

my he depression part you speak about is real...only thing I’ll say, the next guy will dikk them down and those guys these hoes don’t play games with...

i gotta be an a$$hole to hoes again. No more soft spot ‍♂️
 

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what's facts is not messing with pretty manipulative chicks or any chicks with character flaws

dudes make life waaaaay to complicated. like homie said in here stop swimming in the gutter.

brehs be choosing for all the wrong reasons. if she don't have a stable life and a career stay away :heh:

I was with a woman with a stable life and career...outside looking in she seemed great. It was only when we were a year or so in when her true self was revealed to me

I dint pick women to be my wifey from the homeless shelter lol. I’ve met them at weddings, work, gyms, social events and so forth...some women hide crazy better than others
 

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Stop caring about what other people think about your past relationship. If it's truly in the past, what anyone has to say about it doesn't matter. If you were in the right, the ones get to know you for themselves are going to reap the benefits, and the ones that took what your ex said at face value are more than likely surrounded by toxic people anyway.
 

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I was with a woman with a stable life and career...outside looking in she seemed great. It was only when we were a year or so in when her true self was revealed to me

I dint pick women to be my wifey from the homeless shelter lol. I’ve met them at weddings, work, gyms, social events and so forth...some women hide crazy better than others
and that's always a risk but you can leave someone like that far easier than someone who is dependent on you.

plus if she has a career she usually has something to loose.
 

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The one I got on my Android is just called "Call Recorder".

The icon is a red circle with a green phone symbol in the middle. shyt records even the damn ringing sounds when you're calling the person. And if you put someone on hold to call another person, it just keeps recording.
Appreciafe it bro. Rep.
 

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They do but its fallible

The problem is nikkas ignore red flags ALL the time

Often times you dont just end up at her causing a scene in Denny's parking lot at 4am

You likely ignored a few smaller red flags for whatever reason
nikkas is dangerously horny. They get themselves into awful situations because "the ass was fat tho"

Ask a dude who dates crazy women what his current girlfriend is bringing into his life other than well worn p*ssy and mouth.

Does she buy you gifts because she appreciates how you make her feel?

Does she listen closely when you tell her about the things you like and don't like and then remembers that information in relevant situations?

Does she put you on to new music, games, sports, etc.?

Does she order dinner/cook your favorite food?

Has she ever broken off some paper without you ever needing to ask because she knew you were going through some things?

When she is criticizing you is she coming with an energy like "im not trying to change you, I'm wanting to do whatever it takes to get you back to how you were because I can tell you've lost focus on your goals and appear really sad/different and I want to support you" ? Is she pushing you to be a better version of who you are and have always been?

Is she bringing knowledge and positivity into your life? Does she respect your passions and right to enjoy them even if she doesn't share them?

Most of the women these dudes end up committing to dont give them ANY OF THAT shyt. When you're going through hard times, your girl should react one of 3 ways:
1. Reaching out to an old trusted friend of yours to contact you to check in.
2. Leaving you the fukk alone and telling you 'I know you need space and ill give you that so that you can get back on track
3. Asking 'is there anything I can do to help?'

Don't be afraid to walk away. That's the difference between men and women, men are scared to walk away because getting a woman is an investment in time and effort, whereas literally all she has to do is agree to go out with you. Women acutely understand the difference between a man they want to commit to and a man they don't. A lot of men are woefully ignorant when it comes to this.
 
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