Keep Receipts On These Women Brehs

[seabreeze80]

What does a woman need to do to get a man's interest? Literally nothing. She just has to sit there and sift through the offers. Men do not deal with "street harassment" or cat calling.

For us, we've been conditioned to see women as a sport. Its something that requires negotiation, convincing, etc. To get a woman interested. Men talk about having game or a good mouthpiece that lets them get beautiful women.

Dudes who go for good looking but ultimately boring and dysfunctional women are scared to walk away because deep down there's a feeling of "it was not easy to get to this point and I've already invested time and money" women don't trip on men like that because especially now in the age of online dating, if you aren't the upper crust of men(paid highly enough to support both of you, athletic, photogenic) then you're easily replaceable to them.

Women can walk away easily from an average man, and tolerate all manner of abuse or disrespect because they see him as a high value man. They will trip on a high value man. Men will trip over every woman because there is skill and or difficulty involved if youre not in the top 20 percent of men who has known for years that he can get women with ease.

I know so many women that will not leave their abusive, broke, unattractive, drug addicted, significant others. There is nothing high value about those men yet the women stay. If what you are saying in your post is true, then how do you explain this?

 

[HarlemHottie]

I know so many women that will not leave their abusive, broke, unattractive, drug addicted, significant others. There is nothing high value about those men yet the women stay. If what you are saying in your post is true, then how do you explain this?

Can these women do better? And i don't mean 'in your opinion as a friend/ acquaintance'. I mean demonstrably, irl, have they ever done better while at the same approx age and weight?

 

[seabreeze80]

Can these women do better? And i don't mean 'in your opinion as a friend/ acquaintance'. I mean demonstrably, irl, have they ever done better while at the same approx age and weight?

I believe some can if they truly wanted to. One is my ex bff. She is literally stunning, ex cheerleader, yet supports an abusive piece of shyt. She believes she's in love and has lost friends (like myself) and cut off family over him. From the outside looking in, all this man has to offer is sex.

 

[HarlemHottie]

I believe some can if they truly wanted to. One is my ex bff. She is literally stunning, ex cheerleader, yet supports an abusive piece of shyt. She believes she's in love and has lost friends (like myself) and cut off family over him. From the outside looking in, all this man has to offer is sex.

I made all those caveats to avoid this answer.

Ppl always think their friends could do better, but that's rarely the case. If they could, they would. She knows she can't do better, which is why she's still with him, and also why she's cutting ppl off for him. Bc if that's the best pos man she can keep, why hang around ppl who shyt on her reality?

Something's wrong with her, the problem must be something you can't see from the outside.

 

[seabreeze80]

I made all those caveats to avoid this answer.

Ppl always think their friends could do better, but that's rarely the case. If they could, they would. She knows she can't do better, which is why she's still with him, and also why she's cutting ppl off for him. Bc if that's the best pos man she can keep, why hang around ppl who shyt on her reality?

Something's wrong with her, the problem must be something you can't see from the outside.

The others are not my friends. The only one that was my friend was my ex bff I mentioned. The others are coworkers. My ex bff can definitely do better. She's gorgeous. So many men approach her and all she can see is that pos she has at home smh. I think it may be a self esteem thing or a soul tie thing. She's attached at the hip to this man but I've seen so many women like her over the years so its common.

 

[Still Benefited]

The others are not my friends. The only one that was my friend was my ex bff I mentioned. The others are coworkers. My ex bff can definitely do better. She's gorgeous. So many men approach her and all she can see is that pos she has at home smh. I think it may be a self esteem thing or a soul tie thing. She's attached at the hip to this man but I've seen so many women like her over the years so its common.

dikk is an x factor when it comes to men which goes to show how many unsatisfied women there are out there. So you really can't just look at a man and assume the woman can do better. She is mostly sticking around for one reason. dikk is basically a trump card over everything else for some women. Will beat out money,looks,love etc. Which is why I agree with you when you questioned Scustin Biebers statement. Plenty of women do stay with guys who are "average" on the surface of what you can see. I don't see women walk away as easily as he made it sound from "average men".

 

[Still Benefited]

I can tell by alot of these conversations yall have with these women that you are easily manipulated and sensitive men. I understand we live in a climate that teaches women to find ways to be victims,so you feel you need to handle them with kid gloves. But you are only making matters worst by humoring them. If you buy a womans bullshyt and allow her to turn things on you and be the victim once,just know that it won't stop. Now as a man,how can you blame the woman for taking the weak position,when she manipulated you into taking the weak stance. A woman is a reflection of her man.
You should have immediately told her to shut that victim shyt up,and attempted to strengthen and build her up.
If these women are depressed,you have played a role in that,you've allowed her to stay in that place.

 

[Henny and_ HotWings]

The accuracy. Been there too many times.

Yeah, I can’t even stunt... I relate to that part whole heartedly with an ex of mine.... shyt sent chills up my spine reading it

 

[Bossino]

nikkas is dangerously horny. They get themselves into awful situations because "the ass was fat tho"

Ask a dude who dates crazy women what his current girlfriend is bringing into his life other than well worn p*ssy and mouth.

Does she buy you gifts because she appreciates how you make her feel?

Does she listen closely when you tell her about the things you like and don't like and then remembers that information in relevant situations?

Does she put you on to new music, games, sports, etc.?

Does she order dinner/cook your favorite food?

Has she ever broken off some paper without you ever needing to ask because she knew you were going through some things?

When she is criticizing you is she coming with an energy like "im not trying to change you, I'm wanting to do whatever it takes to get you back to how you were because I can tell you've lost focus on your goals and appear really sad/different and I want to support you" ? Is she pushing you to be a better version of who you are and have always been?

Is she bringing knowledge and positivity into your life? Does she respect your passions and right to enjoy them even if she doesn't share them?

Most of the women these dudes end up committing to dont give them ANY OF THAT shyt. When you're going through hard times, your girl should react one of 3 ways:
1. Reaching out to an old trusted friend of yours to contact you to check in.
2. Leaving you the fukk alone and telling you 'I know you need space and ill give you that so that you can get back on track
3. Asking 'is there anything I can do to help?'

Don't be afraid to walk away. That's the difference between men and women, men are scared to walk away because getting a woman is an investment in time and effort, whereas literally all she has to do is agree to go out with you. Women acutely understand the difference between a man they want to commit to and a man they don't. A lot of men are woefully ignorant when it comes to this.

22 checking in and women only gain any of the compassion traits you've alluded to in this post after they've had fun being pumped and dumped or realize the type that pump and dump them will never commit and they're open to trying something different. Hell some of the most well rounded women I've come across are single moms, but they only became like that out of necessity for their child, if they were childless, they're work ethic, responsibility and accountability would all still be trash. Hell a lot of single moms who are uneducated are still that immature, one track mind way despite the whole-ass life depending on them. Idk how old you are, but in my age bracket (18-25) barring good looks or social status you're not dating a woman living at home period, unless you have extreme social clout, because you can't get your foot in the door, even though most are with their parents or BMFing word to Ross living with roommates. Once you have a car, place, and disposable income you're permitted into the dating game but each is vetted along with general social charisma. While those things matter, the first thing I'm evaluating in a woman I have interest in is personal background family, character, past relationships, then followed by aspirations, then current situation (job, living circumstance, etc.)

At this point it's too transactional for my taste and I feel the economy post '08 and social media play heavily into that. I've said before, women marry situations not men. Though you correct in the sense that this is primarily cumbersome for those who really want a family. While families are cool I only want them under the proper conditions AKA the right woman, so I like many am off it.

 

[Bossino]

If I end up single idk what the fukk I'm doing other than overseas tricking. Nobody has anything good to say about the dating game.

Chase your passions, travel try new things , I feel you tho, you grown up having it hardwired into that good wife and kids after years of fun and establishing your career only to realize that lifestyle is obsolete. The quality has dissipated as the environment as changed. I've watched it happen in real time. Growing up on 90s/early 00s sitcoms only to realize life is more expensive, women are more superficial, and nobody gives af about you unless you can do something. It's a cold game and all you can do is be ice mayne

 

[Bossino]

Even thru this bullshyt so many times with women. It has completely ruined and shattered my trust towards them. Sometimes, I feel that’s for the best and look at it as a positive. There’s literally nothing that a bytch can do to hurt me. Because you can’t be disappointed by someone that you have no expectations of or trust in. Some consider that a bleak existence. Not me though

Stay ready so you don't have to get ready, I feel it. It's not jaded/bitter it's living off experience word to Styles, Jada, & Sheek. I'd rather have a consistent predictable life with a positive slope, than a rollercoaster life of high excitement, followed by deep Ls that somewhat has a net trend. Though it seems that's "boring" nowadays, it's only valued by women once the mileage sets in on their odometer, and they don't want to support themselves for the rest of their lives, or die alone.

 

[Bossino]

dikk is an x factor when it comes to men which goes to show how many unsatisfied women there are out there. So you really can't just look at a man and assume the woman can do better. She is mostly sticking around for one reason. dikk is basically a trump card over everything else for some women. Will beat out money,looks,love etc. Which is why I agree with you when you questioned Scustin Biebers statement. Plenty of women do stay with guys who are "average" on the surface of what you can see. I don't see women walk away as easily as he made it sound from "average men".

Nail on the head, y'all see Cardi and Offset's dynamic, there's a reason an Afro-Latina is propped up so heavily in our community and it's not her looks or music that sells. It's the personality, she speaks the simplistic mindset in a lot of women across demographics.
@junie hate to say it but your friend either has abuse issues from childhood, or is simply a bird at heart. Regardless you're on different time and you can't help someone unless they recognize they're in need

 

[Shadow King]

Chase your passions, travel try new things , I feel you tho, you grown up having it hardwired into that good wife and kids after years of fun and establishing your career only to realize that lifestyle is obsolete. The quality has dissipated as the environment as changed. I've watched it happen in real time. Growing up on 90s/early 00s sitcoms only to realize life is more expensive, women are more superficial, and nobody gives af about you unless you can do something. It's a cold game and all you can do is be ice mayne

I know what I'd do outside of the game lol, I'm saying when it's time to touch a female. I'd rather just go the full transactional route than this facade regular women put on. Ain't no half-stepping.

 

[dark_magic]

When he passed, she kept the dream alive. It isn't until I got older that I realized that my father was looking ahead and was extremely selective with who he would commit to(hes what we would consider a high value man, educated, healthy and well paid). He understood his worth and picked accordingly. More men need to be on that wave. Recognize your worth and only invest in people who reciprocate your achievements and energy.

Men totally discount or ignore all the non-sexual benefits they provide which is more valued by most women than the plurality of men's sexual benefits.

Should start charging ....

 

[Bossino]

I know what I'd do outside of the game lol, I'm saying when it's time to touch a female. I'd rather just go the full transactional route than this facade regular women put on. Ain't no half-stepping.

If prostitution was legal the bottom half of women would be shyt outta luck. That's why it isn't, family rates would drop off and men sitting on their money would fukk up the economy. Also oops babies would happen far less, the amount of unplanned families and people cornered into a halfassed child would fall off therefore, the few children had would probably be more educated, which would eventually lead to people getting at and subsequently breaking down the 1%.

It's all by design.