Stop having these conversations with prying eyes hovering over the race in compromised spaces.
Even if she want to have that talk it's not for the general public. To them it just content. Everything on social is a form of entertainment. Even our pain and dysfunction. People watch like they watch a car accident with morbid fascination. Everyday it's Black women vs Black men. This type of Black vs that one. Pure fukking non productive noise and distraction.
We really got one of the best tools humanity ever had with the Internet and most people can't figure out what to do with it besides fukk themselves over.
We don't deserve this shyt. People say social media is the evil. NOPE , humans inherent weakness is the problem. Said many times a knife is a utensil and a weapon depending on the users intention.
Even if Black people got healing to do gather somewhere private and have this dialogue without inviting manipulation to chime in. For the love of God.