@Gloxina having a baby is something serious and shouldn't be taken lightly. My question is why would a women bring a child in to an abusive environment with a man thats pummeling her. Surely its crazy to do so, then also considering she has access to all manner of birth control to end the pregnancy but yet doesn't.
Then when the baby is born she wants to go report said abuse she willingly brought a child in to. Make it make sense
Totally agree. Y’all think I’m making excuses when I say these things but this is partly due to the low self-esteem and low expectations a lot of young black women have due to their upbringing, plus what is currently popular black culture and not having proper examples in life and media.
There’s a reason why this shyt isn’t as prevalent with the educated class.
It’s not just about money/financial status and fame.
I always bring up Beyoncé’s parents. They weren’t going to let their daughter get knocked up out of wedlock by JayZ regardless of how much $ he had so she HAD to get married. Solange got knocked up by some knucklehead and what happened? They forced her to marry that dude for image purposes right. They were a middle/upper middle class Black family before the fame and having an unwed mother as a child would’ve brought SHAME on the family name.
You can only value that tradition when you’ve been raised in it and have been taught how to avoid the wrong guy/situations. And obviously yes, shyt happens and someone is going to get caught up. There are no absolutes in life. However, anyone could’ve seen this situation with him coming a mile away.
And you can see it now in how Keke is presenting herself and getting more dolled up than usual. She wasn’t
really on it like that before this situation. She sees herself differently now and is trying to present a different grown and sexy image when she was supposed to make that transformation and be that girl BEFORE getting knocked up by some dude making significantly less than her. She was supposed to present this image first to attract better, more successful men, and then settle down with one of those guys and have a baby.
But this is how it goes sometimes when you don’t have an older woman in your life to game you up.
She could’ve gotten with some no name 6 figure media exec, businessman or “tech bro” who would’ve been proud to claim her and provide much more than this dude. ESPECIALLY IN CALI.
But here we are.
