They were not saying they were not physically attracted to black men, they were saying that black men are lazy, vulgar, untrustworthy, stupid, etc. Its very rare for a black women to NOT be attracted at least one black man. I am not going to make these girls the rare exception. Having a preference and being exclusive to certain races in the dating game are two different things. These girls had been drinking and sounded like they were doing it out of spite. Its tough out there for black women in the dating game. I understand their anger.
just because they didn't say they didn't outright say they weren't attracted to black guys doesn't mean it isn't true and you sound a little too concerned about who black women are dating. how about you let them deal with their issues in the dating game and do you?
yeah....but she did it with style and at-ti-tude. Go get that Oscar gurl."
I mean, why does it bother you so much? If you are confident in who you are and if you are confident in your ability to attract the opposite sex, why would it irk you this much that some black women like white men? I've met white girls that love black men - almost exclusively. It's not that common - but I've seen it. I'm white and I didn't care - at all. Everyone has their preferences so it doesn't bother me if someone else other than me (or of a different race) is more attractive to them. Then there are dudes that flip when they see that type of thing and the only thing I've been able to pin it on is feeling insecure and inadequate because more often than not these people are not popular with females from any race so they feel attacked when someone takes away "one of theirs". Recently, I was hanging out at this guy's house and he lives around a college campus. These three black girls come over who were friends of his and his girlfriend's. Me and three of my friends are just hanging out, having a good time, etc. Honestly, not even trying to hook up or anything like that. One of the girls walks over to the kitchen because some guy she was talking to calls her. He asks her where she's at, etc. She tells him and immediately gets called a c00n. 
I'm just sitting there like 
because I've never even heard the word used like that outside of the forum. I couldn't help but laugh - the same problem but the races were reversed this time. You could feel the insecurity and emotions pouring out through that phone. 
That's why I think that only dudes who really have a hard time with women really even concern themselves with shyt like this - it's silly.
I am just giving my opinion, I could care less if a black woman outside of my mom even likes me....real talk. A forum is made for discussing issues, so that is what I am doing. Doesn't mean I am losing sleep over them. Go back and read, I already said black women should date who they want. I already stated that I did just fine without them last night. 
i feel the same way friend.
If it wasnt for girls stepping outside they race I wouldnt have had the opportunity to dabble in so many races. So to you ladies who dont just think to your race I love yall :2much:
Does anyone know if shes ever dated any black men, and isn't she from the South Bronx? I can understand if you've had some bad experiences with people of your own race, and want to branch out, but to just date exclusively outside your race, seems like there's some self hate issues going on. I know she went to private schools, and a Ivy League school where there probably weren't a lot of black men.
