Kevin Gates Shows You Nerds How To Deal With Being Friendzoned

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Bro, you are talking about chumps. I have asked women out after meeting them and having a few laughs, with varied success.

"But I don't know you *giggle*" this has been a situation. Not every girl wants to go out with you just because you had one or two
good conversations. Some women, especially when they are worth it, you have to be a bit more persistent. We don't know what they are thinking
or feeling, so at any point she can make the decision that this isn't something she wants to pursue. However, you as a man have to ask
if you want to stick around. There is nothing wrong with severing ties. If I want a friend who happens to be a girl, I will meet her somehow.
If I kept all the girls that told me no as friends, there would be dozens of chicks who don't offer much to me in my phone.



You are still young, and you are talking about little boys. Most men keep it moving. We don't get upset, we just don't have any interest in talking to you anymore.

Most men will take what you say and disappear. Tell that to the sistas who be on that 4 months later text
"How come you don't talk to me anymore?"

Trust me, I consider all sides, Juicy, and we are talking about men who sever ties when the "no" comes. You weren't obligated to date us, we aren't obligated
to stick around.

Then when you hit them with the "I'm sorry whose number is this?" text and their soul starts to burn slow :heh:
 
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Missing the point. Relationships are all about both people being on the same page. If a guy wants to be boyfriend/girlfriend and a girl just wants to be friends they are on different pages and that's not gonna work. Liking a person's friendship=using if that person wants more. How do you feel about guys that want to fukk but don't want to be in a relationship? Are they bad people? Are they allowed to like someone's orifices but not want anything more?

These broads ain't fooling nobody. Only reason they wanna keep the nikka as a friend is for the ego boost. They know damn well dude wanna fukk the shyt out of her. Why? Because he told her ass that the first time he tried to push up :heh:
 

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Seriously? You literally said men should just tell women that they want to fukk that they want to fukk right off the bat. Not after talking for a little while during a night out at a bar/club/lounge or at party or something similar. Right from the beginning, the first things out his mouth to her should be "I find you attractive and I want to fukk"

And you're seriously arguing that's what guys should be doing?


Or maybe you're just trolling. There's that possibility :manny:

He's trolling. Being Mr. Mom is his new gimmick
 
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Ya'll gotta stop putting these women on pedastels as well and treating everyone equally. You start trying to box them into ttiles they haven't even started thinking of for themselves and they regress quick. She may be a good woman with good qualities, but if she hasn't been good to you in particular... no need to treat her special. As such you should be treating everybody well and with respect anyway.
 

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Usually agree with Emp on most things but not on this thing where men and women just can't be friends. I got 3 good girlfriends from college we still kick go to bars and clubs together. We give each other good advice from the opposite side. One is married and one is single and yes I can call them to meet for lunch or dinner whenever. They're about as close to me as most of my guy friends.
 

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Exceptions to every rule :ehh:

Usually agree with Emp on most things but not on this thing where men and women just can't be friends. I got 3 good girlfriends from college we still kick go to bars and clubs together. We give each other good advice from the opposite side. One is married and one is single and yes I can call them to meet for lunch or dinner whenever. They're about as close to me as most of my guy friends.
 

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best thing is to trickle her with sly but obvious remarks so that she is well aware that if anything you are going to be a FRIENDlyfukk...
 

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They can't. Unless there's zero attraction to begin with in which case your original intention was to be her friend and only her friend.
Thats what I was reffering to. You got fools who think they cant regardless of situation
 

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He right, if you meet the qualifications she constantly states, especially if that "Why aren't there more men like you" and that type of shyt,
leave her alone.

Like I told a few girls, im a package deal. If my personality was likeable and my company was enjoyable, I hope you had
good memories, cause I can offer all that and more to a girl that actually likes me. Time spent with a female friend is time not spent
with girls you can actually get intimate with.
Women will never understand why we don't remain friends :manny:
 

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You can't just respect the fact that she only views you as a friend and doesn't want to take it anywhere past that, you have to cut her off because YOU want more out of her than she's willing to give?
If you approached her to be a friend then I would understand your point but if your intentions from the get go was to have sex/pursue a relationship and you were clear about them then yes, you do cut her off...what purpose is there for you staying around her?
 

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You can't just respect the fact that she only views you as a friend and doesn't want to take it anywhere past that, you have to cut her off because YOU want more out of her than she's willing to give?
Yes

Cutting someone off doesnt have to be disrespectful.... u can just fade out like the end of an old disco song.....
 
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