You must be dumb, deaf, or stupid, because none of that is the point. I'm simply saying as you get older, it's harder to get the prime women.
If you got your shyt together it gets easier.
If you been a bum ass nikka relying on dressing fly and party environments with alcohol to bag chicks you definitely age out
Do you have connections?
Can you take a bytch to a restaurant and tell her you guys gonna sample some stuff off the menu because you know the owner and he’s trying out new dishes to put on the menu? No check comes when you finish, you just tip and dap the waiter?
Go to an art gallery after and everyone knows you because it’s your people putting it on?
You can’t create these types of experiences because you still at the same level you were at socially when you were younger. So for you… the limelight is gone.
You gotta bring something that makes a chick look forward to being around you. Your whole demeanor and energy has to be attractive. You have to always be smarter, more accomplished, more connected, more well thought out world view and ideologies to keep a bytch holding onto your presence.
You ever charge a bytch to talk to you. Lol. Like literally tell her that if she wanna continue the conversation or have any in the future you need her to shoot a Zelle.
Levels.
You might not be at that point… but you need to take pieces of what I’m saying to understand why it’s harder for you to do what you did before. It’s because you stagnated.
Your game and social circle should have been constantly developed over these years. Then you would look waaaay more atttsctive than the younger version of yourself and you wouldn’t be saying what you’re saying now.