You misunderstand. This type of man never cold approached, bytches approached him. I know this bc I myself have done it successfully.
That’s not how masculinity works sis
And you too damn old for me to tell you that

A man of means/High Value
Always goes for what he wants
From finances to success
A man with masculine energy will always do the approaching
A nikka with bread and brains will look at a woman that approaches him like

And know she thinks he’s a walking lick
So he will put her in the assigned category on his bench
And if we being really honest
Most men are invisible to your gender
We don’t all get compliments
We don’t all get the stare and flip of the hair
We all don’t get the slight brushing of the arm
With the head tilt smile
Hell most of us don’t even get a response
When we simply say” How you doing”
So anytime a woman approaches a man
No matter his station in life
A nikka will



Because we know y’all’s nature isn’t to approach AT ALL

To me
You and buddy are conflating masculinity/HVM
All men have aggression in them
It’s just some use it more while others rarely use it at all until it’s deem necessary
A man’s man
I’m talking whiskey drinking, car enthusiast, cigar smokin, dikkhead humor with a demon aura but polite
Isn’t going to take an approaching woman seriously
Because we innately like the hunt
And your gender innately likes to be caught
Predators don’t wait for an easy kill
That meat is looked at as diseased
They line up the juicy meat
That’s what true men do
I and your husband been men all our lives
That’s how any man with a back bone, experience and stature looks at the world