Kevin Samuels Was Right..

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It seems like there are certain decisions that have to be made, especially when you’re perusing a lofty career or getting into the entertainment world. A woman has to decide what she wants. I’m saying, they have to be intentional about getting what they want. Thinking the pickings are going to be there forever is foolish. Father Time is undefeated. Why isn’t Pauletta Washington, Michelle Obama, Beyoncé, Kelly Rowland, Angela Bassett, etc saying the same things?

These women were intentional, at some point, about finding a HUSBAND. Or letting that husband find them. Nothing wrong with chasing goals and dreams, but if you want the married life and kids, you have to go after it or start vetting the men properly. Stop allowing yourself to be used and abused and go after good men with good intentions. They’re out there, it’s what YOU want to do shorty:yeshrug:
exactly. Women have been sold a bill of goods about what they deserve in marriage. You deal with a person and there´s gonna be some annoying things about them, They´re gonna have morning breath they´re gonna fart and blow up the bathroom and most importantly you´re gonna get tired of fukking them for awhile. If you love the person you can talk through it and spice it up in the bedroom but I think that Men and women are similar I think women just get tired of fukking the same person at some point and that leads to them bushing a dude to chase new dikk (pause) Women just don´t want to admit this so they can gaslight Men that they would never do this.
 

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That´s not usually the case overseas or even in the states. I get you´re overall point shyt my ex bushed me because I was too old/ not on the same page in life.


Dealing with someone you´re own age means dealing with a ton of baggage.

I guess we need to define tricking unless shorty is paying most of the bills you are in a marriage situation.

Overseas where? Are they places you'd want to even live?

In the states how often do you see a 65 man year with a 45 year old woman and they've been together for 15+ years?

Its rare.

In the states those younger women bounce sooner because that sugar you were pouring on her aint as sweet as it used to be and when bigger tricks see she open to that arrangement they often pull up with a bigger wallet.


If you lack discernment baggage is going to be an issue regardless of age. If she has her shxt together her baggage shouldn't affect you much more than yours affect hers.
 
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A single breh is his 40s/50s getting a younger version is usually going to have to buy her on some level. Much of the time shes just a long term lease. Shes almost never going to be there for you, shes there for the stuff you get her. The same woman that would be open to that setup would is same woman yall complained about Claudia Jordan being.

There's a reason KS was pro-tricking and died underneath a prostitute.

If youre in your 50s talking to someone young enough to almost be your daughter youre likely a trick. Why the fuk would she want to be with a 50 year old when she could be with a 30 year she actually relates to?
Few things are more simpish than giving a woman your resources in your older age and deluding yourself that she cares about you.

When youre going to the younger model youre also competing with younger brehs. Your only competitive advantage is wallet and resources.

Are those the things you want your lady to find most attractive about you?
A 40 year old can easily get a solid 30 year old to roll with him. Younger than that and he asking to be tricked though
 

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Overseas where? Are they placed you'd want to even live?

In the states how often do you see a 65 man year with a 45 year old woman and they've been together for 15+ years?

Its rare.

In the states those younger women bounce sooner because that sugar you were pouring on her aint as sweet as it used to be and when bigger tricks see she open to that arrangement they often pull up with a bigger wallet.


If you lack discernment baggage is going to be an issue regardless of age. If she has her shxt together her baggage shouldn't affect you much more than yours affect hers.
Again define tricking. Most women want a lifestyle that´s global most women would rather not bust ass on a job unless they really love what they do (Claudia seems to fall into that camp)

As a nikka who dated Aunties in the states 40 year old chicks have been through it. Most women have a Tyler Perry like story that scarred them.
Coupled with the fact that 40 and up chicks generally have to smash on the first date so an older woman is kinda super ran through and set in her ways enough to make it hard to pair bond.


Take an Unc ass nikka who´s been living on his own and dating for years at some point you become used to your home being your castle. I think that women get used to being alone too and just want to come through and smash everyonce and so often and leave it at that.
 

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They got black women out here messed up.

Going to school to get in debt to the system.
Helping build the system and in the end getting the okey doke pulled on them because them folks don't care about them like that anyway. About to have A.I. steal jobs.

There's roles for men and women.
Women need to follow their husband and not get tricked by the system. Stop trying to lead
 

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And set their camera up & cry in their cars

:mjlol:

Every fukking week it’s a new video of a bytch crying in her car. Or they’re writing think pieces on how a “man” is embarrassing, or shrekking lol, etc.
women use the internet as their diary and because they´re always the hero in their own story they never care how exposing themselves makes them look.

Look at Claudia who would assume that she has Man problems if she didn´t constantly tell us?

Auntie Viv is well an Auntie and all those fillers makes her look 65 pounds fatter than she actually is. But Claudia will cut sugars out of her diet the second she gets a slight bloat. I heard she takes Test but say what you want her body is amazing and face card still hitting.

I Like Claudia but she has zero filter wild that she responded to me about her love life but she did. bytch took that picture and her main concern was her being seen as a desparate groupie and how her titties sat in the dress she actually commented on that.
 

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Again define tricking. Most women want a lifestyle that´s global most women would rather not bust ass on a job unless they really love what they do (Claudia seems to fall into that camp)

As a nikka who dated Aunties in the states 40 year old chicks have been through it. Most women have a Tyler Perry like story that scarred them.
Coupled with the fact that 40 and up chicks generally have to smash on the first date so an older woman is kinda super ran through and set in her ways enough to make it hard to pair bond.


Take an Unc ass nikka who´s been living on his own and dating for years at some point you become used to your home being your castle. I think that women get used to being alone too and just want to come through and smash everyonce and so often and leave it at that.

Tricking = spending money to impress a woman or secure her affection. Especially in scenarios/arrangements you dont usually participate in on your own.

Example = youre a Cheesecake factory caliber guy, but because she's this fineass woman that would get coli brehs using adjective they dont understand, you take her to Eddie Vs. You aint been to Eddie Vs on your own in over a year tho.



If your shxt is together MOST women fuk on the first date. Thats been my standard experience even when I was dating 40 year old sugar mommas in my 20s.

You don't think alot of these 30 year women are "ran through"?
Guys will be slutting it up in the streets for 15 years then it skittish about a woman's perceived body count.

:mjlol:
 

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They got black women out here messed up.

Going to school to get in debt to the system.
Helping build the system and in the end getting the okey doke pulled on them because them folks don't care about them like that anyway. About to have A.I. steal jobs.

There's roles for men and women.
Women need to follow their husband and not get tricked by the system. Stop trying to lead
Its the same shyt they did after WW2 when they started giving women subsidies to live on their own.

And then welfare to keep men out the house. Now it’s propping them up with useless degrees and student loans.
 

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Tricking = spending money to impress a woman or secure her affection. Especially in scenarios/arrangement you dont usually participate on your own.

Example = youre a Cheesecake factory caliber guy, but because she this fineass woman that would get coli brehs using adjective they dont understand, you take her to Eddie Vs. You aint been to Eddie Vs on your own in over a year tho.



If your shxt is together MOST women fuk on the first date. Thats been my standard experience even when I was dating 40 year old sugar mommas in my 20s.

You don't think alot of these 30 year women are "ran through"?
Guys will be slutting it up in the streets for 15 years then it skittish about a woman's perceived body count.

:mjlol:
Then waht are you saying? Are you saying that you don´t pay for most dates? The bytch goes where you take her or she doesn´t go.

Christmas just passed most nikkas bought their chick a necklace and received a tie in return.

If you´re saying most women is ran through I´d agree so what is the point of dealing with a ran through with a pooch over her p*ssy?
 

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Its the same shyt they did after WW2 when they started giving women subsidies to live on their own.

And then welfare to keep men out the house. Now it’s propping them up with useless degrees and student loans.
correct and even though it´s not true with the average halfway decent chick in the third world in the third world women know there´s not that many dudes willing to have them living in an upper class situation so they tend to act right.
 
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