Kevin Samuels Was Right..

[Mr. Jack Napier]

Dog I never listened to more than 5 minutes of his shyt. You don´t like the Man cool but why are you campaigning to get nikkas to shyt on a dead Man. No one says anything about hoes listening to Cynthia G.

The wild thing was KS was trying to get people to get married and Men to be corporate slaves personally I´m not with either of those things.

1st, their is no where, where I've been campaigning for folks to dumb on KS. All I said was that cats on this site have a weird obsession with dude, which they do. Secondly, I'm quite sure cats on this board have dumped on women listening to whoever that Cynthia G person is.

KS whole shtick was clowning on women for having unrealistic expectations in dating. If some women do, cool, let them have their expectations. It eliminates them from being taken seriously from men looking to date for marriage.

Nothing KS or Claudia is saying is rocket science or groundbreaking material. Of course the older you get, the less desirable options will be out there.

 

[Uachet]

I'm a 39 year old man with a Wharton degree and I'm on TV 3 days a week.

I'd gladly enter a relationship with Claudia Jordan right now.

I have zero kids. I make good money but she probably makes more than me. I haven't reached my peak yet.

Claudia wouldn't like me because she likes tall men and I'm 5'6.

She used to post on SOHH.

I'll add, I'm not really crazy about dating younger women. I'm not trying to listen to NBA Youngboy lol

Factoring in all of that, I would say to you young brother that you can do better than a 52 year old woman who can't supply you with a legacy at all. Well, unless you do not desire a legacy at all, or are fine with adoption. 5'6" is no hindrance either. There are brothers right in my neighborhood with attractive women, and they are near your size with women who are actually taller than them.

So I say this all just to say, don't sell yourself short. If you are pushing up like you stated in the bold, then you can do better than her.

 

[<<TheStandard>>]

Factoring in all of that, I would say to you young brother that you can do better than a 52 year old woman who can't supply you with a legacy at all. Well, unless you do not desire a legacy at all, or are fine with adoption. 5'6" is no hindrance either. There are brothers right in my neighborhood with attractive women, and they are near your size with women who are actually taller than them.

So I say this all just to say, don't sell yourself short. If you are pushing up like you stated in the bold, then you can do better than her.

You're definitely right about all of this.

52 is definitely too old for me but I always had a thing for Claudia tho so that's why I'd make an exception for her. I think that's where the older woman, younger male dynamic works in favor of older women if they're open to it because a guy is almost going to be like a fan, eager to please and impressed with her where guys her age just won't be hype about her.

Throughout my 30s I dated a lot of older women and I always felt like it was a mutual beneficial situation in that she got young dikk as her sex drive was increasing, I got a woman who isn't playing games and that I could learn from.

 

[lib123]

This would assume those younger men don't ever want kids.

I don't think the age bracket you're citing is young enough. Breh is probably talking about someone half her age not 12-ish years younger.

Someone half her age who would be interested in a relationship with her would be seeking to get clout off her and/or financial support.

 

[lib123]

Yup. Shorty has a Bentley so I know how her lifestyle is.

The thing that makes her wifeable is that she doesn't have kids but a lot of these older women have baggage in the form of previous relationships, kids, baby fathers, etc.

One of the things I've noticed from dating older women in their 40s is that they're so jaded by their previous choices and relationship failures that they lose the ability to assume positive intent. It's like thier failure, bad luck, bad decisions and just life weighs them down and they go into relationships waiting for the other shoe to drop.

As fukked up as it sounds, I totally understand why a lot of men would rather just have a younger woman who is still full of beauty and joy.

That’s very true. It’s also noteworthy how the vast majority of women who get married in their late 30s or older are usually getting married for the 2nd time after a long-term marriage and divorce. Those women are usually much less jaded since they haven’t had as many relationship failures and don’t view men as negatively overall.

 

[Wiseborn]

1st, their is no where, where I've been campaigning for folks to dumb on KS. All I said was that cats on this site have a weird obsession with dude, which they do. Secondly, I'm quite sure cats on this board have dumped on women listening to whoever that Cynthia G person is.

KS whole shtick was clowning on women for having unrealistic expectations in dating. If some women do, cool, let them have their expectations. It eliminates them from being taken seriously from men looking to date for marriage.

Nothing KS or Claudia is saying is rocket science or groundbreaking material. Of course the older you get, the less desirable options will be out there.

I get your point and again the Coli is all about agenda pushing, Claudia agreed to a sitdown to talk about her being Manless so that some halfway decent Lawyer could holla.

That being said the way she said it wasn´t too bad I posted a clip where she fully crashed and thePod host tried to stop her but she said Let me vent ... and she started sounding like KS himself Same thing with Auntie Viv constantly crashing saying openly that fif was the love of her life him clowning her and these were the same broads saying KS was wrong well he was right about them.


Again was KS generalizing yes but damn where was the lie that women who spent their lives chasing a bag either through a job or chasing nikkas with checks instead of considering the nikka who wanted them when they were young wrong?

Now if you said a big booty auntie making 55K a year can deal with an ugly gang accountant or make a deal with a YN weed seller and not die alone that´s true but a millionaire boss chick just ain´t gonna be able to go so low so she more than likely will not find a down bad duck face nikka to trick on.


I know someone who claims to have dated a cardiologist and he said he had a trucking company then went to jail and wondered why the Doc was on his ass to get the Trucking company back poppin´ I told him it´s already an L dealing with a non College educated dude but you´re a felon and you wanted to chill for a minute after leaving the slam and you wondered why she was down to bush you?

She had him but if that was her choice she obviously was down to get a dog and die alone. I kinda don´t believe him because despite being a ¨passport bro¨and hollering at every bytch he saw he spent his birthday with me and I don´t even like him.


Landing the plane if you don´t care you don´t care but if you do care you´d tell bytches to do everything possible to marry any dude that Graduated College with you and be done with it because dating around til you´re 35 then trying to get serious with the finest Black Man or some bottom shelf brad is just gonna get you ran through and ghosted and you´ll end up Dying Alone.

 

[Diddly Drogba]

 

[Wiseborn]

She´s ASKING for feed back granted if a Man told her the truth she´d be mad so what she´s really doing is trauma bonding with women and hoping some simp/fan shows up to save her.

Summer Walker would never because a dusty Fan does have action at her.

 

[Payday23]

Same old story over and over with birds who don’t realize once you’ve been around the block you’re not getting wifed up by anyone of value



That’s the dilemma, when you’re in prime do you find the good guy or enjoy your 20’s then cry when you’re older because no more good guys

They think they can circle back at 35+ and fool the guy they thought was lame...not the case anymore

 

[Payday23]

Kevin Samuel died un married with a random broad...

Why are yall constantly propping up that dude when it comes to relationships

Jesus didn't choose just the righteous to follow him. A message can and should out shine the messenger especially when its a cautionary tale

 

[In The Zone '98]

Kevin Samuel died un married with a random broad...

Why are yall constantly propping up that dude when it comes to relationships

The women who called in proved him right

Over and over

 

[lib123]

She can still pull. Just not the same caliber of options. She can even get a high net worth individual; some cool c-suite executive pulling high sixes/low seven's, probably even a media/entertainment exec; but it just won't have the same level of excitement she's used to.

Strike while the iron is hot, go out on a high note, always leave em wanting more, gracefully bow out; these are show business platitudes, but they refer to your dating life as well.

Fame can kinda ruin you, and similarly too much attention of the pop culture/social media variety will do the same. We want the highs but not the averages.

Where are y'all getting this from? Virtually all of those types of guys in her age range are going for someone younger than her as far as the serious relationship she's talking about. Her choices are largely men her age or younger with less financial stability or older men who are 65+.

 

[lib123]

To the 7,000 members and the 80,000 lurkers

Listen to me

Vivica Fox, Lisa Raye, Claudia Jordan, Tracee Ellis Ross, Eboni K Williams, and others in there 40s and 50s and at 60 u saw or seen these women be doing interviews all talking about the man they need has to be making a bag of money( Lisa Raye words) , he has to be well off( Viviva Fox words), he can’t be a trash man unless he’s a CEO( Eboni words) and all these other requirements..

But nobody tells these women for the past 10,20,30 years u all been around the top entertainers, musicians, Athletes and CEOs and CFOs and all them nikkas and cacs did was fukk you and bounce but you down play the regular 9-5 guys like we was no good

But Ronnie, Bobby, Ricky,,Johnnie and Mikes in Hollywood all passed you boss bytches over and settled down with regular chicks

THE PROBLEM IS YOU LADIES!!!!

So Claudia was basically living out what she was portraying in the Throw it in the Bag video in '09?

 

[Gloxina]

So Claudia was basically living out what she was portraying in the Throw it in the Bag video in '09?

Well damn. That was her

 

[Ahadi]

Yup. Shorty has a Bentley so I know how her lifestyle is.

The thing that makes her wifeable is that she doesn't have kids but a lot of these older women have baggage in the form of previous relationships, kids, baby fathers, etc.

One of the things I've noticed from dating older women in their 40s is that they're so jaded by their previous choices and relationship failures that they lose the ability to assume positive intent. It's like thier failure, bad luck, bad decisions and just life weighs them down and they go into relationships waiting for the other shoe to drop.

As fukked up as it sounds, I totally understand why a lot of men would rather just have a younger woman who is still full of beauty and joy.

They get stuck on their highest setting.