Kevin Samuels was right

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He was really more focused on asking men one simple question:
"Are you where you want to be in your life? If you aren't, are you doing what you need to do?"

Get rid of the memes, remove the female callers, toss out the terms and buzzwords and that was the core of the message.

If you want to be a home owner before 30, are you working multiple jobs or saving and investing your money?

If you want to raise a family, are you burdened by debt? Is it reasonable to pursue fatherhood when you can't pay your own debts?

If you want to get married, have you achieved your career and health goals? Are you inviting someone into your life who will bring problems you can't deal with into it?

Are you moving with caution and consideration or just letting your feelings in the moment drive you to make major decisions?
 

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I seen a lot of these lately


So yes KS was right




Man this is sad. Sad sad predicament. A lot of you coli brehs could end up in her shoes though. Closing in on 50, no kids, no significant other to love them. Jumping from one casual relationship to another... Damn it's gonna be a cold world when reality hits :picard:
 
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.There.
I said it.
He was pushing Black Men to be better in so many ways thats why it hurts me to see him gone and to see his image attacked online.
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I'm prepared for the blowback from this statement.
People don't know about the old kevin. The one that help men become their best version. They just know of him after he started going viral
 

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The same person who also said this, smh



Take advice from a c00nfused fakkit, brehs

:francis:

Any link to KS saying this directly?

If he did then nah fukk him :francis:

I hate it becuase a lot of his criticism of both men and women was typically harsh yet constructive, but if that vid is true, then nah
 

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I seen a lot of these lately


So yes KS was right



Oh he was definitely right about a lot of things.

Women didn’t like his delivery. I promise if he had conveyed the same message, just in a more relatable fashion, many women would’ve gotten the message. It’s funny because the White manosphere definitely started this online movement, but when they actually talked to women it wasn’t with this venom, and when Tate emerged as a man using this same rhetoric and tactic when talking to White women, White men got him out the paint. 🤔 Because they won’t allow White women to be demeaned at that level for social media money. As much as people rail against feminism, entitled White women, etc, White society will not allow White women to be degraded by some man on social media 🤔🤔

I mean, the black female therapist who was recently doxxed and lost her job had the same harsh delivery targeted to Black men, and the world came crashing down on her in a matter of days (and personally, yes, I believe she was unprofessional and silly because as a black woman she knows we don’t get passes for that type of behavior).

For whatever reason, it’s cool for BM to talk directly to Black women like we’re shyt, but tone is suddenly an issue when a BW is speaking directly to Black men.



Ol girl in this video came to a harsh realization at the age of 46. Sad shyt.
I also think there’s some serious cases of mental illness when people purposely discuss these major Ls on the web, but that’s a separate issue.

But yes, he was correct about many things. Most of it was the old school stuff that was taught to each generation, but what I didn’t like was placing a lot of the blame on the shoulders of BW, who did not REAR/RAISE themselves. Black culture currently doesn’t teach girls to trust their counterparts and be prepared to be wives. Black culture currently doesn’t teach boys to value the role of provider and patriarch and preparing for that role by achieving academic and/or career highs by 30ish— like other cultures.

We can talk all we want about BW wanting marriage too late, but we aren’t going to pretend Black boys are out of undergrad/professional programs/trade school and into their careers by late 20s/30 like other races. White dudes get out of college and are married by 27-32, Hispanic men focus on trades and are married having babies in their 20s +.
Black CULTURE is off, not just Black women. The Black folks from traditional backgrounds still have these values and find each other, or end up dating out.

Not to mention he started off telling BM about themselves and even had a little show about helping BM entrepreneurs with business plans, etc and stopped the show because he was so embarrassed and flipped it to the women. He said it himself that the audience would be enthralled if he solely focused on women, and he was right.

There are issues on BOTH sides of the aisle, but talking about women brought the money.

So yea, the man wasn’t wrong about many of the things he said.
WE have a loooooooot of work to do to get the Black family back on track.


I also didn’t know how many delusional people were out there 👀, but I also think the people with common sense and actual plans for the future weren’t dumb enough to plaster their faces on YT for the free.
 

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He was harsh, but there was alot of helpful truths he pushed to the forefront.

The women trying to wait until their 30's to settle down was the biggest dynamic I never even thought of, but it's true as fukk.
With multiple kids from multiple baby daddies while having the attitude that you are beneath them doing you a favor.. Biggest con played on men and MANY accept it like its normal because they possibly grew up that way and have very low self value
 
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Yeah shyt like that is unacceptable completely kills any good will :scust:

I wouldn't put up with a female dating coach that stated black men are the least attractive "in all ranks". It's pure hate, not constructive criticism
Breh both genders would be deemed least attractive according to that racist golden ratio.smh
 
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