Now this is an issue she should be listened to about. She is definitely an expert on this.That's why having an overly huge ass is over rated unless you are using it to make money. It becomes a spectacle and gets you way more attention than you want.
You want something you can cover up when you want.
My butt is big but not so big where I can't hide or downplay it. Never had a kid laugh at it so I must be alright...however I have had a few fondle it...little perverts.