Kids ruin marriages

[Will Ross]

 

[Diondon]

They better not. I'll beat they ass

 

[rogue_riezo]

Every one of my friends who had a kid said that their marriages have never been the same since.Their wife isn't as effectionate towards them anymore..the sex life is nearly non existent and their both always on edge from lack of sleep .

Once you have that kid he or she is the most important person in your life now not your partner.That relationship will never be the same and never be as strong as it once was once you have a kid

This is why I leave women the moment I find out that I've impregnated them, no use staying with a woman that can't put my needs ahead of my kids needs . This way I get the relationship and stay not needing to take care of the child I played a part in creating. One day (heaven willing) I'll meet a woman who is exactly the same with me after we have a kid together, still devotes all her time to me, let's me sleep in and not need to worry about feeding the kid etc. We can go from strength to strength in our relationship with a kid we neglected his/her whole life.

 

[IAmGettingAMailOrderBride]

I ain't worried
Never havin them

 

[Real N Quotes]

very true...a lot of men step out on their wives when kids come into the picture

Life is about making adjustments. A child should not to adjust to a marriage it should be the other way around. But Satan put that bug in a lot of selfish peoples heart. Not everybody has integrity, at the same time that doesn't make them terrible human beings, just flawed like us all.

 

[tonyclifton]

Good points.as far as the complaints it's not as much not being able to go out when want it's more the wife isn't showing u the same amount of love an defection as before and the alone bonding time between each other is gone

Which Is why I say it's a testing period. It's not that she doesn't want to or you don't either, it is what it is. Kids take away time and that's a fact unless you got celeb money where they're raised by Nannies. If you both can recognize it's not y'all and if you stick together the time will come where you'll have a nice family and freedom to do whatever. I still get angry sometimes when my friends are texting me to go here or there, knowing damn well I can't . Same with my girl. It's just a test man ya gotta push through it if you care about her.

My friends clown me me but I always tell em,when I'm 35 I'll be able to do whatever the fukk I want. Y'all are gonna have little fukking kids running around and I'll be the one laughing at you. I can't imagine having to wait until 50 to have some freedom fukk that I'm getting it out of the way