Ladies: After an argument u give your man the cold shoulder

[Malcolmxxx_23]

im going off on you , thats how u feel ehh? so far all you have done is annoy me , you havent done anything to warrant me going off on you .... yet.

pls friend

i mean no harm

 

[BillCosbyAteMyHomework]

It's confusing cause I'm using misdirection.

Also I read that wrong. I thought it said a guy you were with. While on the subject you seem disappointed he doesnt piss you off, why is that?

Oh not at all. I love our drama free, loving relationship that's full of communication.

 

[villain]

Don't try to dive in the female brain...you will just damage your head by hitting the shallow bottom

 

[Dwolf]

Oh not at all. I love our drama free, loving relationship that's full of communication.

Where do you live?

 

[BillCosbyAteMyHomework]

Where do you live?

Denver...

 

[DaChampIsHere]

I always try to clear up everything right there and then. All of that not speaking to each other for days ish is childish, IMO. Get over your feelings and deal with the problem.

Me and my girl are of similar minds so we just try to calm down then and there and discuss it and then get to that good ole make up part

 

[karim]

cause you pissed off with him and don't want to talk to him for a cpl days. Do you get pissed when the guy doesn't attempt to call/text you? or do you find him to be a lil bytch with no pride if he texts you the next day?

women can be confusing because I've done both. When I don't call...apparently I'm fukking a side chick and being insensitive, and don't care about the relationship . And I've also called the next day to apologize and was met with

wtf do you want during this cold period?

personally, I don't call, even if I was in the wrong. I prefer to let her calm down and call me up when she's ready. I got things to keep my mind busy plus I'm not the one that's mad.

they always cave if you ignore them back. always. the silent treatment only works if you're bothered by it and try to get them to talk to you. if you don't, they will get mad at first but that changes to quickly. depending on what type of woman you are dealing with she will either try to make up, act as if there never was a fight, or call and yell at you because you had the nerve to ignore her ignoring you. in the latter case tell her and not to call you again until she comes to her senses.

i used to be dumb and apologize when i was young but that got me nowhere and only resulted in more nagging. then i realized that a woman will never ever apologize for anything unless you dumped her or she thinks you are about to dump her. if that isn't the case no matter what happened she will try and act as if it's your fault. that's when i changed my strategy and i haven't looked back ever since.

 

[Arishok]

I'm an emotional roller coaster so I usually don't hold on to anger for a long time but I do lash out and feel bad about it later. I then proceed to apologize to the person either the next day or that same day, starting to think I have onsets of BPD sometimes

 

[Akata Man Bromo]

On another note, that makeup sex shyt might be the goat sheez lol

 

[Akata Man Bromo]

I remember my Ex throwing a glass plate at me while she was getting dishes out of the dish washer lol, I ducked that shyt and glass was all over the living room I ran up on her and put her in a bear hug to prevent her from throwing other things out of frustration. Im squeezing her hard saying "chill, chill" Man I looked her dead in the eyes and thought to myself damn my girl is sexy as fukk lol...Mind you I was angry as hell but....That bear hug turned into deep kissing and the next thing I know we are fukking on the floor in the kitchen best shyt ever lol....She even cooked while I cleaned up the mess in the living room

 

[AZBeauty]

Well it depends on how the argument ended. If he ended the argument with him saying he was sorry (if he was the one in the wrong) and I feel it is a legitimate apology then its all good. I let it go as fast as it came. If the issue is still unresolved and I'm getting phone calls trying to blow over the matter then I'm not trying to talk and he would definitely get the cold shoulder. I dont believe in leaving things unsettled only for them to manifest in some other trivial argument later (because it will).

 

[Seea]

I never got pissed, it was always better if they didn't call while I didn't wanna talk to them.

 

[RealAssanova]

if we have an argument, we gotta hash shyt out there and then. No other time. If she hits me with this gay azz shyt, i ain't gonne say shyt..just dip.

and prolly outta da relationship too.

 

[devizelle]

I've learned that the silent treatment isn't really a good way to get your point across... communication is always better. Let her chill out for a little bit and then try to work through the problem. I totally understand where that feeling comes from though bc sometimes you get frustrated and just wanna shut down.

 

[Keep_It_Hip_Hop_Fam]

I agree with the deleting her fukking number...no time for childish games

And you definitely shouldn't be the first to contact her

She can fukk off..she's replaceable...she'll understand that when she finally caves in and contacts you back