ladies be honest you hate it when dude says "take my number instead"

[Malcolmxxx_23]

Why not thoe

Cause she has no idea what to do after the first initial contact is made

 

[Youseenmywork]

Cause she has no idea what to do after the first initial contact is made

You know a lot of this is due to the fact women cant take rejection like a man right ...

 

[Youseenmywork]

Since 9 out of 10 men that approach me are wack than YASss! I would love to be given the choice to (not) call.

Please men keep offering your number.

May i ask what makes them wack ?

 

[LadySimone]

So your better than the dudes who u ride the bus with??

Most of then, yes. I'm going to and fromwork when I'm on the bus. I'm dressed casually smart, hair well groomed, teeth brushed, natural make up, clothes clean, sitting there either listening to music or reading a book. Then I have your cousins who looks like he hasn't been home in two weeks come talk to me. Then when he hears my accent, I'm caught in the death grip.

It doesn't help that I live in the hood and the hood is characterised by low quality men and women for that matter. Instead of questioning me why not encourage your brehs in the art of discipline ie don't to chat up girls when they are down and out busted looking. Tell them to get to a better point in their life and then search for women.

 

[YaBoy]

Since 9 out of 10 men that approach me are wack than YASss! I would love to be given the choice to (not) call.

Please men keep offering your number.

What does that say about you when 90percent of the dude that approach you are wack?

 

[Still Benefited]

Im actually curious to see how women look at this,are they looking at you like "This scary azz nikka scared to call and get rejected,but he cute so ima call anyway" or thinking what you say.

I don't think it makes a difference...we usually both have each other number when I do it....Do you really wanna wait for these females to overthink shyt on some "Whats Malcom gon think about me if I call him first?" ...Chances are she thinkin you gon think about her exactly what u posted...That she thirsty for the d and you got all the control,same thing I think when women approach me.

I think this might backfire breh,how annoying will some women be in trying to prove "Im not as thirsty as I look" after she makes that first call.

 

[LadySimone]

May i ask what makes them wack ?

I've noticed poor hygiene. Dirty clothes and unbrushed teeth. Then they don't know how to talk to a strange woman. I hate when people ask me my name and a bunch of personal questions and they can't even tell me there's. And please stop trying to shake my hand.

 

[Colicat]

Why not thoe

I've never had to.... .....

I've thought about approaching men, but I haven't tried

 

[Willie]

Stopped taking numbers awhile ago.

Gotta make em choose up. If not

But normally



Less footwork every time.

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

Most of then, yes. I'm going to and fromwork when I'm on the bus. I'm dressed casually smart, hair well groomed, teeth brushed, natural make up, clothes clean, sitting there either listening to music or reading a book. Then I have your cousins who looks like he hasn't been home in two weeks come talk to me. Then when he hears my accent, I'm caught in the death grip.

It doesn't help that I live in the hood and the hood is characterised by low quality men and women for that matter. Instead of questioning me why not encourage your brehs in the art of discipline ie don't to chat up girls when they are down and out busted looking. Tell them to get to a better point in their life and then search for women.[/QUO
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You both carry bus passes at the end of the day

#youokaysis

 

[Youseenmywork]

Most of then, yes. I'm going to and fromwork when I'm on the bus. I'm dressed casually smart, hair well groomed, teeth brushed, natural make up, clothes clean, sitting there either listening to music or reading a book. Then I have your cousins who looks like he hasn't been home in two weeks come talk to me. Then when he hears my accent, I'm caught in the death grip.

It doesn't help that I live in the hood and the hood is characterised by low quality men and women for that matter. Instead of questioning me why not encourage your brehs in the art of discipline ie don't to chat up girls when they are down and out busted looking. Tell them to get to a better point in their life and then search for women.

If a man WAITS till he gets to a better point in his life to speak to woman ...then more women will clown his lack of social skills ...and then it will be some other compliant thread on the coli about it .

 

[LadySimone]

Sneer all you want but the problem I notice is that black men see it as apart of their identity to try to chat up any woman every women under any circumstance. It's a lack of discipline. If you're at a point in your life when it's not possible or reasonable to brush your teeth and wear clean clothes then you should have enough self respect to abstain and get your life together.

 

[LadySimone]

If a man WAITS till he gets to a better point in his life to speak to woman ...then more women will clown his lack of social skills ...and then it will be some other compliant thread on the coli about it .

Self respect and honor. This is sad I have to explain this.

 

[Youseenmywork]

I've never had to.... .....

I've thought about approaching men, but I haven't tried

I think more women should since it is a new day and time ...i still approach women that catch my eye thoe . I dont see why women cant do the same cause i know its some men that catch you guys eyes as well .

 

[LadySimone]

This isn't about money or class. This is about self esteem respect. I'm not rich but I take reasonable measures to be presentable and hygienic. I try to have manners.