ladies be honest you hate it when dude says "take my number instead"

[King P]

Never had a guy do this and idc how attractive he is I wouldn't take his number and I wouldn't call him. Has nothing to do with having the upper hand or anything like that. I just don't initiate anything with guys. You either have to do everything or leave me alone.

Never said I was special. I said you either do everything or leave me alone. You dont have to do anything you dont want to do.

 

[Wild self]

I guess he has never heard of patrice oneal has he

Nah, the info he tries to hide has already been revealed.

He can keep trying as he likes. I ain't hating on him, but someone will reveal EVERYTHING much sooner than later.

 

[Wild self]

Oh yeah. We know the game. White dude can show up in Target clothes, driving a beater, etc. Black chick with wench it up in a hurry.

Black dude comes with the same clothes, driving the same beater, etc., he better have something tremendous to offset it, else he's gettin' laughed out the room. It's crazy.

Black entertainers done fukked it up for the regular guy. That is why you gotta develop a$$hole tendencies with comedy to keep these harlots in line and make them . They (society, women, etc.) can try to suppress brehs, but if there is a will, there is always a way to overcome such bullshyt.

 

[Raava]

Im waiting

Changed my mind, don't like it.

 

[Wild self]

Changed my mind, don't like it.

Don't like what?

 

[Canon]

Never said I was special. I said you either do everything or leave me alone. You dont have to do anything you dont want to do.

So you put no effort towards fostering a relationship with other people?

 

[KenyaDoll]

I don't approach men so if a man approached me then gave me his number (as if I'm the one interested), I have and will tell the guy in a nice way that I likely won't call. No sense in wasting his time.

The only guy I ever called after he passed me his number was my college (first) boyfriend and I didn't call him for three weeks (after he keep getting mutual friends to ask me when I was going to call). I had to actually look for where I threw his number.

I personally think that approach is lame but I can see why some guys do it.

 

[Wild self]

I don't approach men so if a man approached me then gave me his number (as if I'm the one interested), I have and will tell the guy in a nice way that I likely won't call. No sense in wasting his time.

The only guy I ever called after he passed me his number was my college (first) boyfriend and I didn't call him for three weeks (after he keep getting mutual friends to ask me when I was going to call). I had to actually look for where I threw his number.

I personally think that approach is lame but I can see why some guys do it.

So how do you like dudes to approach ladies?

 

[KenyaDoll]

So how do you like dudes to approach ladies?

If I was ever interested in dating a complete random stranger (I'm not), I would prefer conversation then take my number and call me.

Approaching me then passing the ball won't work at all (it's like he's afraid to follow through with something that he started).

 

[WeDemBoyz]

I have no problem texting a guy first. I don't really put too much stock in it though, if he doesn't reply I'm letting that shyt go faster than Princess Elsa. He's essentially a stranger at that point.

 

[Desirous]

I really don't care.

Usually I'd rather get his number so that I can choose not to call him if I'm not that interested.

 

[Kenny West]

If I was ever interested in dating a complete random stranger (I'm not), I would prefer conversation then take my number and call me.

Approaching me then passing the ball won't work at all (it's like he's afraid to follow through with something that he started).

It's a low investment way that cut's a lot of the bullshyt if you spit to multiple chicks. The same girls that want you to follow through and invest invest invest be the same ones throwing up roadblocks and bullshytting and whatnot. One monkey don't stop the show

As for the whole chicks saying "I'd never initiate contact" I feel like they're being real cause a lot of girls really do live by that but on the other hand it's bullshyt cause depending on who the dude is that gives that number they'll throw that ideal away in a heartbeat. It's just ego shyt anyway but there will be dudes who come forward either way so they can afford to be like that.

 

[Tropical Fantasy]

Never said I was special. I said you either do everything or leave me alone. You dont have to do anything you dont want to do.

curious, what's the reasoning behind this

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

It makes no difference. Worrying who is calling who first is childish. He still footing the bill on the date so.... Who calls who doesn't change relationships dynamic for me.

 

[CinnaSlim]

If you give me your number first, if I dont hit u up right away, you'll probably never hear from me because Im forgetful and lazy.

I dont care to wait or play games.