ladies be honest you hate it when dude says "take my number instead"

[KOOL-AID]

It makes no difference. Worrying who is calling who first is childish. He still footing the bill on the date so.... Who calls who doesn't change relationships dynamic for me.

I wish u would learn to love people and use things and not the other way around!!!!

 

[GiGi]

For her to put away the pride and make the initial contact

Damn that means she really wants to fukk with you...and you pretty much control everything..


But ya keep asking for numbers brehs

I NEVER make the first contact. If a guy is not willing to chase me then he does not want me badly enough. Men PURSUE the women that THEY truly want.

 

[Wild self]

If you give me your number first, if I dont hit u up right away, you'll probably never hear from me because Im forgetful and lazy.

I dont care to wait or play games.

LOL. If a dude hit you up, you probably ignore him too. Courting is dead. Might as well hook up with a decent guy that ain't a bum and about something.

 

[CinnaSlim]

LOL. If a dude hit you up, you probably ignore him too. Courting is dead. Might as well hook up with a decent guy that ain't a bum and about something.

Not usually, I usually have convos with strangers outta boredom. I only ignore if Im doing something more important like watching tv or if they annoy me.

 

[Wild self]

Not usually, I usually have convos with strangers outta boredom. I only ignore if Im doing something more important like watching tv or if they annoy me.

OK I see. Would you casually date a man that you had a good connection with?

 

[CinnaSlim]

OK I see. Would you casually date a man that you had a good connection with?

Yeah, of course. Im a very casual person.

 

[GiGi]

LOL. If a dude hit you up, you probably ignore him too. Courting is dead. Might as well hook up with a decent guy that ain't a bum and about something.

....only with certain types of men.

 

[Blackout]

....only with certain types of men.

 

[Ashley Banks]

I said or leave me alone wtf you're acting like that isn't an option.

Nah, in the 21st century, women better start going after what they want or else they going to be disappointed with the men they end up with.

I don't have to do anything.

So you put no effort towards fostering a relationship with other people?

Not with men.

curious, what's the reasoning behind this

Just not my thing. I'm not going to have sex with them, don't wanna be friends with them (according to the coli men and women can't be friends) , and I'm never looking for a relationship so there's no reason for me to do anything to get a man's attention.

 

[TooLazyToMakeUp1]

I think the reason more women dont approach men is because of the social constructs that they are the ones to BE pursued . That and nikkas call them thirsty ...im 30 so im not finna call a beautiful woman that approachs me thristy . It would be diffrent since majority of the time im doing the approaching

Alot of women don't know how to flirt without giving of a vibe like she wants to be pulled into the nearest broom closet.

Even still, I've never heard a dude call a woman thirsty to her face, so that can't be a legitimate reason why they rarely approach

 

[Ashley Banks]

I guess I have to completely break it down for you guys to understand it I keep forgetting where I am.

okay...

You either have to do everything (if you want to) or leave me alone. If you want to talk to talk to me YOU have to do all work(if you want to). and if you don't want to do all the work LEAVE ME ALONE. Because I'm not doing anything, don't come up to me and give me your number because I will not call you. I don't expect you to do anything, I will be perfectly fine with you not talking to me at all. but don't expect me to do anything because I won't.

Get it now? No where did I say I was special. I'm not saying a guy has to approach me like I'm telling him what to do, I'm telling him he has to approach me IF HE WANTS TO TALK TO ME because I won't say anything to him.

Understand? or no?

 

[TRY GOD]

I don't understand WHY men initiate talk to random strange women. It's one of the most dangerous things you can do.

• Dangerous to the ego
• Dangerous because street harassment claims
• Dangerous because you don't know who or what the female is associated with (boyfriends crimes)
• Dangerous because ultimately it's a waste of your valuable time, both short term in regards to rejection, and long term because you most likely have nothing in common

nikkas need to fukking wise up. They still using old tactics that worked when women WERE NOT AS EMPOWERED as they are now. Back in the day you can talk to random strange women, because you would go through a courting process. you talk to her, find out who she is, meet her parents and ask permission. There was a dynamic where EACH PARTY BENEFITED. The man was the financial support and protection, and the woman was the home maker.


WE DON'T LIVE IN THOSE TIMES ANYMORE. Yes dating is a numbers game, and yes streetgame can be successful. But use logic men, Why would you want to talk to a RANDOM STRANGER in hopes for romance or even sex?

Lets leave out the fact of STDS, and the dangers I listed above. You have no Idea what state of mind this woman is in.


I don't talk to women on the street, infact I actively avoid them. My mom told me not to talk to strangers.

 

[Canon]

I guess I have to completely break it down for you guys to understand it I keep forgetting where I am.

okay...

You either have to do everything (if you want to) or leave me alone. If you want to talk to talk to me YOU have to do all work(if you want to). and if you don't want to do all the work LEAVE ME ALONE. Because I'm not doing anything, don't come up to me and give me your number because I will not call you. I don't expect you to do anything, I will be perfectly fine with you not talking to me at all. but don't expect me to do anything because I won't.

Get it now? No where did I say I was special. I'm not saying a guy has to approach me like I'm telling him what to do, I'm telling him he has to approach me IF HE WANTS TO TALK TO ME because I won't say anything to him.

Understand? or no?

you sound like an absolutely terrible person

 

[LadySimone]

Why black men though? White men dress bummy and still pull a top notch black woman. Why only black men gotta feel that pressure?

You don't actually believe that.

 

[Ashley Banks]

you sound like an absolutely terrible person

Because I don't approach men? Didn't know you had to approach men to be considered a good person.

but okay.